Ever feel dirty?
occurious
California
Friday, September 7, 2012 2:28 PM
I just left a review for a club in my area and one of the things I said about the club that was a negative was that I feel dirty after leaving there. I don't mean physically dirty but mentally and not in a good way. I've gone to plenty of clubs and gotten all kinds of crazy mileage and I don't feel remorseful or dirty when I leave them. This particular club is know for ultra high mileage and even though this last time I chose not to partake of what was offered other than dances where both our hands roamed I realized the club just made me feel dirty.
The "normal" laps happen out in the open on a bench seat and there are other guys near you getting high mileage laps too, the girls aren't exactly stunning but they are friendly and eager but it just makes me feel that way. In a weird way I'm drawn back there because of the depravity of it. Anyone else ever feel like this?
The "normal" laps happen out in the open on a bench seat and there are other guys near you getting high mileage laps too, the girls aren't exactly stunning but they are friendly and eager but it just makes me feel that way. In a weird way I'm drawn back there because of the depravity of it. Anyone else ever feel like this?
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I guess to put it another way; have you ever gone to a club that just makes you feel creepy? Not dangerous just like maybe it's just gone too far down the rabbit hole?
dum-dum-de-dum - this sounds like a job for the Super Nude Maids
I used to club in places that were thinly disguised brothels. Some of the girls made some pretenses at stage dancing, but it was really about keeping a chain of customers going back to bust their loads quickly for short money. In some of these clubs, the services were even being provided in open rooms with other guys receiving the same treatment.
There was nothing sexy or exciting about these experiences. It all felt so mechanical, like we were all just scumbag cattle whose penises had to be milked quickly so that they could get their cash and move on to the next one. And yes, I would use the term "creepy" to describe how I felt after some of these experiences,
I have two of these clubs within striking distance and I could visit them at any time, but it has been years since I have patronized either of them. If I simply want to bust a nut, I have better ways of doing it than sitting in some open room with a Dominican girl, who cannot speak a lick of English, sucking my dick while 4 other guys are watching me and each other get the same treatment.
Thank you that's exactly what I meant. Don't get me wrong I like extras but there's got to be something sexy about them and not just a meat market and this is kind of how I felt. The first time I went to this club I kind of got that feeling but the dancer that I ultimately got extras with made it feel sexy so I didn't really get the creepy feeling like I did this time.
Can't express my feelings any better than rickdugan did in his post.
Only when I'm doing it right...
I felt used, degraded & humiliated.
I'm meeting her again next Saturday.
"Ever feel dirty"
Only after reading certain members' posts
I'm meeting her again next Saturday."
Well damn, girl, if I'd known you felt *that* way, the three of us (me, you and my girl) could've been having fun for a *long* time, now. :))
ooooohhh the missed possibilities ;)
Anyway, I've been to Flamingo many times, and never felt dirty. So it's not a negative about the club, it's your reaction. Not saying your reaction is wrong, it is what it is. Kinda like telling a girlfriend "you shouldn't get upset by that..." It is what it is.
But personally I like being in a public lap dance area and watching the nasty stuff the dancers are doing to the other customers. You can obtain really good intel, and it's kinda hot, IMO. Especially if your dancer is a dud, it gives you something to do while you wait for the song to end. Some guys don't like it, some do. And the guys who don't like it can't even comprehend how anyone could. Go figure.
Never forget having a pretty good lapdance from a dancer, but right next to me was a stunner who was grinding a guy's lap, facing away from him, reaching around behind her back and sliding her hand inside his shorts and jacking him off. And while she was doing that she was staring at me the whole time, giving me the nastiest smirk with a "yeah, baby, I'm gonna do this shit to you when we're done" look. It's almost having a 2-on-1 lapdance from two dancers at the same time.
Yeah, that's dirty, and that's nasty. But I loved it. And when it comes down to it, you can respond to things however you want. You can decide that it's just fun, and you're there for a good time, and go with the flow, and not make it into some major emotional battle.
Or maybe there's too much going on psychologically, and it's best for you to go somewhere else. But it ain't the club, it's how you respond to it.
Take this advice....DON'T go to Sahara! Sahara is like the Flamingo's crack addict little sister.
I HAVE felt dirty in the past. Once when I purchased an escort and had to wonder for 2 hours if she was 15. But most of the other times, at clubs, its the Sahara. Its just a pop in...blow load....leave $200-$400 poorer. Or for the cheap fucks or latinos...pop in, get hand job from ugly dancer for $25...leave satisfied and broke.
But yes. I gave up strip clubs for awhile after a few visits to Sahara. And after the escort incident...said no more of that either. But...went to a massage parlor and got a happy ending 2 weeks ago. And I'm thinkin about checking out Taboo tonight...keep pasing it on the 91 and never went in.
Id say more than "dirty"...its buyers remorse. You leave out $250-$400...a decent amount of money to most people...and you think, "was that necessary?" "Would I rather have that $250 and just have went home and jerked it?"
I think it's more in the club appearance that may have turned a person off and the type of girls available. Especially if NONE of them are your preference
Lenerd313: Bro, you call them cheap, I call them resourceful...although they should have went to their local hooker and got a bj instead of paying dancer AND door fee. Crazy. And 250 for a blowjob? Yeah I'd feel buyers remorse too. Should have went for the escorts again. Much cheaper my friend
Still a couple of incidents were so over the top (bet I've gone further down the rabbit hole than anyone else on the board) that, yeah, I could still react. And, no, I don't want to talk about it,