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5 years ago
> The fact that you are blaming the so-called decline of strip clubs on "rap/hip-hop hood shit" seems more like a personal racial problem to me. The idea of clubs being filled with barbie doll style white blondes with fake tits dancing to classic rock doesn't work for most clubs anymore. PLs have a wide variety of tastes when it comes to both the girls and music.
I think this is a really good point. It may be a matter of demographics and club vibe.
Personally I enjoy when a club plays at least some rap/hip hop. Girls are more into it. They get into more motion and want to show their bodies off more.
Worth noting that I'm well under 50 so that could be a factor.
There are lots of other factors on how people go about their club experiences all together. There are tons of guys on here who are on a mission to get as much mileage as possible in under an hour for under 100-200.
Nothing wrong with that! But that guy likely isn't nodding to the music and enjoying the vibe.
A lot of girls want to have fun while at work - so the vibe you put off heavily impacts the experience you have.
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5 years ago
This thread is more pathetic than the fabric sewn.
+1 subscriber for the stupid inane exhibitions
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5 years ago
It was blatantly obvious from their posts and a quick look at the pictures.
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5 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
> LOL - I'm not into crazy unbalanced bitches - not worth the trouble
Dude....you are here....you sure about that? LOL
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5 years ago
This thread is amazing.
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5 years ago
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AtAboyStill learning to proofread
I think it is silly to make many assumptions on people who don't enjoy clubs. Hell - from reading reviews and comments, I feel like there is a world of difference on the experiences I have vs many people here. Doesn't make anybody right or wrong.
Some general factors that I think are key to some men not enjoying strip clubs -
Finances. If they don't make enough money to comfortable blow hundreds or more, it just may not be worth the value to them. Keep in mind - guys who get everything they want for under $200 - you probably had to do a ton of recon and trial and error over the years to get there...
Relationships with women. If a guy has not had much experience with women, he can be the type to fall in love with a dancer or not be able to understand it's all just entertainment and an exchange of money for services/entertainment. He also may be intimidated - so many possibilities.
In the end - who fucking cares? If they go or are forced to go, they aren't spending anything - they aren't competing for the girl you are wanting to spend time with....if they are in your group - don't invite them!
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5 years ago
Yep - things have just changed. Good while it lasted, enjoy the view from the rear view mirror as she gets smaller and smaller.
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5 years ago
She wants MORE money from this encounter or is just asking for money w/o anything in return?
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5 years ago
It's happened multiple times - unfortunately comes with the territory of living in a major city.
Just report it and give a description as to why you were cheated and Uber Eats refunds it instantly.
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5 years ago
Never have and never tried.
If I become a regular with a girl and we exchange contact info - if she makes any comments about needing help she is done. Thankfully I only exchange info with girls that seem not be these types.
There is one girl I knew for a while that was a long story - but even when she was having rough patches and not making money, getting fired from clubs - she would vent but never asked me for anything. She wouldn't even want money if I went to see her - she wanted to sit and drink and just hang out. (I would tip her of course because she spent 4+ hours drinking and not really working).
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5 years ago
@Papi - spot on!
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5 years ago
Bruh that's where I keep my 100's. They know they've done good when I reach down and start unzipping......that fanny pack to give a tip.
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5 years ago
I often avoid the 18-22 range. Can be annoying, immature and not have much to talk about. There are great exceptions at times. Note - CF is in this range...I know....
I prefer 25-30's. More interesting conversations, more life experiences, more likely to have sexual confidence beyond their physical looks.
Late 30's and up - mixed here. Once you filter out the ones that go straight for offering extras or have bad attitudes towards the younger girls - usually a good time as long as you have an attraction.
Of course this varies by clubs/parts of the country. If anything I'd consider this mostly my Austin/Dallas TX ratings.
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5 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
"Did you LDK? Did you LDK last night?
Nnn-no! No!"
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5 years ago
I give my real name to dancers but since my name is uncommon, they sometimes roll their eyes at me and think it's fake. I've shown my id to a few to shut them up.
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5 years ago
Just move on and see if things change over time. Different circumstances but I've had a CF decide she hated me - so I deleted her contact info and didn't dwell on it.
