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7 years ago
I legit misread this as a topic about the boyfriend who works as a male stripper and had a story or two given to me by custies, buut I guess this is the wrong thread.
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7 years ago
"Ah, the joys of an open and permissive relationship where I don't have to lie to anyone."
This right here.
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7 years ago
Fiction; Merrick by Anne Rice, one of my all time favorite authors.
Can't remember the last time I've read nonfiction, unless the Japanese-English / English-Japanese dictionary counts.
One of my hobbies includes going to the thrift store where I can take advantage of the 10 for $3 soft cover deal and load my book shelves with new stuff.
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7 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I've dabbled in sexual acts that make choking nowadays seem pretty tame in comparison to me, and while I love it, I don't allow or ask just ANYONE to do it - especially not custies. Some don't know where to properly grab the throat to give the right pressure on the right spot for the right amount of air cut off. Some get too carried away and could potentially injure the throat or wind pipe. And a rare but unpleasant lot mistake liking choking for liking asphyxiation. If you try to choke me until I turn purple or am on the edge of losing consciousness and I've told you to stop, I'm just going to assume you're trying to kill me.
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7 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Sometimes I love foreplay more than the actual sex.
It frustrates me when a guy just wants to stuff himself in me right off the bat with no attempt to get me aroused first.
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7 years ago
^
Knew a girl in a similar situation. She got arrested after stabbing her boyfriend to death after he attempted to beat her senseless in her home. The report said he had 16 deep stab wounds, so their reasoning was that it went from self defense to homicide.
She says in her defense, he kept moving until the 12th stab.
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7 years ago
Why is water wet?
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7 years ago
I saw a social experiment video that put this scenario into testing (just not in a plane).
It started off as a guy accusing his girlfriend of cheating. In every sort of public place they walked and he did the slightest shove on her, nearby pedestrians intervened IMMEDIATELY - a few even attacking him back.
Then it eventually switched to the girl accusing him of cheating and becoming aggressive towards him. No one batted an eyelash towards them. Some people even laughed or smirked at what they saw - a tiny girl attempting to beat up on her boyfriend.
It is a double standard, and when it comes to legal terms, what the city differentiates to determine battery or domestic charges is confusing at times, but to disturb a flight because of what happened, I'm surprised they didn't do anything with her.
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7 years ago
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LiwetIf she walks away smiling, you spent too much.
Yes, and no. The favorite club I have a good number of reviews on is no longer my favorite club, and presently in my town, I don't have a club I frequent more than others.
Plus, even after going to one club a multitude of times, who's gonna suspect a particular female customer of all people to be some sort of 'club critic'?
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7 years ago
Just got home from work. Had to stay there for an extra hour, so for me... near impossible for me to forget to set it back.
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7 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I'm working if that counts as strip clubbing this weekend.
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7 years ago
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EveWhere there's a hole, there's a way. [HIATUS]
"I left my sperm behind a few times. That's pretty valuable."
It's not smiled upon to leave your kids behind.
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7 years ago
The very first time I went to Wackos, there were two girls that looked like they were related. One of them came and talked to my boyfriend and I and actually said that they were aunt and niece. Of course, that was puzzling, because they both looked the same age.
Then at the club I work at, we've had 2 mom/daughter pairings in the past, but one of each didn't stay as long as the other.
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7 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
I was never crazy about Spice Girls like most people I know are.
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7 years ago
Hospitals are a tiring experience, whether you're the patient or someone that knows said patient. Regardless, very happy to hear he's recovering. :D
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7 years ago
I suppose it's bonus points that it makes moving for the dancer easier, but I wear them simply because they're comfy and easy to take on/off at the end of the day. Plus, as a long habit, I've always dressed up to go clubbing - be it a regular night club (which I rarely go to anymore) or a strip club.
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7 years ago
I truly wish him the best of recovery. Meeting him at Follies was one of my Atlanta weekend highlights. Hate to hear that he's in poor condition.
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7 years ago
Life pro tip: Carry two wallets, your usual one with the most cash and then one with only as much as you're planning on spending wherever you go - Be it $5 or $100. Leave your main one in the car. That way if you do get robbed or mugged and you give them the secondary wallet, they only made off with a pinch of however much cash you're actually carrying.
Second life pro tip: Don't carry that much cash on you.
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7 years ago
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flagoonerEverything written by this member is a fact.
There's also the cleanness aspect of it that those of germaphobic tendencies tend to take note of.
ie: Used wet tissues or condoms all over the floor or booth/chair, damp or slippery floor, and the general fear of sitting on or touching old or fresh cum stains.
The cleaning crew for a lot of clubs aren't the most reliable when it comes to sterilizing the VIP area, and even then, if you're in a club that's very extras friendly, there's no time for a quick clean up between shift change.
So, of course, if you go for OTC, that is the last thing you have to worry about, assuming business is hosted in a clean house/hotel/etc.
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7 years ago
"Not so fast. The study only indicates that pot smokers have more frequent sex than non smokers. Not better sex. Life styles can have a lot to do with it."
I can confirm this. I'm a social smoker, and my sex life is very active. But I cannot have good sex if I'm stoned silly. The two just don't combine the right way for me. I've got some funny experiences with me attempting to combine them, but in the end, I've learned to just not have sex when I'm stoned, or just don't smoke if I plan on having sex.
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7 years ago
You definitely have to have a thick skin for this type of job. A girl with skyrocketing confidence that loves everything about herself can slowly but surely see herself differently if she starts stripping - not because she won't be every guy's type, but because there are assholes out there that literally make their preference a reason to insult or put her down for her looks. Every dancer has dealt with them, and they probably won't stop coming to the clubs, so it's up to her on how she can take his useless fuckery.
It makes it a lot easier to know that the main reason guys would do that is because he knows it wouldn't be socially acceptable to just start being rude to a woman he saw outside the bar in any other social setting. Just like with retail or customer service - you'll get those frustrating customers that will try to ruin your day only because they think you're still being paid to force a smile at them and have to face their complaints no matter how minuscule or absolutely ridiculous they are. It seems when you're the one providing the service and not the one asking for it, people treat you entirely different.
But know for every one rare customer or group of guys that tries to see if they can put you down or get a negative reaction out of you, there are a hundred others that are much more respectable and just want a genuine good time with the girl of their choice.
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7 years ago
Don't you hate it when you slip and fall ass first in the shower and your crucifix plows right into you before you land?
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7 years ago
^ Just like there's no sex in the champagne room.
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7 years ago
Nah. Based on that one photo and then cheating and looking at the rest. She's not very shapely.
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7 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Splenda Daddies.