I should know better, but it feels so good.
Hooked on a local (Detroit area) stripper. WTF am I thinking? I'm having one hell of a lot of fun with her OTC, so far financially it's not hurting me (2 years into this) but the problem is I'm beginning to like her. You know, when you know better but don't care, that's a problem. Thinking about going cold turkey but my balls hurt when they're to full.
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If it's not breaking the bank, you're having fun, and she is giving little or no drama, I see no reason to end it. If you end it, you're probably gonna find a replacement and down the road (a year, a few months, etc.) you will be in the same predicament again.
Why do I think this would make a beautiful and profitable tea shirt
Another great shirt
ppwh's comment seemed very sensible (enjoy the ride but know it's only a ride)
Women - lowpaw does it in half a sentence.
"Its only a problem if you make it one."
True. But part of me would love to see her made house mom at some random club and just sit back and watch the fox run the hen house as a fly on the wall :)
Run, do not walk, to the nearest exit!
You're in Detroit for fuck sake - nobody is buying your argument that you are still seeing her because you need her for ball relief. You are seeing her because you like being with her and are comfortable with her. When those feelings start, this whole things turns from entertainment to something more complicated and almost inevitably damaging. If you're lucky, you'll escape with nothing more than hurt feelings. If not, she'll do far more damage to your bankroll, something which I've seen too many times to count with over-emotional men and the strippers that they like.
Start here: https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=1…
Then this one: https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=2…
If you're still not convinced, go here: https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=3…
Part II if that last one is even more revealing.
You've been warned.
As we get older, I think we naturally yearn for the things that we can no longer have or maybe even what we missed altogether. New, passionate, spring time love ranks right up there. I am not as old as some on here, but as a guy well into his 40s, with a wife and three kids to boot, I'm old enough to understand that those days are behind me. I think that this type of acceptance is what keeps me and many other guys grounded enough not to chase after things that we can no longer have.
It is their time now, and the time of our kids if we have them, and others in the newer generation. Our time for that sort of thing has come and gone. Old guys chasing after young strippers inevitably ends badly. The only question is how much of our time, money, emotions and dignity we sacrifice before the train arrives at the station.
Good luck.
Lucky I haven't been down the rabbit hole. Probably came close to putting a foot in when I offered 1k for play which she turned down. Did me a favor and didn't even know it...