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11 years ago
I am recently widowed. Marriage let me raise two children in a stable household where they knew and we knew that we were going to be there even when it might be easier to leave. And yes, there were many times when it would have been easier to leave, particularly when the cancer diagnosis happened. But I now know that I can handle the big leagues of relationship challenges.
But will I do it again now? Not sure, but since I really know what it can entail, not just in the abstract, it is .
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11 years ago
He has his facts mixed up. First of all smoking is a co-risk factor with HPV for throat cancer. In other words people who smoke and have HPV are more likely to get throat cancer than those who only have HPV. So to say one but not the other is just bogus.
In addition even though we know what increases risk we can't say what caused a particular tumor. So for example we know how much smoking increases lung cancer risk. We can infer from that there are X number of cases of lung cancer per year. But to say with certainty that a particular tumor, even in a smoker, was called by smoking and not pollution, radiation, or just bad luck is something that is not possible to do with certainty.
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11 years ago
Old club joke...what is the difference between a waitress and a dancer? Two weeks. As to how hot they are, have you seen them naked? Have you seen them dance?
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11 years ago
The big problem with an outdoor pool area to a strip club is public indecency laws.
The problem with theme rooms larger than a VIP is that they become a management nightmare with balancing the number of dancers in a particular area with the number of customers that want to be in the same area. Inevitably the customers want to see the biggest variety of women so they go to the room that has the most dancers. The club then shifts more dancers to that room and the cycle continues until one room is packed with customers and girls and the others are dead.
One solution might be to divide the club into rooms based on the type of dancers...one for thin girls, one for ethnic, one for big breasted girls, but that would still be a management nightmare.
That is why unless there is some gimmick based on local laws (for example the places that have a 'nude room' separate from where alcohol is served) the trend is one big room with one big or long stage.
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11 years ago
Clubs suck in SD because anybody wanting serious action just goes to TJ. Cheetah's is considered the top club in SD.
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11 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
The most common thing that causes lousy BJ is teeth scraping. The most common misconception that causes teeth scraping is thinking that you have to suck really hard. The second common misconception that causes teeth scraping is thinking that you have to go deep throat to give a good BJ. The third mistake is to think that doing a BJ the way you see it on pornos is the way to give a great BJ. The techniques used on pornos are done because they look good, not because they feel good.
The simplest, easiest technique to give consistently great BJs is to use a hand to give steady firm strokes to the shaft while using the mouth and tongue to give constant stimulation to the head.
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11 years ago
Pretty much everybody here knows that if you goal is to have a the best value on a fairly pretty girl pamper you and give you a hj/bj/fs then the best value is the Asian massage parlor or backpage escorts.
With a club you are essentially paying for the club vibe and the club overhead. If that has no value to you then yeah, head to the massage parlor.
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11 years ago
With the high prevalence and relatively low cost of asian massage parlors there really isn't much demand for this from a strip club, who needs to provide a different kind of experience to make sense in the market.
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11 years ago
I wouldn't be surprised if he decides to rename it to make it the flagship of the Bare Elegance brand. it is what I would do in his place if you really wanted to put the notorious past behind it.
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11 years ago
Thanks all.
Ibbaicni; That is exactly what I dont't recommend clubs do. Consider this, where is the club making money while that middle eastern dancer is on stage? They are making it from the half dozen or so guy in the lap dance/VIP booths. If THOSE guys (who are not watching the stage) are thinking WTF is this and the dancers that are in the booth with them (who are also not watching the stage) are thinking HTF can I dance to this then the club is going to lose money.
And the club is catering to 40-65 year old men, who most definitely have different musical tastes than 25-35 year old women.
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11 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Here's a thread I did a while back that went pretty far into this topic.
https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=21189
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11 years ago
Come on Alucard, throw out a couple of names and I will actually consider them! After all I do think that a change-up every few songs is important in a club playlist.
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11 years ago
In recent surveys expanded background checks were supported by somewhere around 90 percent of all Americans, including over 80 percent of people who owned guns in their homes.
