So disappointing

Should have stopped the HJ and left. Did you prepay?

It happens. No matter how much experience you have, sometimes you can't discern an ROB. It's just part of the hobby, don't let it get you down.

Over the pants does not qualify as a HJ. Pay for songs and leave.

Is HJ all that is available in your clubs?? I never pay for services that I could provide to myself.

It's called "Having a bad day". It happens to all of us.

New strippers can be a gamble especially if no reviews.

we all go have thoes days clubing

It was prepay and yes more is available at this club just didn't have or want that option on that day. I just made a bad pick, life goes on just had to vent.

The way I look at these situations is that you have to risk getting ripped off to find that dancer that becomes a favorite. Some times you get off cheap and identify the ROBs for the price of a couple dances but sometimes it costs you. That is why I tend to stick with one strip joint. The problem is when that strip joint has a high turn over rate.

yeah it happens, even to us seasoned junkies. You just shrug it off and move on.

Dougster never gets ripped off. He goes into any club anywhere in America and finds a 10 who will fuck and suck for $50 within 10 minutes

Happens to the best of us from time to time.

I got ripped off by a dancer who I'd known for years. She offered FS OTC. I got the room and was waiting for her to arrive. She texted me and asked me to meet her at a local casino so we could play around beforehand. I was leery but agreed. When I got there she asked me for the money. At this point, again, I am REALLY leery. I know, I know - walk away, you're all saying. I should have, but again I'd known this chick for years and, well the small head was doing the thinking. When she had her fill of fun, she said she'd meet me at the hotel. I waited - she didn't show. I texted her. No answer. I got pissed off and left. She finally texted me the next day and gave me some lame excuse about being pulled over on the way over. How fucking convenient. I haven't talked to her since and do not plan on doing so. She could have had a valued customer but took me for a ride. And now she's lost my SC patronage too.

Fuck that bitch soonersam

Had it happen twice, after the last one I'm now very explicit and precise about my expectations.

The first time it was this hot chick in a club where private lap dances can be topless or nude...nude you pay a little more. She took me back there and quoted me the price...then I asked, "can we go full nude" and she said "oh, I don't do that." That wasn't "that" bad becauseI didn't pay for full nude ahead of time...but still. If the club allows both at different prices...it should be part of the job...not a "pick and choose" thing.

The second time was HORRIBLE. Tipped a gal onstage...she immediately came over to me and said she wanted to dance for me...I agreed. Before the songs started playing, she told me we should go VIP and I could do anything I wanted. I agreed. She quoted me $160 which was $5 more than the usual price...I prepaid...then she came back and got undressed and started asking me what I wanted...to which I answered, "everything"...and she said, "that'll be $200 extra". I told her I already paid the $160 and would gladly give her a $40 tip. She kept pressuring saying no that she could only do a HJ for that price. FINALLY...she just started giving me head and just before said, "okay, well, we're work it out".

Well, afterwards, she still wants $200. We argue, she threatens to go to the manager. I finally just cave because I'm pissed at the hustle...then she wants another $30 on top for the first 3-song lap dance (which we never did because we went directly to the VIP. On top of that...a $20 fee to charge it on my card (because I didn't bring that much cash with me and the ATM has limits to what I can take out. So I paid $390 for a VIP dance that usually costs $180-$200 with tip.

But that last experience changed me for the better. Now, before we ever go in there I get an explicit agreement as to what I'm paying for.

Since I never got (or asked) for extras at any club I visited, does this mean I technically never had a first time yet? Because I never got scammed a once (its lapdances, not much to scamming in that general area)?

Only scamming I can see for lap dances is trying to overcharge you for more dances than actually given. Unfortunately there are lots of girls who try to get away with this shit.