Comments by chowder (page 4)

All strippers think their butts need to be bigger. OTC is more of an option. I think this is because they have to compete with SA and the like. I know many who work a blend of stripper/sugar as much as they can. They use the club & social media to find sugar daddy's.

I like to have a bourbon just to take the edge off and then nurse a beer. But I don't drink heavily or get drunk. Nothing good comes of that. Plus if I don't at least have a beer to nurse dancers think I am a cop.

The last thing I would put that much effort into would be SS. I have enough shit to deal with without SS drama. They are my escape from it.

I do from time to time. It is an escape for me just to get my mind off of stuff. I have sat and just bought drinks and talked to dancers with no intentions of doing anything else but to have random meaningless conversations and just enjoy hanging out with beautiful dancers.

It all comes down to where she falls on the Crazy/Hot matrix.

You are playing with fire if you don't keep it what it is.......a charade. If you think it is ever something else you are going to get burned financially and emotionally. Like Muddy said it can be the highest if highs and then bam, the lowest of lows. You just have to keep your guard up and remember it is a game and she is likely better at it than you are.

If she seems desperate and not into it I am not participating. It has to be mutually beneficial on multiple levals for me or I am not interested. Maybe that's my problem - a PL with a conscious. It may reduce my odds but I am OK with that.

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Well said Muddy

Got to do a double with a dancer and a bartender not too long ago. It was fun. The bartender isn't a dancer and never had before. It was a mild handsy grind but we all had a good time. It was spontaneous and the bartender had to be warmed up at first. But they were both into it and their attitude made it worthwhile.

Mons is a lapdance factory with young eye candy. No VIP but handsy lappers. Scarlett's for Cuban extras. Bare Assets for more neighborhood bar with full menue and diverse dancers. Day shift may be better than night. Always a good time to start at Mind and finish at Scarlett's.

Many are using various texting apps like TextNow. It doesn't give any phone number out and it works to communicate.

Sounds like the Burlington Hand Factory may be on its way back. Good to know. Now if they can get the Brazilian's back.....

Two things you have to do the last few days of the month - buy a car and chase OTC. Proper timing will increase your odds of closing a good deal.

Sounds like reverend isn't getting good head. Some girls are bad at it. Some get the job done. And there are those who will blow your freaking mind away. And it always surprises you which girls fall into which category. You just never know.

Initially physical attraction. But what put her over the edge was she never rushed anything, never mechanical, and always seemed into it. Just time and attention. Soon after we just connected - basically a FWB. She is easy to talk to, attenative, at least shows sincerity - even if it is a client/consumer driven relationship. We agreed no strings attached and no drama. Sometimes we just hang out, other times we have fun. She is just fun to be around. I know it will end one day so I am just going to enjoy it while it last. And some days that is part of the thrill.

Tell him to go read the reviews

The vets typically work the day shifts. Plus you never know with the bar tenders or wait staff. You would be surprised how many are down. Especially if you ease in to it.

Yep. Put it behind the VIP wall for sure. It would be a tremendous help for those who travel or would want to if they had enough of a reason to. I am fine with doing my own research and recon but the top 40 list we used to have cut a lot of unnecessary time out.

These lists we're invaluable. Especially due to the way the cities are broken out. They aren't really cities, they are areas of town with way too much overlap. I wish we could filter the entire country, or by state, or by city and also filter for all of the other data points ratings are given for. It would make the data base so much more user friendly.

Fair is a relative measure. Might consider another thread on what people are actually asking/paying and the structure of the arrangement. It will still vary but it would be actual data and not subjective.

Some guys just enjoy the chase. And when they capture their prey they loose interest and move on. Some are looking for something missing in their life. Maybe attention, interaction, or even intamacy. It isn't always about having sex. Is that part of it? Possibly. Who doesn't like sex? But some people want more than that if they get the chance. Then again, some dudes just want to lay pipe.

Some dancers look at things as an opportunity cost. Typical sales person. Always looking at the potential, even at the cost of the known. It is always worth the short term risk to lose in the end only to have a chance to hit it big. Just depends on what game you want to play.

She likes you. Take the bait.

Just depends on what he is looking for. Sometimes it is just sex. Could be looking for some platonic with some sex mixed in. Sometimes you are just on the hunt and you meet someone you connect with and it turns into something different that what you planned on.