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5 years ago
@doctorevil
the Green New Deal comment reminds me of when Colbert used to say "George W Bush - Great President or Greatest President?" as a topic of the show haha
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5 years ago
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gStephThe view from the other side of the room
Muddy dropped so much wisdom in those articles I have become inspired.
I've already DM'd him 35x asking if I can be his apprentice. He'll break eventually - trust me, I read his methods.
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5 years ago
These situations to me are kinda like when you notice a coworker is hot. But when you are outside of work you don't focus on them as much...then you realize they are 'office-hot'.
If you are one of the nicer people that treats her well etc...when she's at work she may seek you out and cut loose because you are one of the best options or maybe THE best in her mind!
So just take the W and enjoy it and enjoy the ride as long as you can.
She also COULD really be into you, but always take the defensive approach! You are still a paying customer and most girls don't view customers and civilians the same if they met you in the club.
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5 years ago
The nonstop childish political fights are the best proof that the majority of men here are 50+.
People of all ages get into politics but I feel like it's generally the 'older' people who think yelling at their opposition will change somebody's mind or show their mental superiority. Quite ridiculous.
It's like Thanksgiving meals with extended family, every day!
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5 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
These are great numbers for a median but if you really want to see what the top talent gets in tech, start reading the teamblind forums for compensation.
You also can go to levels.fyi
At best, two of these are tier1 companies. Google doesn't blow people away with comp like it used to. Of course there are exceptions - MS/FB/Google are known to have very nice pay for the highest tier Technical Fellow ranks.
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5 years ago
> I like SirLapdanceanot better.
Hahahaha - well played, sir
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5 years ago
Ace - you gotta sort issues out with your wife, man. It won't be easy but really what is?
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5 years ago
> I go to strip clubs specifically to *not* have a girlfriend.
This resonates.
I'm aware of the other guys my CF messes around with/has messed around with. I've shared some info from my side as well. It works out - I don't expect it to last forever - we have lots of fun when I see her.
Work is my priority and focus, so going to the club is a nice time to relax and have fun.
Similar situation when I travel routinely and see other girls in another state.
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5 years ago
For some girls I imagine the consistency of having a set schedule and location works well with other factors in their life.
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5 years ago
> There is nothing anyone I pay could say to me that I would accept as the truth. Just smile, say thank you and protect yourself.
Yep. Sometimes you may actually be THE favorite customer to see by a girl. Much more often than not - you are just another routine atm.
Nothing wrong with that either way as long as you are having fun and not getting caught up in it all.
The game, is the game.
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5 years ago
Confirm she has a warranty - if not; GTFO
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5 years ago
I've gone north of 1k more often than I'd like to admit. Had fun so didn't really care.
The absolute max is a hard thing to say. It all depends on your situation/budget/discipline.
You could make 500k+ a year but only allow yourself to spend $300 out of discipline.
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5 years ago
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azddOn the prowl in Tucson and Phoenix
> my guess is that the system automatically sends these messages to entice the SD to buy a paid subscription. a little underhanded if you ask me.
I'm pretty sure this has been the MO of many if not all dating and sugar based websites where there is a free tier and then a premium tier
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5 years ago
Very low percentages in my niche field. There are often allegations of men keeping high tech companies as a boy's club - but the reality people don't want to hear is........VERY FEW women ever apply. And then - like men - often many completely lack the qualifications to be in a top tier company. This doesn't mean pedigree but being able to dig into very technical topics and show expertise while interviewing.
The numbers are in fact growing - which is great - different people bring different perspectives...but it will just take time.
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5 years ago
Honestly - as long as they are legal, of age etc etc etc (things I hope are a given) - just use WhatsApp/Snapchat. Nobody gives a shit about you fucking a 25 year old.
Personally speaking - if you want to be as private as possible - get a burner phone that you pay for in cash, re-up in cash and remove the battery and only plug the battery in when you plan to use it. Cycle it every X weeks/months.
Do not plug the battery in from your own personal home/work/vehicle.
But at some point you'll ask how paranoid you need to be.
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5 years ago
WhatsApp is free and while it is claimed to be end to end encrypted - do you really believe that a Facebook owned company is being honest?
