Ever feel dirty?

If a person has Moral qualms about going to Strip Clubs and engaging in the Delights available, this person SHOULD NOT go & thus can avoid feeling "Dirty".

Not me. Take a bi polar test.

Ok, so that's not what I said. I have no moral qualms about going to a club and doing whatever the dancer will allow and I want to do.

I guess to put it another way; have you ever gone to a club that just makes you feel creepy? Not dangerous just like maybe it's just gone too far down the rabbit hole?

Found a place that goes past your boundaries. Happens to a lot of people. Find another club or place to hang out.

I always feel either "good" or "bad" when I leave a club. The cleanliness of the club or the experience does not enter the equation. If you visit high end clubs you will most likely feel "cleaner" since the girls are generally classier and the club itself tends to be kept up better. I suspect most of the guys on this site spend most of their time in the lower to mid class clubs. While the dancers and surroundings may not be quite as clean as other clubs your money will usually go farther and you will probably have a better time. I suspect most of the girls, chairs, chouches,etc. in all but the high class clubs would not look nearly as nice in the light of day. You have to keep in mind that going to a strip club is a fantasy and your experience will be based on how your fantasy plays out. For me, a hot cute spinner who gives a full contact dance will make for a good or great experience. Feeling clean or dirty will not be a factor. If that really concerns you, and you can afford it, you should only go to the glitzy clubs or find a high priced escort and take her to an expensive hotel. You will probably never feel dirty after that type of adventure. I suspect most of us cannot afford, or choose not to spend that way, and we are comfortable in our own little fantasy world.

If I DON'T leave a club feeling dirty, I feel gypped.

I went to a club with mud wrestling. It made me feel dirty.

"Ever feel dirty?"

dum-dum-de-dum - this sounds like a job for the Super Nude Maids

lopaw, now that was funny

occurious, I know what you are talking about.

I used to club in places that were thinly disguised brothels. Some of the girls made some pretenses at stage dancing, but it was really about keeping a chain of customers going back to bust their loads quickly for short money. In some of these clubs, the services were even being provided in open rooms with other guys receiving the same treatment.

There was nothing sexy or exciting about these experiences. It all felt so mechanical, like we were all just scumbag cattle whose penises had to be milked quickly so that they could get their cash and move on to the next one. And yes, I would use the term "creepy" to describe how I felt after some of these experiences,

I have two of these clubs within striking distance and I could visit them at any time, but it has been years since I have patronized either of them. If I simply want to bust a nut, I have better ways of doing it than sitting in some open room with a Dominican girl, who cannot speak a lick of English, sucking my dick while 4 other guys are watching me and each other get the same treatment.

Yes

Rickdugan,

Thank you that's exactly what I meant. Don't get me wrong I like extras but there's got to be something sexy about them and not just a meat market and this is kind of how I felt. The first time I went to this club I kind of got that feeling but the dancer that I ultimately got extras with made it feel sexy so I didn't really get the creepy feeling like I did this time.

I, too, know what you are talking about.

Can't express my feelings any better than rickdugan did in his post.

I do sometimes. At my favorite club, there are certain girls I will not get dances from because it seems like all they want is the money that performing extras gives them. I mean, it's true that they all want our money, but with some girls, the only thing they want is our money. There's a difference there. The latter group are basically robots and should be avoided as much as possible.

usually I only feel emotionally dirty but yes in the past I did leave feeling physically dirty. Hell I went to a club a week or so ago and saw local high school parking permits in the cars out front and the girls inside looked young enough to go there that just made me feel icky on sooooooo many levels.

"Ever feel dirty?"

Only when I'm doing it right...

An open area for mileage like some of you here are talking about where all the guys are staring at each other out in the open while getting treated is a bit much. There is a lot of desperation in that, that is a bit dirty. I don't have a problem otherwise - this is all about a business for the dancers and the patrons.

Just today I had a "date" with a dancer fave who grabbed me, threw me around the VIP room like a rag doll, treated me like a sniveling little slave, and proceeded to make me beg for her to let me come.
I felt used, degraded & humiliated.


I'm meeting her again next Saturday.

I hate it, when that happens. LOL.

"Ever feel dirty"

Only after reading certain members' posts

"I felt used, degraded & humiliated.
I'm meeting her again next Saturday."

Well damn, girl, if I'd known you felt *that* way, the three of us (me, you and my girl) could've been having fun for a *long* time, now. :))

gmd,

ooooohhh the missed possibilities ;)

Geez, guys, the comedy in this forum is awesome. Are some of you guys professional comedians? Really, cuz that kind of humor only comes from experts.

