Pretty face is a must. Engaging and flirty attitude a must. I prefer petite girls with a round ass. Not a phat ass. A firm round ass and a toned body. Tanned legs are a bonus. Been on a bender where I lean towards mocha AA’s with a white girl body.
Sounds typical to me. Strippers have their own way of thinking. If you try to make sense of it you will drive yourself crazy. If you think it is ever anything more than about money....that's when you start to fail. She isn't flakey. She just had something better to do. You are always just an option....sometimes the best at that moment. Don't let the illusion cloud your judgement. Just accept it and enjoy the good times.
LW - I find dancers are using their cell number/social media and the club as a conduit to various activities OTC. I find the dancer who doesn't a rare breed these days.
Hard to say anything about a Unicorn just because I don't know how other PLs are other than the ones who post here. Even at that everyone has different interest. Plenty don't want a CF and want variety. Others like the less (relatively) hassle/risk with a CF.
I wasn't looking for a ATF/DS but I got attached to one. It has mostly been great and worth it for me. It started out as a regular ITC and I paid above market to keep her attention. When schedules didn't align OTC was sprinkled in. Over several months it became 80/20 OTC/ITC. We have become pretty good friends along the way and just have fun when we are together without any bs or pressure.
Honestly I don't see myself in this situation ever again and wasn't looking for it this time. For now I am riding the wave knowing it will end one day.
Maybe that makes me a Unicorn.
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