And what was said against the bill was that it would be a registry, which not only was not in the bill but specifically made into a federal felony with a 15 year prison for anybody even trying.
But in reality about the NRA proving that they were untouchable. That they can, just because they are big and the NRA that they can block any bill, no matter how popular the provisions.
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11 years ago
I see it as a canary thing. If the club has good bathrooms then they pay attention to the details.
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11 years ago
Yes, just call. But expect to get sold on some sort of special party deal which may not be a deal at all.
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11 years ago
Definitely endorse the go to the restroom escape, although the fake cell phone call is good, though many clubs don't allow exit-and-return.
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11 years ago
Further information: According to their web site Monarchs will have their grand opening tomorrow April 11th. Looking at their web site they show that 'half price specials' will be 10 topless and 20 nude, which is the normal price at DV down the street. So it looks like they will be trying to be the 'premium' club of the area. I can only presume that the Pinks name was dropped out of trademark problems. There is a very famous hot dog chain in California also named Pinks.
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11 years ago
South Carolina actually has some fairly typical laws: Topless only in clubs that serve alcohol. Fully nude in non-alcohol and BYOB places. Private dances are allowed. Mileage and extra will depend on local circumstances.
The Myrtle Beach area has a number of good clubs, and soon one more.
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11 years ago
They had a similar 'shocking news story' in California. Turns out though:
1. The actual percentage of the program revenues is minuscule
2. They can't distinguish between cash withdrawals by customers, cash withdrawals by the many part-time women who work there, and withdrawals by folks for whom it just happens to be the closest ATM to where they live or work.
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11 years ago
We have had a similar situation in California, where a law made dancers have to be statutory employees and a ruling required that money given directly from the customer to the dancer is entirely hers.
No big deal. You now pay for the dance either with the bartender, with the person watching the entrance to the lap dance area, or with some sort of machine. Some have you pay on the way in, others on the way out.
Dancers are paid minimum wage plus state-required benefits as a draw against a commission on sales.
If anything it makes extras a little more common since the tips for extras are entirely hers and off of the record.
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11 years ago
I dunno, maybe check a review site. I am told there are some on the internet!
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11 years ago
1. If the rules of the locality allow it they all do, otherwise none.
2. Usually it is a two level price structure, one price for topless, one price for naked.
3. It is the stripper's job to give you a pleasing dance. Whether you come or not is your issue.
4. It is still a standard in clubs that are BOTH topless only AND allow close contact with dancers on stage (a matter of local rules). In clubs where dancers get fully nude on stage obviously the bills-in-the-G-string can't work
5. Some do, most involve humiliating the guy on stage. Try to avoid.
6. Each girl will have her 'no fly zones'. Try and she will make it clear if you have violated bounds. Just don't be a jackass and keep trying over and over again to break the rules.
7. It depends on a combination of the local laws, club rules, and dancer's personal limits.
8. The best rule is soft fabrics. You are hoping that she will be rubbing some of her most sensitive skin against you. Try to be casual but not thuggish. If you are clean shaven be freshly shaven. Stubble scratches. Trim fingernails.
9. Most clubs with liquor licenses have stricter rules that would not allow this.
10. Occasional two-girl stage shows are not unusual, and are big tip magnets. Are the girls 'lezzing out' or pretending to put on a show? Who cares?
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11 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
It only has a 6.4 rating on imdb so nobody is going to be sitting in any archive of cultural treasures anytime soon. It is a typical Michael Bay film: Big, loud, soulless, with cardboard roles.
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11 years ago
Really it depends on local market rates. So for example in Tijuana that would be highway robbery but in Vegas a bargain.
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11 years ago
1. The girl will definitely want to use her own condom. Some of the spermicide covered ones taste horrible.
2. She will also likely want to put it on herself to be sure that it is on right. On the other hand if you think she is doing it wrong then you can step in.
3. She is expecting that you will cum in the condom. If it is anyplace else both negotiate it and don't be surprised if she demands extra. Cleanup takes time that she could otherwise be earning.