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8 years ago
Many strippers think stripping is being paid to party. If they wouldn't let you grind their ass at a nightclub on the dancefloor for free, they won't give you any attention at the SC for $. They pick customers along racial lines all the time.
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Dont ask for a strippers number on the first time you see her ITC. Only 2nd time. That way you know extras/OTC are on the table and not "sweetie come in tonight" crap.
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8 years ago
B or D. Completely ignore her. Get another stripper to sit at your table, take her to VIP. Never look at your ATF. Your ATF has to understand it is a business and you are NOT in love with her. If you get a drop of jealousy of out her, it puts you in the advantage.
"she has gotten demanding bc she's in a jam"
text "What are you gonna do about it baby?"
"she starts extorting me by telling me about offers she's been getting"
text "how much is he offering?" then respond, "have fun tonight [fucking him] babe"
"she's not responding to texts"
then dont text her
"I have been loyal all along"
means nothing aslong as she takes $ from you, tell her if she will fuck for free (wifey/GF), you are exclusive, if you green money pay her to give you attention, you will still mess around with other strippers form time to time
"she has told me if she catches me with another dancer she will tear out my larynx and gut her like a fish"
If ATF really feels that way about you, offer ATF to move into your home.
"her club rotation is frequent due to being routinely hired and fired, and she's just about to start or is already PMS-ing"
Doesn't excuse her behavior. Real women will apologize 1-2 hours to 1-2 days later if they say nasty stuff they didnt mean from PMS. If she doesnt realize what she said was wrong, then she actually meant it.
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8 years ago
Just say "sorry to hear that" or "man that sucks" or "what you gonna do about it?" "whats your plan on X?" when they tell you [probably untrue] tragic stuff as reasons they want $ from you.
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8 years ago
"She is different than any other dancer I have ever met."
She is brewing love inside you. If she doesn't see her $ per night from you rise after a month she will chase you off as a customer.
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8 years ago
Before the SC, get some $100 bills and put them in your wallet. Next time you her ITC, DONT buy any LDs, just discuss OTC and casually show her all the $100s, dont say you will give her all of them, it is just a psychological thing for her. Like a pussy seeing a squirrel. It might convince her if she doesn't get them, some other stripper will offer OTC tonight to you and get those $100s.
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8 years ago
Dont masturbate for a few days before the SC.
Assuming you aren't circumcised put Astroglide or KY on your dick before you leave the house, or if your SC has no patdown, carry it into the SC and put it on in the bathroom.
Don't go to the SC that day if you can't get an erection easily from watching porn and a little bit of spanking the monkey.
It is easier for me to get hard in the 2-4 hours after I wake up in the morning than at night. Change your sleep patterns before the SC, or change your SC visit times.
Wear a condom to the SC. Goto the bathroom, get hard in a stall, put the rubber on, go back out. The plastic keeps the roughness (pain) of your pants from making you loose the erection.
Change your underwear type to something tighter so your dick is more "in position" when she starts, or really move your dick to the right position when she turns around for the first time during the LD.
"During a lap dance, I might get a weak erection but it does not last long and being grinded on can be painful when limp."
Might be psychological. I get hard and then usually loose it in 5 minutes when my head realizes there wont be any extras or fucking in VIP and in the the first 5 minutes, I've seen all that I will see for the rest of the 10-25 minutes. Rubbing her pussy and FIV (mini-extras/free extras) keep me hard to the end of the time, but those strippers are very rare to find.
"pain" during a LD means your stripper is TOO FUCKING FAT. Get a spinner stripper.
"Has anybody popped viagra to get lap dances? I don't seek extras in the club."
Yes. It works but I need 50-100 mg. Viagra doesn't work if your brain decides the dancer is "ugly". Viagra keeps it up, but it can't get you up if you dont like her looks, or there is something mental in your mind or you have a grudge or silent anger against the stripper. It is a reverse Pinocchio. If she turned you down for extras, or spent too much time with her regular instead of you and your mind is jealous. Those thoughts are poison to an erection.
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8 years ago
"I've known this dancer for a few years now from coming in the club and she knows I'm a real nice guy and I respect women and I am polite!"
