Comments by chowder (page 5)

Supply/Demand. Where the roads cross between what one is willing to sell for and what ne is willing to pay. It isn't any more difficult than that.

Yeah you just have to ask. It might take a few visits for them to be comfortable with you. Some are down some are not. If one is and they are comfortable with you then game on.

I am good with day and evening reviews. I travel a lot and just never know when mongering time is available. Some jernts the day shift is better, some the evening is better. Some it doesn't matter. So I am glad there is a mix of reviews so I can plan/explore as time permits. In general day shifts include less BS for what ever reason. It just depends on what you are looking for. The chase of the night shift can be just as fun.

Men's Club is okay. Lapdance factory - bascially a BD without the party atmosphere, and I think a step down in talent level. The Lodge is a classy place with women of all ages who act mature. They are in evening gowns/coctail dresses and will carry on a conversation before a handsy lapper. Bucks FW has younger dancers and a better shot at extras, especially day shift. Chicas is hit/miss based on whatever level of recent LE activity. Other than. BFW the others are within 5-10 minutes of each other.

Warrior that is part of the hunt. You just never know sometimes. The best always seem to be the unexpected. I think after a while you learn to play the game, keep expectations in check, and see how the game plays out. My best experiences have always been from unexpected experiences of all levels. Like you said - the thrill of the hunt.

Might have worded that wrong. Not objects like I was disregarding them, just emotionless. And regardless of what I thought I never treated any of them without respect, quite the opposite really. It has just always been going through the motions and impersonal. And I messed up and connected with one unintentionally and it caught me by surprise.

I get what you are saying. But all strippers have been mindless robots to me. Just objects of carnal release. I just happened to connect with this one on a personal level. The end game - none really. I know it will end at some point. I am just going to ride the wave to where it takes me and try to keep an emotional distance the best I can. It is playing with dynamite I know bit for now it is worth it.

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It would be like the Urban Dictionary for PLs

Well, it is getting worse. Thanks for the support anyway. I keep trying to tell myself "Snap out if it dumbass".

It depends. If you two connect mentally then it could be intimate. If not it is just fucking. Just depends on how you connect and what you both are looking for. My cf and I connect and it makes every other dancer around like a mindless/faceless robot.

Was about to take a girl to VIP and she said, "Wait one second. My daughter works here and she is new. Don't worry she will not charge you. She is new and I want to show her how this is done"

Foxy Lady and Pussycat Lounge are dumps. PTs is almost no-touch. Godfather's has the best looking girls and is a medium-grind lap dance factory...but they scan IDs. That said it is more suited for a bachelor party.

I have spent a night or many in the Lou clubs. Always hit or miss / crap shoot. Would be interested to hear the experiences from a local.

Nashville, Memphis, Cincinnati, Cleveland, Orlando are among the worst.

I tip for Intel and Service. Just depends on the club and what I am in the mood for.

Isn't the first rule of Fight Club is that you don't talk about Fight Club?

Some clubs the waitress or bartender will do dances as well. I did a double with a dancer and a bartender recently. I was just hanging at the bar with a dancer, who kept saying how into the bartender she was. Major sales technique I know. But they were both smokin hot and my curiosity got the better of me. And well, it was a chance I took and ended up with an awesome memory. You just never know sometimes.

Yeah. I am not stepping off into the SD world, which could be the undoing of this relationship at some point. But I going to ride the ride for now, albeit with extreme caution.

Yep. Happened tonight. Things may have gotten a bit messy.

If the time and attention I show is reciprocal then I am more locked in. But I have to be the one to initiate this with someone I am interested in. If she can do this, and is on the right place on the crazy/hot scale, I am in. On the rare occasion this happens I will pay above market without blinking an eye. Unfortunately most dancers only focus on the result(getting paid) and neglect the why (fantasy, flirting, attention, and what ever else blows your head back) customers are there to begin with. If they would focus more on this the result would come naturally. It is basic business/relationship phsycology.

Cinci is horrible. Couple good lap dance factories in Lexington that have good looking ladies and party atmosphere. LE cramped down on extras so keep expectations in check. Platinum, Spearmint, and Coyboys for lappers. Louisville has a couple decent small flubs but aren't worth the drive. Columbus/Akron are a no go as well.

Sounds possibly like Michelle - milf with short-blonde hair and a nice rack. She works day shift most days M-F.

A one a done-er. Chill the fuck out already. Don’t be an emotional wreck mixed in with bat-shit crazy. PL’s hit up clubs to escape/avoid these types of chicks.

Straight up Dick massage with her mouth. Can’t be rushed. Random eye contact. Attention to the twins. Suck it like you need the oxygen.