Comments by occurious (page 4)

I get the tongue in the ear more than I get the licking the neck. I almost always get at least one dancer that starts nibbling on my nipples though.

I think conversation during a VIP is awkward so I'm thankful that most don't engage in it. A few months ago I was at DV COI and I was getting a topless from a nice little hottie and she would not shut up. The thing was she was just going on and on about life in general, not even that her life was bad just general stuff. I think I'd rather have had her try to discuss politics or movies with me at least it would have been interesting. Totally ruined the dance and I only got one.

Good point about Sinatra and Bacall was in that group too! I forgot about Maureen O'Hara she was always one of my favorites.

Two greats in one day it sucks... I was thinking Lauren Bacall was pretty much the last left from the golden age of Hollywood. I can't think of anyone from the 40's and 50's left can anyone else?

Ok so as I said it had nothing to do with me worrying about taking advantage of her. As for worrying about diseases the thought is well taken it's not like we're dealing with virtuous women anyway but seriously there has to be a lower limit right? When I say high as a kite I mean it, she was not just buzzed. She was talking to me in a very slow almost insane voice and her eyes would close and open without any real sense of anything. She was fried. Jeriskson40, yes it was Flamingo. On a brighter note all of the girls were very hot when I went unlike many other times lately. I was offered a "lot fun" in VIP by a really nice very hot blonde right after the stoned one but I got the feeling it was just a pitch since she wouldn't actually list a menu.

I realized I wasn't clear before on my definition of an extra. If a dancer reaches in and fondles me either in the main club area or the LD area that is an advertisement not an extra. If she takes it out and actively tries to get me off using whatever means at her disposal then that's an extra. Sucking on her tits in the LD is almost a given these days so I don't think it's an extra. An interesting twist on my definition occurs at DV COI. There is one dancer that has never hinted at offering me anything more than letting me suck on her tits in the LD area but she will DFK me for long periods of time. I consider that an extra, I never asked for it but she is a very good kisser and it makes for one of the most sensuous dances I have ever had so she deserves a good tip for that.

As you said it depends on the club. For my favorite club nothing ever happens out in the open so extras always take place in VIP during nude bed dances. This club is very interesting; just about anything is available but menus and prices are very rarely mentioned. For example a few weeks ago I went there and took this very hot 9 back for some dances, she never indicated anything involving me was available but she basically placed her pussy on my chest and put my fingers in her. I spent the next 4 songs fingering her, it was very sensual and fun. She got a good tip. I went back a few days ago and took a busty brunette back for some fun. On the first song she unzipped me and started a HJ with no mention of price or anything, by the second song she was doing a very nice BBBJ. After I came all she said was I could tip her privately. I gave her a nice tip but clearly she had planned to accept whatever I gave her. BTW this last scenario has happened to me 3 times at this club all over the last few years and with 3 different dancers. Never a mention of price or expectations. It makes it very hot when it happens.

I live in the OC, I've never been to clubs in TJ but years ago I would go to TJ a lot. I would never go there now, it was always a dump of a place to go but now it's a particularly dangerous dump of a place to go. There's no point in traveling all that way for what you are looking for and risking your life in the process. As others have said COI is great for virtually guaranteed mileage that doesn't cost a lot but the traffic can be bad. If you aren't looking for 9's and 10's try Flamingo, very cheap and incredibly high mileage. Most of the girls there are 5-6 but every shift there is always at least one 8-9. They aren't shy about wanting your money and being willing to work for it. There is another close alternative but it can be expensive. Go to Extacy in Santa Ana (really on the boarder with Costa Mesa). The club is very low key, they always have a ton of dancers that are mostly 8+ and the nude bed dances are fantastic. The bed dances are expensive however but with the right girl they can be amazing.

I'd love to have ITC FS. I've been offered it before but have never taken a dancer up on it just because I either didn't want to spend the money or just didn't want to with her. I've had BBBJ,CBJ and DATY, I even rimmed a dancer once but I've never had FS. I'm sure it will be a let down when I actually do it but I'd love to find out.

It's funny you say that Subraman about not wanting to look like the creepy serial killer person by being quiet. I consciously try not to look like that because I figure they get quite a few guys every shift like that. Ironically the hottest girl in the club when I was there was tied up by one of those kinds of guys. Too bad because I really wanted some dances with her.

The last time there was a giant lottery CNN asked this question and someone posted "I'd spend 1/2 on hookers and blow and the other 1/2 I would just waste". That's one of my favorite quotes.

That law was the dumbest thing they ever passed here. They got it passed by trusting that the average voter thinks everyone in porn has HIV and they are saving lives. All they ended up doing was ultimately costin CA a few billion $ a year. I'm sure NV is quite happy to have them move to Vegas. Remember the path to hell is paved with good intentions.