A PL that doesn't have the balls to ask for what he wants, easy mark.
"A few times I got her a teddy bear"
Interesting choice of gifts since the bear isn't pawnable like jewelry.
"and ever since then she will make out with me during the lap dances and intense making out too with a lot of tounge !"
Makes no sense that she would offer services NOW, when she didn't for years. I smell troll.
"Do u think she was doing it to reward me for getting her the bear or attracted to me ?"
It is a reward for the bear, she thinks you have feelings for her, so she will try to grow them in you with DFK as her investment for more $ from you. If she were attracted, you would meet OTC for free for sex or non-sex.
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8 years ago
read my post https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=41262 . Ultimately it was just business with Madison, the kissing and DFK was an attempt to see how much $ I am willing to spend on her as a PL thinking she is in love with me (she ISNT) and to rake in a regular. Never forget you are opening your wallet. If you open your wallet, it is fake.
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8 years ago
Alot of good advice in this thread already. Mine is, dont ever text anything you wouldn't want her to show to all the other strippers in the DR or the GM of the SC. My ATF routinely shows me text convos from other strippers, SC staff, and her family where they get heated and bothered at her for legit or BS reasons. Anything you text will be petty and angry, so just dont. If she rethinks it, or sees you with another stripper (like your #2), you will have the upper hand for the rest of the relationship (2nd half) with your ex-ATF, if you choose to take her back, which I dont think you will. She put you in the dog house at week 4 and you didnt do anything about it until week 11. She won't be able to ever do that again if she comes back to you instead of you begging or acting catty or waving $$$.
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8 years ago
I buy 1 semi-private dance, then based on 1 song, decide on private VIP. At some point try moving your hand slowly down her stomach to her covered pussy. If she immediately grabs and repositions your hand. VIP is a no-go. If she lets you lightly touch and play with her covered VG, VIP is going to be worth it. I don't even ask anymore what a dancers touching rules are. If you have to ask, they will always say no tits and no pussy/ass crack. If you have to ask, it means you are a sucker and that they dont have to do ANYTHING to close the sale since you must be a SC virgin. I've gotten much better luck at my regular SC once I decided to STOP asking. I only ask about touching if a stripper, usually new, straight up says "I dont do extras" when sitting down next to me.
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8 years ago
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8 years ago
She is taking you for a ride instead of you taking her for a ride. Just ask "when do I get to see you again? I miss you".
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8 years ago
If a stripper says cameras, ask "how can the camera be turned off?" and evaluate the offer she gives from there. In most clubs the cameras are used only if there is a complaint. They are never reviewed otherwise. Dancer stole the customers wallet/CC/watch and customer complains. 1 dancer reports another dancer doing extras. Customer put a knife to dancer's neck and fucked her BB.
In some clubs (no contact/bikini), the cameras are watched by the bouncer standing at the entrance to the VIP room area. Walking by with your stripper you can get a quick glance of his tv screen. The bouncer also WILL walk in and stop the dance if you touch the dancer and she knocks your hands off more than 2-3 times, or within a couple seconds if the dancer doesn't knock your hands off immediately. TUSCL reviews usually mention if bouncers or waitresses interrupt VIP or CR rooms to stop mileage, and the SC I described is listed as worthless on TUSCL except for beer and ESPN.
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8 years ago
2 other than me. Both have grey hair and are older than me. Other possible-regs she blocks them or they loose interest within a couple visits or days because they text her for basically free sex multiple times per day and use their chain, their car, their cap, and their dick to justify why a stripper should fuck them for free.
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8 years ago
SCs are awesome because the only judgement is your wallet. Not your watch, not your car, not your hair, not your biceps, not your height, not your voice, not your tats.
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8 years ago
"1. Girls say they are a lesbian as a way of getting out of extras with guys. "Oh I'll give you a lapdance but I'm not giving you a blowjob because I'm a lesbian.""
Yep. They use lesbian as an excuse to not do extras/FS.
"2. Strippers are more open sexually than the average woman because where else do you go to work in lingerie? Therefore being more open sexually can lead to bisexuality."
