The flakiness finally outweighed the experience
It happens. I just couldn't put up with it anymore. I had never clicked with someone on a personal level like that before.
It was worth it for a while but the repeated disappointment of no shows and no communication was just too much in the end.
I promised no pressure, no drama, consistency, and to never let business get in the way. I got in return a run of unbelievable experiences. But alas I had to end it due to the impending flakiness.
I have to tell you it sucks. But only a sadist would continue down that path. Even though it sucks it is for the best. I was self admittedly headed toward an unhealthy RIL which isn't a good thing.
The ride was worth it and I would do it all over again. But moving forward I will not let it go that far again.
Just got the stripper handshake from her best friend.....gotta go now fellas.
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last commentSo let me guess.. your local Chick-Fil-A closed? :p
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Been there.
I know in my case I think some of it was my fault being too much of a RIL. Some girls will push you around if they think they can get away with it.
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Your gonna have to expect some level flakiness though. Especially with the younger girls.
Not a lot of details so it’s hard to paint the full picture but yeah man there are so many fish in the sea. I’m at the point where I really only want to spend time with people who actually have fun and want to be around me.
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Well said Muddy
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Yeah, Muddy, your last sentence is a good way to look at it.
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Many of these girls work when they feel like it; and OTC for them is work with rare exceptions.
I think it was TUSCLer "clubber" whom once posted he SCs w/o any expectations that way he won't be disappointed - I think one should OTC with the expectation of flakiness - many of these girls have a lot going on in their lives, plus they're young living their lives (partying, friends, BFs, etc) - can't blame them that they rather spend their free-time doing something else
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I have only done OTC once. That was actually an OTC-ITC. I did an OTC inside a strip club with a dancer that i had never met personally, but wanted to meet. Had a very fun time. Still haven’t seen her dance. Glad it happened. Not sure it will ever happen again. Only live once. I think the personal / emotional contact is more satisfying to me than the sexual. This is TUSCL, so we can say what we feel.
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^^^. By the way , flakiness level was ZERO
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When they're flaky, it means they're not interested in you, there's no connection and they'll only be around if they want your money.
TBH when a dancer actually likes you, they're very possessive and show it...moreso than other types of girls I think
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