Comments by occurious (page 5)

I have mixed feelings about knowing their life. For instance a few weeks ago a dancer sat down and started talking and she spoke about how she had to run around and get her kids off to the sitter that morning and stuff and it made me feel weird when I got some very hot dances from her. On the other hand last year I went to a club and had a dancer sit down and start talking to me. They were playing 80's rock and we started talking about how we both liked the music and I was very, very comfortable talking with her which usually isn't the case with dancers and I. As we spoke more I realized she was close to my age (mid-40's) even though she had the body of a 20 something and her face didn't look much over 30. As the discussion went on she talked about her kids and husband and life in general. I really enjoyed conversation, finally she asked if I wanted a topless dance. I had no problem saying yes and I have to say it was incredibly hot and very high mileage and it didn't bother me a bit knowing about her life, it even made it hotter.

Ok I realize most dancers make their money on LD's these days but still if they're getting up there and taking it off give them something. If I'm sitting at the stage I do a minimum of $2 a song, if she puts some effort into it and doesn't look like it's killing here then I frequently go more. I also go more if I notice other jerks sitting there and not tipping or being very cheap. Its called being polite.

It was prepay and yes more is available at this club just didn't have or want that option on that day. I just made a bad pick, life goes on just had to vent.

I always assumed there were extras available at clubs but never really sought them out and the clubs I went to I was never really offered them either. Sure there were the vague suggestions by dancers but I always assumed that they would never end up going very far so I never pursued it. About 10 years ago I was a one of my favorite OC clubs and got one of their very expensive nude bed dances from a cute little dancer. I had gotten these before from other girls and they allowed good contact but again I was never offered extras and I never asked. So anyway as the new girl is giving me an amazing dance I gave into a second one at which point she spins around into a 69 position and lowers herself to the point where her pussy is touching my nose and her hand is moving into my pants. Of course I stuck my tongue out and she readily lowered herself onto my mouth. I spent the next 4 songs licking her pussy and butt while she gave me a HJ. Now she never exactly offered extras but the price of the dances were large and I gave her a generous tip so I guess you could say I paid for extras. It still is one of the hottest dances I've had. After that I became much more interested in what dancers would offer and actually do and most recently I've really gotten into getting extras. I've had many dances that go way beyond what happened that first time but like I said it still is one of my favorite memories.

I too have thought club boards would be a good idea but after thinking it through if I were TUSCL I could think of one big downside. It would end up replacing reviews; right now there is a pretty impressive flow of reviews at least for my local clubs. I think people would be less likely to leave a review and just post something on the club board instead. That ends up diminishing what the site is supposed to be about.

There is one club in particular I can think of in my area where VHM and even occasionally UHM can occur in the "public" LD area. Its a very odd feeling to have a truly crazy girl going to town with you and a few feet away is a girl that is much more conservative doing an LD. In my area the private booth setup has become very common and basically it depends on the girl what happens.

I'm not a fan of piercings especially clit and lip. Belly is ok and nipple doesn't bother me that much but I agree I'm not into sucking on metal. I will have to say though a while back I got a great set of dances from a girl that had her nipples pierced and she definitely was into me sucking on them. She made it very clear what she wanted me to do with my mouth and her nipples were very responsive, in that case I enjoyed the piercings but only because of her reactions.

Well it depends on my mood. If I'm not looking for laps or extras and I just want to watch naked girls dance then I like laid back clubs where there is no hassle and they make sure there is always a girl on the stage. In this type of club I also like it when the girls just come up and ask if you want a dance and when you say no they move on. No awkward chit chat or anything. Unfortunately for me it seems in LA/OC the only club like this is Ecstacy in Santa Ana. There are tons of other things available there but if you just want to sit and watch naked girls then that's what you get to do. Too bad it's a little too far for me to go often. The closest clubs to me are more about girls hustling and the stages always seem empty.

