Stripper's Family

Huh? Tons of them are married (although few will tell you they are). Don't bother my ass one bit.

"To my knowledge" makes all the difference.

Usually, it's the stripper showing me creepy pics on her phone, not me stalking her online.

I do feel guilty sometimes. I don't want to fuck a dancer who has a boyfriend. What usually happens is she says she's not in a relationship, and then I bring her back to my place and fuck her. I later on find out she is in a relationship, she says she wants to leave her boyfriend and be with me. Her boyfriend is a convicted felon and I don't want that psycho after me, so I just move on to the next stripper. This is where me having two phones helps me out, one for the strippers and one for everybody else :)

I don't I've ever fucked a married dancer though.

Ranukam, don't think I want to go there, either.

I usually Google or otherwise investigate any girl I consider for OTC. It's not always easy to obtain their actual names but I have discovered several interesting facts on-line from arrest records and other legal matters to real age and birthdates. Does that make me a stalker? Maybe but I would rather be safe than sorry.

If you have to ask, of course you're a stalker. So what. Anybody who doesn't at least google a ho's phone number needs to act a little more like Hinkley. I just stop short of looking at boner-wrecking family pics if I can help it. Or, like, shooting anybody with Secret Service around.

Doesn't bother me. If they're not doing me, they're doing someone else. I am a little leery of one that I am chasing. Her old man is a deputy Sheriff and they do have guns. LOL.

^ he wouldn't shoot you, he's plant drugs and child pornography on and around your person and send you to prison.

I have mixed feelings about knowing their life. For instance a few weeks ago a dancer sat down and started talking and she spoke about how she had to run around and get her kids off to the sitter that morning and stuff and it made me feel weird when I got some very hot dances from her.

On the other hand last year I went to a club and had a dancer sit down and start talking to me. They were playing 80's rock and we started talking about how we both liked the music and I was very, very comfortable talking with her which usually isn't the case with dancers and I. As we spoke more I realized she was close to my age (mid-40's) even though she had the body of a 20 something and her face didn't look much over 30. As the discussion went on she talked about her kids and husband and life in general. I really enjoyed conversation, finally she asked if I wanted a topless dance. I had no problem saying yes and I have to say it was incredibly hot and very high mileage and it didn't bother me a bit knowing about her life, it even made it hotter.

Knowing my dancer has kids doesn't bother
me the same as knowing there's a large man waiting for her to get home after she's thru with me.

One trick - put phone numbers into facebook. it will frequently turn up a profile

I'm more concerned to know what a woman is doing with whom than whether there's a husband and kids at home. I really prefer (need?) bareback contact and yet am fearful of picking up something I can't carry in a bag. So, when planning/seeking/plotting OTC I invest time and energy trying to avoid problems. No plan is foolproof and risqué is risky, but minimizing problems is the goal.
I once spent a couple of hours with a dancer OTC during her period. I've never been turned on by that, but its never slowed me down either. Anyhow it got a little messy with blood on both of us. Afterward she said, by the way I've got Hepatitus B. another time a dancer I'd met OTC several times called to tell me another guy she had been with unprotected had just tested positive for HIV. A year later I'm still negative for both, but that's far more worrisome than family.

They've all got a husband or boyfriend. They just hide it from you. If you want sex with an unattached woman, forget strippers and find an ugly librarian.

I assume that they all have a BF/GF/SO, and as long as it remains unspoken I don't feel guilty about the things we do in VIP. I do hate it when they suggest an OTC 3-some with them & their hubby, tho. Not my thang.

I have found all three of my ATF's Facebook accounts. Not sure why she needs 3. FWIW, she had some nice wedding pics, but that's over with.

I also see my #2's Facebook profile. On the one hand, I'm not especially thrilled to know about her husband and her grandkids. (She's the oldest active stripper I know with certainty.) On the other hand, what happens in the club stays in the club. If her husband likes sloppy seconds, well, I hope he enjoys it.

Y'all already know I have a baby and a dude with a big dong waiting for me to get home the nights that I work.