Drinking or sober when you club?
AtAboy
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However unrelated to clubbing (and partly related to my expanding waist) I’d like to cut back on drinking.
Including going to the SC and staying sober or barely buzzed. Which I’ve yet to do.
I learned early on with clubbing getting shit faced is a no no. But I do like a nice heavy buzz. Same as I would if I went to a night club. Wondering if staying sober next time will change my experience.
What’s your alcohol status when you club and why?
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But sometimes I may over do it and it has a counter-effect of me really not enjoying the dances per being kinda a bit out of it.
I usually order a mixed-drink like a Long Island since it's a strong drink that will give me the buzz I would like - but seems getting a quality drink at many clubs I visit is often a crapshoot - they often feel either watered-down or not prepared well to where I fill I'm throwing $$$ away by paying for expensive drinks and not getting the buzz I expect - maybe I need to order something else that can't be screwed-up or screwed-with that will more consistently give me good buzz.
I make a point of NEVER getting drunk.
There is already more than enough stupidity available in the world.
Besides, it seems to me I’m already stupid enough when I’m sober. Why would I want to go out of my way to be stupider?
When clubbing, I actually drink very little. The alcohol numbs the senses. So why lessen the feeling of being touched by a young beautiful girl? Also, I don't like the feeling of being out of control like you are when you are drunk.
I think I’m suppose to get mad at being told I have no game if I can’t talk to the girls, but the truth is, I don’t. I mean I can still chat with them, but a few drinks really helps me be much more personable and likable.
I have been a little too drunk once or twice, during LD, not fun. Couldn’t really enjoy the sensation as Warrior said.
But habitually when I go, I have to hang for a while and get a good buzz before I’m ready to approach the stage, get LD, VIP.
It is true, I’ve got no game. And a couple of drinks makes it easier for me to forget that and buy into the fantasy that sexy women think I’m fun and good looking.
However, for a couple reasons not all listed, I’d like to cut back to a beer or two, barely a buzz for me. I was curious what everyone else does, henceforth this thread.
I walk into the club, grab myself a non-alcoholic drink, sit at a table or the bar. If I meet a stripper I like, or I had an appointment with my CF and she is there, I start ordering alcoholic drinks for both of us and we get buzzed. If I just keep meeting random strippers at my table and I don't click with any, I never make the transition to alcohol and I leave sober. There's no thrill for me in drinking alone at the SC, so it's either that the trip was a no-joy and I leave stone cold sober, or met a great stripper and I'm buzzed.
That's if I'm SCing alone. I often SC with my buddies and in that case, we always have some drinks together regardless
With that said, I agree with Subraman that it can be great fun hanging out and drinking with the right girl or girls. But is that necessary to have a good time? In my opinion, know.
The one time I tried to bring a beer into club #2 I was shot down at the door because I had a canned beer. I didn't realize you had to have your drink in an unmarked, plastic bottle. I almost always bring a bottle of water with me to club #2. One time a dancer told me that I was the first custie she had ever seen drinking a bottled water. I thought that was odd. But who knows?
SJG
I have found that asking a bartender to start me with a water and then pounding it immediately as if you just walked in from a desert 🌵 set a precedent. Bartenders don’t want to deal with drunks and if drinking water so fast sort of tells them you are either a bozo or dehydrated and they will tend to gladly keep a person supplied with water for a simple $1 tip.
Staying sober is also greatly appreciated by the dancers. I recently took one for a lap dance and realized she was really getting into grinding on me - just kept up with the vibe until she was finished. She had slapped a big lip lock on my si she could remove my tonsils - that was fun. She looked at me with a goofy look and said thanks! Obviously my response was a chillin my pleasure.
I paid for the dances and later in the evening she came over, sat with me and asked me for a lap dance - I had to admit to her that I didn’t have sufficient funds ($30/dance). She laughed and informed me she was asking me! Turns out I did four lap dances with her and she paid me $20/total so I could pay the bouncer. She was fun and we will see one another again I hope. I was able to keep my wits around me because I was sober, didn’t say anything that messed it up and was able to act very gracious and uptown.
Sober also helps greatly when you are picked off by a deputy as you head home and you know flat out how the breathalyzer will come out.
SJG