First of all if that happens congratulations! I had something similar once; one of my favorite no pressure clubs offers expensive ($50/dance) nude bed dances. Most of the girls offer extras but I wasn't looking for it this time. Took a very hot girl back there and in the middle of the first (very hot) dance she puts her hand down my pants. The second dance the zipper comes down, the third dance (getting expensive now but I'm not caring) she starts with an amazing BBBJ. By the end of the fourth dance I was very happy. She never asked for a tip or anything but I happily tipped her $50 and actually felt bad about only giving her that but that was all the money I had left. The whole experience was so relaxed and hot it was worth every penny.

Right before Thanksgiving I went to the Flamingo in Anaheim, most of the dancers work the floor wearing small bras and thongs. This one dancer came up to me wearing a top more like what you would see at a regular dance club, very loose covering most of her front but not the back. I thought it was a little odd but whatever. After chatting with her a bit I took her for an LD where she started a very enthusiastic grind then proceed to spin around and pull her tits out for me and show me her very large nipples. At this point I had my hands on her hips and as she turned around again I realized why she had the loose top on, she was very pregnant. You really couldn't tell she was just from looking at her, she had a very petite build. Anyway, I've never had that happen before. It didn't turn me off in a sexual way but it made me feel bad because she was having to work so late into her pregnancy which made it a turn off. She really did give a good LD though.

I would say about 50% of the time, it all depends on the girl and the dance. The ones that slowly grind tend to get me hard and unfortunately these days that seems to be in the minority. More likely I get the ones that think that banging into your crotch with their butt is the way to do a LD. That just doesn't feel good to me. It also depends on how sexy or not sexy the dancer ends up being when I get the LD. About 2 months ago I got a dance from a girl that was not all that attractive to me but I was bored and there were no other dancers around so I figured before I left I would give her a shot. Again she was physically not really my type but boy could she dance and act sexy, I was surprised how quickly I got hard with very little contact.

This has happened to me a few times and it feels weird but the strangest was last month. I went to a club that always has a lot of dancers and customers on a Saturday afternoon. I went about an hour after the club opened but besides being the only customer there wasn't even a dancer out and the music wasn't even playing. I was about to leave when they pushed a dancer out who had to be in her late 40's although she still had a pretty good body but her face showed a lot years. I tipped her better than I would normally because I felt bad then she came and sat down with me. This is where it got even more strange; she was very easy to talk to but after the initial name, where are you from and such she starts talking to me about the area of the city where we both live, like what supermarkets she goes to and do I know this area and so on. This is southern California so usually things like this never happen. Someone is always from somewhere else or a place you don't go to but it's like we're neighbors. It just felt so strange. Finally I got some dances from her which I have to admit were very hot and then left. It was just a really weird experience all around.

Regarding porn now vs. 70's and age I think it's a couple of things. First the quality of the film back then was very poor and it's been copied over and over that alone will make a performer look older and less attractive. I'm really making a big generalization but I think the girls that performed back then took less care of themselves and/or had a harder life up to when they started performing so that of course ages you. I also think they didn't care at all about makeup in the films back then, now they seem obsessed with it, that helps a lot to make someone look "perfect". On top of all of this I just think girls look hotter these days when they are younger and again that has to do with the image the media portrays to them. When I first started noticing this I thought it was just because I was getting older and so younger looked hotter but I don't think that's the case. Girls that are 18 and can perform in porn have been wearing makeup and "practicing" looking older for more than 4 years. I don't think they did that back in the 70's nearly as much. I know when I was in high school in the early 80's there were very few girls that tried to look older than they really were. Now I think that's more the norm.

I assume most are faking it and some are very obvious. That being said; last year I got a nude private from a fantastic girl that pulled my pants down and gave me an amazing BBBJ and she never indicated before hand extras were available nor did she ask for any tip and she seemed very into it. Of course I tipped her well afterwards but it seemed totally spontaneous and like she really wanted to do it. Maybe that's just her angle and if it is then it's a good one.