She made it a point to ignore me a few times I went there then one day she wanted to start being friendly again. We've had tons of fun since - I think nicespice is definitely on to something - a girl's ego may get hurt by something so just let it go and give her time.
Worst case she's done with you forever and you just move on to find another CF. These girls aren't robots and to be treated subhuman but leave your feelings at the door unless you actually build some kind of friendship etc.
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5 years ago
Smoking and smelling of smoke
Poor hygiene
Shitty attitude
Beyond that I feel that I can vibe with most women. There are some 'types' that I am easily attracted to but it is fun getting along with and having fun with all kinds of girls.
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5 years ago
There is also the options/waiting game.
You can tip a girl and ask her to come to your table and she may wander off for 2 hours. She may mention somebody else asked first and that can be a wildcard of 1-10 dances.
So sometimes you are waiting for a specific girl - or you have a few priority options in mind. If that doesn't come to fruition you then level set and seek out other girls.
That's my approach at least.
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5 years ago
Everything is circumstantial. If your budget doesn't allow you to spend $500+ (or you easily could but you have good discipline) - nothing wrong with that.
If I include my tab it's easy to hit $1500+ on some occassions. It's worth noting that this is not an every week or month thing. It doesn't have to include extras - which will sound like blasphemy to many I'm sure. The important thing to me is that I have fun.
Anybody that has gone to clubs for a few years probably knows that there are times you can extras for WAY cheaper, you just have to find the right girls and know how to talk to them (And I dont mean the girl that offers bj's and more with prices before exchanging names - eww).
I won't lie - throwing $100 in 1's on stage on a girl you know is fun. It may look gaudy - and maybe it is - but it can be a good conversation piece or even better - fun as hell if you get the dj to play a ridiculous song.
Again it is all circumstance - if you have a good job and a family to support and all that, it won't be as easy to do this unless you are really getting paid well. For me it is a combination of a very good job, being single and enjoying the experience.
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5 years ago
I agree with rogertex. I routinely travel back to TX and part of those trips is a lot of time at the clubs. The vibe of some of the clubs, the women - just unmatched from personal experiences.
I have not toured the midwest clubs extensively but have found some gems as well.
A few other places I've gone worth noting for worthless clubs -
Shreveport, LA
Columbus, OH
No idea how girls are making money at these places
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5 years ago
Generally speaking drunk is fine but not sloppy drunk. It really depends on the girl. I've had an experience in the past month where I feel bad because we both were way too drunk and the dances escalated. Sure it was fun but had I been less wasted I probably would have made sure she really wanted to do what she started doing.
I prefer they are buzzing/drunk from time sitting together rather than plopping down on my lap already wasted. Just better to have built the rapport in my experiences.
My CF at one club generally always gets pretty drunk with me but we know each other well and it hasn't backfired (yet).
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5 years ago
IS is great. You just have to be a semi regular and spend some money so that they get to recognize you and maybe you find girls you click with.
However I have no idea if these things still work if you are possibly 50+, will have to report back in the future on that!
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5 years ago
@blahblah
The prices in the city are stupid imo. To be fair I'm used to Texas (from there, i still visit multiple times a year) where dances are $20, it isn't air dances and you won't get kicked out for touching a girl's thigh too close to her butt. Not saying every club is this bad but Chicago is known for being very low mileage on dances if any - and then lots are byob.
I think there is money being spent there but as a customer it just seems lame. I go down to just over the border to Indiana and it's a blast - and I know the girls there can do well. I have the proof from a declining bank account!
It isn't that far - ~25 miles from downtown Chicago so it's an easy ride share trip if you were trying to also spend time in the Chicago city to enjoy the summer.
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5 years ago
As a customer the clubs in Chicago are garbage if you are from a place like Texas (I speak from experience). However there are a ton of clubs in South Chicago and just over the border in Indiana that are better for customers.
Multiple girls that work at a club I go to ~monthly or so in Hammond, drive down from Chicago because the money there is better.
So if you were to visit/work this area, keep Indiana and the South Chicago clubs in mind.