I dont think most strippers are bi, they just dont give a fuck who is kissing them when $ is involved, since they are "bi" on stage, not in their private life which always includes living with a dopeman or looser BF who "takes care of their needs".
"3. The illusion - strippers will say anything to get guys more horny which will open up their wallets more. Therefore strippers will "claim" to be bisexual or lesbian to get guys motor running, which leads to more lap dances, VIP sessions, etc. "
Yep. 2 dancers walk upto a PL, and say they are lesbians and suggest a VIP room trip with BOTH of them for 2x the price obviously. The little head is thinking instead of the big head. I've never tried 2 dancers at the same time, but I think mileage will be much worse. I almost never get air dances with 1 on 1 in VIP room. But I am afraid if I do 2 on 1 in VIP, I will just have 2 strippers make out and DATY on the bench on the other side of the VIP booth/room (basically "air dancing"), but never touch me. I can get lesbo shows for free at the pole. I am not a 18 year old whose eyes will drop out "OMG LESBIANS" when he sees 2 girls kissing. I am like, "why is she sucking her pussy instead of my dick? This is pointless."
Various strippers try to dislodge me from ATF by sitting down with me and ATF and suggesting VIP with 2 on 1 but I always turn them down, but because ATF is the only stripper who breaks the rules out of dozens of strippers I tried at this club. I'd be insane to spend any $ on another stripper if she is in the SC that night. I am not a 18 year old whose eyes will pop out when he sees 2 girls kissing. I will just think "This is retarded, why is she sucking pussy on the bench opposite me in VIP instead of my dick when I can see DATY for free on the public stage?"
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8 years ago
At my fav no alcohol SC the non-alcoholic drinks (Coke/Pepsi and artisan sodas) cost slight more more than half the food menu. I've gotten the food before, some dishes (wraps/salads/seafood entrees) are awesome, others like the burgers are liquid grease. I very rarely order food for a number of reasons.
1. spend $ on girls, not food and more lbs of fat to my stomach
2. breath after eating for DFK
3. kitchen open only fri/sat, weekdays they have an unimpressive greasy Sterno buffet some catering contractor brings from offsite
4. when I leave the SC I want my liquor to hit hard, that doesn't happen if I ate
In some cities, SCs are required by state liquor law or local entertainment license/zoning law to be full menu restaurants, no matter how unprofitable the kitchen operation is.
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8 years ago
Stop posting here and go to her new club. Dont ask if she is there, just act like a random new customer.Test her by seeing if she will recognize you doing her circle. Do not text her u r going 2 her new club or that u r there, that would make you look desperate.
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
No dayshifts around me but I prefer weekdays. Unless you are a bachlor party or dopeman any stripper u would fuck will ignore you on a weekend unless you are her long time regular.
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8 years ago
At my prom, one 17 year old brought her 33 year old BF. He drives a Bently. Nobody said a thing.
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8 years ago
A new college girl appeared at my contact ratchet SC. She only worked at a no contact SC in another state. She asked me on here 2nd day working there if it is an extras club since 2 guys asked for full service that night so far. I smiled and said "There is no such thing as a 100% clean SC [ATF]. If you cant do it ITC, there is OTC and nobody can control what 2 adults do. I can't tell you what I got from other dancers [ATF], but if you go on TUSCL or SCL, over 5 years, there isn't a single report of extras at this SC, while many write the VIP was satisfying, or they will repeat, but goto X club or Y club (2 miles away), every other VIP room review says extras, so if there are extras in the VIP room at this SC, they are very rare [ATF]".
She is ultra low mileage so she is on my do not repeat list but this dancer is still here 2 weeks later.
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8 years ago
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gammanu95My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
I agree with OP. I am not here to social with PLs at a sausage factory serving piss water on tap about politics. I dont goto regular bars and never will. I am only here for the X chromosome.
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8 years ago
All 3 of my regular SCs have no day shift. So "day shift" means "sunday night through thursday night" to me. Wed and Thu are the best days IMO for new face dancer. Sun/Mon/Tue are for prearranged fav dates.
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8 years ago
Another reason I prefer BYOB and no-alcohol SCs.