Creepy? Yes probably very but if the girls are in public then taking pictures of them is not illegal. That is assuming he doesn't have some prohibition on himself like a court order or he's a registered sex offender. In general if you are in a public place you have no expectation of privacy therefore anyone is allowed to take photos of you. That's how the celeb photographers get away with what they do.

Best not to get involved in personal matters like that. Now if you see someone hitting her then by all means call 911, but that's in public. Regarding the comment about homeless and giving them money, you're right a lot of them have mental, drug or alcohol problems but I don't think most of them want to live on the street. I wouldn't go giving them a job or getting that involved but if someone is begging for money you really can't judge their situation from a quick look. I've been very blessed, lucky whatever you want to call it and I have the money to give to people looking for it so frequently I will give them money. What they use it for is their business and I'm not going to judge. The realist in me says that probably 8 times out of 10 I'm a sucker for doing it but if you can afford it isn't it worth the 8 bad ones to help the 2 that are genuine.

I've never cum in my pants from a LD, actually I find a lot of dancers are too rough and it's kind of uncomfortable so I don't even get hard in my pants. The last time I went to DV in COI I got dances with 3 different girls and two of them just gave perfect dances and I was hard the whole time. The third, not so great so I wasn't. It's all in the mood and the action for me.

I've never been offered anal, that would be interesting. A few years ago during a nude bed dance the girl got into a 69 position, she never did anything other than put her hands in my pants but I got quite a few licks in and she didn't seem to mind. The next dance she did more of a squat over my face and I couldn't help it I rimmed her which she definitely did not seem to mind.

I went to a club during the day a few weeks ago that I haven't gone to in years. A dancer immediately sat down and started chatting with me about the club and the music and so on and it quickly became clear that she was much older than I thought (amazing body, very pretty face). Anyway she told me she only works the day shift because at night there are too many 20 somethings that come in and just stare at her boobs while they talk to her and they don't spend much. I thought the comment about them staring at her boobs was very funny for a stripper. Anyway I took her for a few topless dances and she was very very friendly, definitely lots of extras were available. BTW she turned out to be 42.

As someone who goes much more frequently during the day I would also say depending on the club the clientele might be safer and have more money to spend. A couple of clubs I go to it always seems to be businessmen visiting during the day but at night it's a younger and more random crowd.

Remember this is the magazine that named Rhianna (however you spell it) sexiest woman last year.

That's why I left after 30 minutes, I have no problem with them coming up and asking for dances but seriously just sitting there looking at an empty stage is boring. I figured if I only saw one dance in 30 minutes the odds were good I wasn't going to see more than 1 more in the next 30 minutes. Sorry Alucard I didn't see the previous thread.

Rickdugan, Thank you that's exactly what I meant. Don't get me wrong I like extras but there's got to be something sexy about them and not just a meat market and this is kind of how I felt. The first time I went to this club I kind of got that feeling but the dancer that I ultimately got extras with made it feel sexy so I didn't really get the creepy feeling like I did this time.

Ok, so that's not what I said. I have no moral qualms about going to a club and doing whatever the dancer will allow and I want to do. I guess to put it another way; have you ever gone to a club that just makes you feel creepy? Not dangerous just like maybe it's just gone too far down the rabbit hole?

I mainly hit clubs in the OC, Ecstacy is my favorite but it's expensive if you get any dances. They're $60 for a nude bed dance. However if all you want to do is sit and relax and watch the dancers with pretty much zero pressure for anything then this is the place. The girls are usually 7+'s, they come around and ask if you want to dance but they are friendly and if you politely say no they just move on. There is no drink hustle, it really is a relaxed place. Imperial in Anaheim is very relaxed too although every time I've been there they have had trouble having enough dancers not doing laps to keep the stage going. I went to Deja Vu in COI for the first time a few weeks ago and I have to say wow, it's amazing how high the mileage is and the amount of girls to choose from.