Dancers who can stay in one place.
Kind of a spin off of the other thread of commuting. And asking the opposite type of question.
By “stay in one place”, I mean work in one club, and work the same shifts at the same time and days? Consistently.
The longest I was monogamous to one single club was seven months. But even then, I worked to a certain short term $ goal and that was that, so my shifts/times were erratic. Oh, and it was a club where I could leave early whenever I wanted to. And I would often take advantage of that and be out of there by 12-1am.
And later on, I was kicking myself for not at least doing occasional shifts at another club I was already in the system at. Cause then that place went on the upswing and I got booted out of the system. And then I tried to apply again and got rejected and told to come back in two months. Ouch. Lesson learned.
Is there a personality quirk with girls who do this? Are these kinds of girls more sane or less sane than average? More or less mature than average? How do they get through their shifts without lots of substances?
If I were to be loyal somewhere for a decent number of shifts clocked in, then I’d want health insurance and a matched 401k contribution. Just sayin.
By “stay in one place”, I mean work in one club, and work the same shifts at the same time and days? Consistently.
The longest I was monogamous to one single club was seven months. But even then, I worked to a certain short term $ goal and that was that, so my shifts/times were erratic. Oh, and it was a club where I could leave early whenever I wanted to. And I would often take advantage of that and be out of there by 12-1am.
And later on, I was kicking myself for not at least doing occasional shifts at another club I was already in the system at. Cause then that place went on the upswing and I got booted out of the system. And then I tried to apply again and got rejected and told to come back in two months. Ouch. Lesson learned.
Is there a personality quirk with girls who do this? Are these kinds of girls more sane or less sane than average? More or less mature than average? How do they get through their shifts without lots of substances?
If I were to be loyal somewhere for a decent number of shifts clocked in, then I’d want health insurance and a matched 401k contribution. Just sayin.
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It’s not like a career progression - moving up the ranks over time. It’s generally a short term profession - either to cover college expenses (or cosmetology school expenses) - or for a single mom who needs money - or for a whore in need of drug money. So I can see why it might not Be easy to keep the same scenery for a year or more...
There are also life circumstances such as children/family, or school or another job they work, that kinda force dancers to not jump around too much - there also seem to be dancers that may be more nitpicky about clubs they work at and like to stay put once they find a club that's a good fit for them.
If a dancer is young, and unattached (S.O., kids, school/work, etc), then it can be interesting traveling around changing sceneries and not only explore different clubs but get to see/experience different cities.
There are dancers at Club Desire in Providence, RI, who have been there for years. They have a consistent stable of regulars, their shift is basically a series of appointments, and they have the club and clientele dialed in to the point of being algorithmic. These are not dancers from whom you'll not "get more" because it's the end of the month or Christmas shopping season.
And I remember seeing one of them arrive at the club for her shift in a sporty late-model Mercedes convertible. Could some of that lucre come from a sugar daddy (or two...)? Sure. But she's whip smart, and I suspect that anything she does outside of the club is part of a plan that revolves around staying put.
Unrelated to all of that, I suspect being a mom makes it nearly impossible to be a travel dancer. Unless you're a shitty mom...
But I’ve seen way more dancers come and go than the 2 who have stayed put. But I don’t know WHY these dancers come and go. They could be switching clubs. They could be quitting dancing altogether.
I think there are lots of variables regarding this question—which makes it difficult to pin point an answer to what you asked spice
I have encountered some dancers in my Tuscl membership that I consistently saw at same club for 5 years or more in CA, AZ, OH, IN.
Yes...No...Maybe...More...Less...etc.,etc.,etc.
For any particular girl, maybe she stays because...
1. The money is very good where she is.
2. The scheduling suits her needs.
3. She isn't confident enough to bounce from club to club.
4. She needs to work in a certain area due to insecure childcare or transportation.
5. She is too lazy/comfortable to move.
6. She has been fired from all the other local club.
7. She can't handle working in the other local clubs due to [xyz].
8. It's the only club far enough from her house to be safe, but still close enough to commute to daily.
9. Management is easy to deal with and house fees are very low.
These are the situations that I can remember hearing about off the top of my head. The possibilities are endless and some of these are obviously better than others. Also, some girls will say it's for one reason when it's likely more of a comfort issue, but I never pursue this as behaving like an interrogator is generally not conducive to making her comfortable enough to say "YES" to a good OTC boning 😉
Also, some do seek the freedom to go to higher mileage levels, and they find a club conducive too this.
We have had dancers post about why they prefer dives, less rules, less fees.
May also relate to what ever else is going on in their lives.