Anyway, I've been to Flamingo many times, and never felt dirty. So it's not a negative about the club, it's your reaction. Not saying your reaction is wrong, it is what it is. Kinda like telling a girlfriend "you shouldn't get upset by that..." It is what it is.

But personally I like being in a public lap dance area and watching the nasty stuff the dancers are doing to the other customers. You can obtain really good intel, and it's kinda hot, IMO. Especially if your dancer is a dud, it gives you something to do while you wait for the song to end. Some guys don't like it, some do. And the guys who don't like it can't even comprehend how anyone could. Go figure.

Never forget having a pretty good lapdance from a dancer, but right next to me was a stunner who was grinding a guy's lap, facing away from him, reaching around behind her back and sliding her hand inside his shorts and jacking him off. And while she was doing that she was staring at me the whole time, giving me the nastiest smirk with a "yeah, baby, I'm gonna do this shit to you when we're done" look. It's almost having a 2-on-1 lapdance from two dancers at the same time.

Yeah, that's dirty, and that's nasty. But I loved it. And when it comes down to it, you can respond to things however you want. You can decide that it's just fun, and you're there for a good time, and go with the flow, and not make it into some major emotional battle.

Or maybe there's too much going on psychologically, and it's best for you to go somewhere else. But it ain't the club, it's how you respond to it.

Wait...you feel dirty leaving the Flamingo??!

Take this advice....DON'T go to Sahara! Sahara is like the Flamingo's crack addict little sister.

I HAVE felt dirty in the past. Once when I purchased an escort and had to wonder for 2 hours if she was 15. But most of the other times, at clubs, its the Sahara. Its just a pop in...blow load....leave $200-$400 poorer. Or for the cheap fucks or latinos...pop in, get hand job from ugly dancer for $25...leave satisfied and broke.

But yes. I gave up strip clubs for awhile after a few visits to Sahara. And after the escort incident...said no more of that either. But...went to a massage parlor and got a happy ending 2 weeks ago. And I'm thinkin about checking out Taboo tonight...keep pasing it on the 91 and never went in.

Id say more than "dirty"...its buyers remorse. You leave out $250-$400...a decent amount of money to most people...and you think, "was that necessary?" "Would I rather have that $250 and just have went home and jerked it?"

I used to feel like that when I first started going to clubs, sometimes I still do honestly, since I'm working a minimum wage job (I only been to the club around 6 or 8 times to be totally honest). For me it was the feeling of throwing money to a chick that isn't gonna suck my dick. I kind of stopped feeling that way after the second visit. Though on my last trip I did feel that way. I blame it on the fact that the girls provided didn't meet my standards of satisfaction, and the only girl that even met them was not coming anywhere near me (being hogged by a bachelor party, so I wasn't too miffed since I understood). Plus the one girl I let get me a lapdance (the first one that came to me pretty much even though not in my standards), she wasn't super hot, though I bloated her image in my mind but she smelled too much like fish for me to fully enjoy it (manhattan club, so yeah it was "ritzy" if you wanna call it that).

I think it's more in the club appearance that may have turned a person off and the type of girls available. Especially if NONE of them are your preference

Jerikson40: dude, sounds like you had an awesome night. You should have felt more naughty in a good way than dirty. Where is this flamingo club at? I wanna meet this stunner.

Lenerd313: Bro, you call them cheap, I call them resourceful...although they should have went to their local hooker and got a bj instead of paying dancer AND door fee. Crazy. And 250 for a blowjob? Yeah I'd feel buyers remorse too. Should have went for the escorts again. Much cheaper my friend

I'm not sure about dirty but I often reek of smoke. I take a shower and change clothes. Other than that, I don't feel dirty.

There is a lot of smoke in some clubs. What it would take to make me feel dirty is a good question. If a dancer sucked my dick, I'd either think she was thirsty or wanted me to enjoy her company. If she was ugly and somehow made my dick hard and stuck it inside her before I could stop her during a dance, I think I might feel dirty. If someone is feeling dirty, that must be awful. I'd go to the clinic and get cleaned up. Hopefully there's no permanent damage.

I think clubbing has done serious damage to my superego over the years. Takes so much to phase me now and being a "bad guy" is all part of the fun.

Still a couple of incidents were so over the top (bet I've gone further down the rabbit hole than anyone else on the board) that, yeah, I could still react. And, no, I don't want to talk about it,