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Fate's Cruel Irony: Older Dancers (and Women in general) Can't Get Enough of The

pfunkstyles

My first post here, so please go easy on me, lol.

As far back as I can remember I have been strongly attracted to older women (usually in the mid 30s-40s). But for the life of me I have yet to snag one for fun.

Let me explain, since my late teens-early 20s I always had a thing for middle-aged women (that milf/cougar age). I would try to flirt and put myself out there, only to come up short. Oh I got dates and managed to bang randoms but always women my age or younger. I recall trying to flirt with this fine mom in line at the grocery store and getting ignored, only to be given the "starry-eyed" look by the young cashier.

When Tinder became a thing, I set my age range up in the 35+ range, no luck except for once-off moms desperate for a "step-father" but when I aimed in the 25+ I would clean up and even turned down some dates because I felt it was just too damn easy. Even now, pushing to close to 40 I still like'em within that set age range but my current girlfriend is much younger than I am (late 20s).

Now to the SC scene, was always the guy that showed up in the club and sought out the "veteran" dancers. I'd sit, observe, and wait, often turning down the young 19-20 year olds for a chance of lap refreshment from the 30+ year old dancer working there. Yet again as with life, it's always hit or miss (usually on the side of miss). In my experience the older ones normally stick to their regulars, are few and far between, or simply work other front-end jobs (bar tending, managing, etc.).

One of those funny ironies, like older and middle-aged women, yet they seem to elude me in my life's en devours. I'm pretty certain when I'm pushing 70-80, I'm still going to want older women.