Thats why you should never get a dance from a girl that just comes on shift. By the third guy it's all been sucked off. Ok I know gross.

Yeah I'm one of those that associates it with Reba, I love that song. You're right it would be a little too easy to associate it with the environment but I can also see how it would work great if the dancer had a good routine. It's so rare to see dancers actually try to create something that matches the music, when I do I always tip them more.

I never initiate kissing a dancer during a LD and honestly until this year I had never really had a dancer initiate much either in the realm of kissing. Other oral acts yes kissing no. This year I had some topless dances from an older dancer at Deja Vu in COI and they were some of the most sensual dancers I've ever had. She never offered extras but we got totally into DFK. I've gone back to her a few times and it's always the same, it's an incredibly erotic experience.

Even if I'm not trying to get extras I go commando these days when I go to a club, it just feels better. Most of the dancers seem to enjoy it, the only odd reaction I got was one time I went into a VIP booth with a dancer who negotiated a HJ. I made two mistakes, one not specifying with her that it wouldn't be an over the pants variety and two not listening to the little voice in the back of my head telling me she was a ROB. Unfortunately she was so hot I just fell for it. Anyway she unzipped me and commented that she was surprised she never would have figured I was a guy that goes commando. Obviously this disappointed her because she planned on using the underwear to make sure she never touched me skin to skin during the HJ. She attempted to use my jeans but that really felt more like sandpaper so the whole thing ended quickly.

Ok so lets get some definitions here. Are you talking actual FS or does a BJ count?

Like anything it's a calculated risk and how you are or are not thinking at the time. I've gotten BBJ's a few times and afterwards I think how stupid that was but I've never gotten anything from it. Odds are you probably won't catch something but that's not a guarantee and if you want DATY or BBJ then that's the risk you accept. I've seen comments on here that some guys won't even suck on a strippers nipples for fear of catching something that was left there by a previous guy's mouth. I personally think that's overly paranoid and never turn down a tit if offered but hey some guys have a higher level of concern than I.

Chicago, yes it's a musical but how can you resist Catherine Zeta Jones and Rene Zellweger dancing around in lingerie most of the time. The music isn't bad either.

While I agree for mileage and price Flamingo is the best if you just aren't into LD's and just want to watch the stage without a lot of pressure then try Ecstacy in Santa Ana or Taboo and Imperial Showgirls in Anaheim. Ecstacy has one very unique feature, the only LD they have are private nude bed dances but they are pricey at $60 a song. However if you don't want that and just want to watch the stage then this is the place they make sure there is always a dancer on stage unlike most other places. There is no drink hustle and the girls take a friendly no thank you very nicely. Taboo and Imperial are also very low key and friendly, they have almost no mileage though so again it's just a place to go if you want to sit and relax.

Yes about a year ago was getting a great nude private dance, the first dance she reached in and did some stick shifting, the second she unzipped me. The third dance she told me to tell her when the bouncer left after doing his rounds. As soon I did she started sucking like a champ, no CIM though. She was very hot and it was a fantastic BJ. She never asked for anything although I gave her a good tip. It was probably one of the hottest privates I've ever had, she made it feel like she was really into me.

A lot of feminists would argue its a domination thing that men use to degrade women. Of course I wonder if those same feminists think the same thing when a man goes down on them. I'm sure it is a domination thing with some men, just like a facial can be considered that but for me it's just that it feels so good why would you want them to stop at the moment when it feels the best? Of course if a woman doesn't want to do it then I wouldn't insist but doing it to completion feels so much better.

Unless he's being weird or looked really weird I don't think it should creep them out. Odds are he has no one and its either this or sitting home alone watching TV. As for getting bored and seeing the same bodies over and over I guess it depends on the turn over in dancers. Most clubs I go to have a lot of turn over. I've seen guys like this in clubs too but usually they interact with the dancers more and I would guess if they're harmless the dancers probably prefer them, kind of like a Cheers type situation you just have a new friend. As for the question, I'd say the most I would do would be once a week at $250 a visit and that's probably pushing it. The once a month would be better although as strange as it sounds I'd feel more guilty blowing $1000 in one visit than 4 at $250.

I usually end up going to clubs wearing jeans and last year was the first time I start going commando. It makes for a much better feeling and the dancers with wandering hands seem to enjoy it a lot more. Having said that I can't come from having an LD, it just feels too rough. I actually had a dancer try to give me a HJ over my jeans the other day (her idea not mine) and I told her to stop after a while because it wasn't going to happen and it felt too rough. It was funny because she commented that she did't think I was a commando kind of guy and she surprised.

Think you have your health concerns kind of flip flopped there..... Now to answer your question, I always suck their tits during an LD if they are available and yes I've done a little rimming ages ago when I was young and dumb.