SJG
Also by changi g clubs a dancer can maintain a new girl sheen. Supply and demand can come into play. If a dancer dances at one and only one club, she can be viewed as, I can always get a dance from her, I will find a new girl. If she is gone for a while it can have an affect on the guy like I better get a dance because she may not be here next time...
Dancing is entertainment and people in general like variety in it. Dancers going to different clubs can give more variety to customers who only go to one club.
I do know quite a few dancers that commute from another city who travel because they dont want to run into people from their real life.
Many go to other states and dance during slow times of the year. Popular destinations for dancers from Denver are Vegas and Dallas
:) :) :)
SJG
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One thing I can say so far, if a dancer wants to travel, is def have enough money in the bank account covered to account for temporary stunts in income. Which thankfully I do.
Like right now, I’m enjoying the beautiful forests in Oregon while dealing with the most string-along-happy club staff people here, who don’t have the ability to say “oh, we don’t take travelers” or “oh, we’re not hiring” or something direct like that. Describing their so-called “procedures” is like dealing with a bunch of children who are trying to play at being an adult. Ugh.
About to give Eugene/Springfield a shot tho, but I’m not too confident there either. But it’s on the way to Portland thankfully, and I have a bit more confidence in that city at least at finding a club that will take me.
Sorry to say it nice, but if there was one word I would use to characterize this issue, it would be "foreseeable."
Yea.
Welcome to the earliest rainiest start of the rainy season in years 😕
At least we have the cheapest hi end cannabis in the country 😊
For now on this thread give a list of the places you've danced
San Antonio, TX
Austin, TX
Ft Worth, TX
Dallas, TX
Hallandale, FL
Washington Park, IL
Inver Grove Heights, MN
@gsteph Already got some edibles and ready to slowly build up supplies. Haven’t consumed any yet tho.
But since I’ll probably pass through Nevada and Colorado as well, I’ll be in a bunch of fun spots. 😁
LOL that said I bet the one lonely club in Coos Bay would hire you. 🤭
😝 There’s a booking club in Astoria that definitely accepts travelers, I’d just have to contact and ask if they are already booked up for the week. But lol Portland is the furthest north I’d want to go. As the temperatures keep dropping I’ll want to start slowly heading south again.
There is a good chance I’ll end up in Portland anyways soon enough though.
I'm not going to clubs much anymore but still PM me if you are coming up here. If I can convince my wife we could come out and be your "stage shills" and smoke out and party with you. Dunno about massage anymore. 😐
Also send me a pm if you want to know some smaller neighborhood clubs to take a chance on. If they are one of my regular stops I can give you some intel on them. I know the owners and/or management and bartenders at a few of them.
I thought you may have danced at more places like that - I had gotten the impression you had been constantly traveling the last couple of months
Given how much I have trolled before, fair enough 😝
In contrast, the dancers who I've seen come and go tend to be of the "one and done" type. They entice with decent appearance then give average to below average dances. Most customers tend to stop after one or two dances realizing that the dances aren't going to get any better. These types of dancers attempt to find the "suckers" who don't know any better and don't care about regulars since they aren't planning on sticking around.
No shots intended - just a little surprised that you need to us to tell you what should be right in your face as a seasoned dancer. After all, you're the one sitting in the locker room with these gals listening to their stories, phone calls by baby Daddies, etc.,etc., right? 😉
1. This thread had nothing to do with the PNW. That was a small off-topic tidbit that you are running with, troll style. If that was your intent, then well-played. 👍 But I had the impression that Ricks are a higher breed of mature man character and above such childish pettiness.
2. If that second comment was you attempting to question whether I’m a legit dancer—then shit! The jig is up. ☹️ I confess that I, alongside my doctorevil and PaulDrake alias accounts, actually secretly work for the social media team over at the Baby Dolls Dallas location.
SJG
1. Some girls just aren't smart enough to know that travel dancing or trying out another club is an option. Or they don't want to give up whatever favored status they have with management.
2. They like the managers, other girls, or staff. Or just like that clubs environment.
One of current favs works the slowest club in DFW I have ever seen. Maybe 4-5 guys might come in all day. But the manager lets her do whatever she wants and she can just lounge around playing on her phone all day. She knows she could make way more somewhere else but doesn't care.
SJG
Just one club? I would rather hope that you'd think much bigger than that. 😉
Though I'd be surprised if the owners of BabyDolls were thrilled with Dr. Evil's recent review of Chicas Locas since they own that too. I'd be surprised if a BJ in the bathroom is something they likely want to read. That's the same type of shit that got Fare Club shut down by the DPD, which they also owned.