You can look it up and they tell how many details outside of the messages are shared with Govts. So it becomes a game of technicalities and metadata analysis rather than specific messages.
That said, they likely don't care about you fucking OTC or with escorts.
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5 years ago
Good clubs are not easy to just hop to where I live, so I usually plan it in advance by at least a few days. It also lets me confirm that my favorite girl will be working.
Crowded, loud bars give me anxiety most of the time but I always feel chill going to a strip club. It's a fun time so I don't let any negative energy get in the way.
Being positive and just fun in general also makes most of the girls have a good time with you - they want to keep hanging out with you - total win win.
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5 years ago
The fetishism of Asian women is mind boggling to me. I understand that we all have types/features/etc that are more attractive to us....bit I am curious if some women stay away from clubs because they don't want to be 'the Asian girl'
That said - I went to a strip club in Patong, Thailand and it was a blast. Not for mongering reasons as much as the fun atmosphere and black foam bats they gave girls and customers. They make a loud cracking noise but dont harm anybody. So you have multiple girls and stage, ganging up and smacking customers and vice versa - but again, it doesn't hurt. It's just silly.
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5 years ago
> Who needs soap operas and reality TV when you have the tuscl discussion board?
Word.
> It's fascinating in a trainwreck way.
This is a very unfair comment but it reminds me of an ex gf that was convinced she was so smart. Her dad actually has a scholarship fund at UT. Dude busted ass and made himself wealthy and successful.
She wasn't dumb but gave herself way too much credit. One day she was angry about a job interview question and asked how could ANYBODY start to answer it....a few seconds later I told her the answer and why..... and she was even more angry.
I feel this thread.
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5 years ago
I'm not sure if I love or loathe how pathetic this thread is
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5 years ago
~10 years ago I was leaving Dallas, TX. At the time there was a girl I saw semi routinely at a club. I told her that I was moving to another city soon and it was likely my last time visiting. She was really sad so she gave me a bbbj and swallowed for no charge.
Let them know!
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5 years ago
It's very simple to just let them know "I'm good for now" and if you think you will be interested later, just let them know that YOU will find them later.
As long as you aren't a rude jerk - if you approach her later when you feel ready/like it; much more often than not they will be receptive and interested in doing dances.
You are the one with money.
I've only had a few times where I told girls no thanks where they stood around asking why I'm not getting dances. Baby Dolls Dallas years ago, actually. I simply said hey I'm not interested to them but they ran their mouths. Even then at most it was amusing and pathetic to watch them. Yawn.
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5 years ago
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AtAboyStill learning to proofread
Girls that demand any kind of tip are the worst.
Don't get me wrong - if you paid for a room and there is an implied bonus fee for her, that's all fine. If you spent 20 minutes talking about VIP rooms, having questions answered etc...that's a bit of her time and worth tipping (but not $20).
But when they ask for a tip for 10 seconds of existence...gtfo of here.
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5 years ago
You have to always go to the club and treat it with some level of business/negotiation in mind if you don't already know girl and have rapport.
Stand your ground and be willing to walk away.
Don't negotiate with terrorists.
Remember - YOU are the one with the money. (this does not mean be an asshole)
I would also recommend avoiding the prime time hours - in popular Texas clubs you have too many girls working, a lack of seating options for dances....so the VIP/cabana hustle game often becomes the most practical option for them.
I was at Palazio recently and the daytime seems to be nice. Hoping to return and try it out more. Sure there are still girls asking for tips/upsell - but just make a mental note and move on. In my experiences these girls give the worst dances anyways so no loss there.
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5 years ago
I fucking hate the Cuban invasions. They are much more often than not -
*are ROBs
*are incapable of having conversations (it literally is 'bailar?' and zero conversation if you are also of latin descent, or even worse an outlandish screech of 'PAAAAAPPPPIIIIIIIII')
*travel in groups and try to push their friends on you the second you are done with one of them
This has been my personal experience in Austin and Dallas TX.
This sounds racist and it isn't meant to be - there have been some cool girls I've met but by and large the ones in ATX/Dallas are total wastes of time. I don't think I've given a dollar to a Cuban girl in the past ~2 years unless it was by accident and she hadn't brought out the accent yet.
But hey if you are a white dude with a thing for latin women - please go for it. You are freeing up time with the girls I'm after!