How did you discover the "extras-friendly" strip club scene
Electronman
Too much of a good thing is never enough
Farmerart's excellent article on "Dancers I have known" makes me wonder how others have "discovered" the evolving joys of strip club culture. For Farmerart, it was a chance stop at Honey's, a notorious Seattle club that was shut down shortly after Farmerart's first visit.
I wonder how many TUSCL readers have stumbled into the extras-friendly strip club scene through a chance visit to a club? Did many receive a "scouting report" from a friend about an interesting club? Did others discover the extras-friendly club scene by first reading TUSCL or other strip club web sites.
For me, it was a chance visit to the Landing Strip near Detroit, a club that several friends had recommended. Prior to this visit, I had sampled a couple of Michigan-based Deja Vus where the dancers were at least as attractive as those at the Landing Strip and they were allowed to dance nude-- of course the lap dances at the Vus were pretty lame but, having no comparison, I did not realize that other clubs might have more lenient policies about private dances. Anyhow, I sampled a VIP session with an attractive girl-next door type at the Landing Strip and I was surprised at how much mileage I experienced-- no extras but the dancer allowed lots of contact and had me partially unzipped before I "ran out of money." This experience convinced me to do a little research on the Detroit strip club scene. I eventually discovered a couple of now-defunct strip club discussion boards and of course TUSCL. Absent these internet resources, I would have not been aware of the range of extras-friendly clubs nor the options for negotiating prices for special services.
I wonder how many TUSCL readers have stumbled into the extras-friendly strip club scene through a chance visit to a club? Did many receive a "scouting report" from a friend about an interesting club? Did others discover the extras-friendly club scene by first reading TUSCL or other strip club web sites.
For me, it was a chance visit to the Landing Strip near Detroit, a club that several friends had recommended. Prior to this visit, I had sampled a couple of Michigan-based Deja Vus where the dancers were at least as attractive as those at the Landing Strip and they were allowed to dance nude-- of course the lap dances at the Vus were pretty lame but, having no comparison, I did not realize that other clubs might have more lenient policies about private dances. Anyhow, I sampled a VIP session with an attractive girl-next door type at the Landing Strip and I was surprised at how much mileage I experienced-- no extras but the dancer allowed lots of contact and had me partially unzipped before I "ran out of money." This experience convinced me to do a little research on the Detroit strip club scene. I eventually discovered a couple of now-defunct strip club discussion boards and of course TUSCL. Absent these internet resources, I would have not been aware of the range of extras-friendly clubs nor the options for negotiating prices for special services.
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On my 17th birthday, I was moping around being depressed because my girlfriend had been fucking some other guy, and my friends all took me over to one of the strip clubs in Ft. Erie, Canada. In retrospect, it was more brothel than strip club, but there *were* strippers. They, like some now, were thinly disguised hookers, but they were also strippers.
A couple of rounds in the back room with a very talented young Vietnamese (that's what she told me, anyway) girl was basically all it took.
My next one was in a club on the US side of the lake, and it wasn't as exciting, but I've been doing it ever since.
I am not an extras guy and had always been satisfied w/ good two-way contact.
It wasn’t ‘til I started reading TUSCL that I became aware of hardcore FS availability in certain clubs, and OTC.
Prior to TUSCL, I had always turned down CR “invitations†b/c I thought they were just empty promises and rip-offs, which can be the case in many a club, but didn't know it was not the case in certain clubs.
Knowing what I know now – I still opt for non-extras, non-CR/VIP, high 2-way contact LDs – but TUSCL has taught me a lot!!!
I have had twice as much pussy as a result of TUSCL than my college fraternity! So kids, forget about college, just join TUSCL. Of course if you want to be able to afford FS with an 8 or 9, you might need a job that pays well and having college degree might be the ticket to better paying job...or does all that extra wage go to pay-off student loans?
Truth be told, it took me years to find that level of service ITC again. The club where it first happened was raided not long after and was forced to move its LD services from private back rooms into a semi-open LD area. Also, most other clubs in the northeast were run fairly clean back then, with the exception of a few brothel clubs offering the services of Latinas who, in many cases, could barely speak English. Even Providence was fairly clean back then and dicier services were not so easy to source.
But I would not have even found those aforementioned brothel clubs if it were not for TUSCL, which I discovered in 1998. Also, my travels dramatically expanded from 2000 on, so, with the help of TUSCL and other resources, I have found some wonderful clubs scattered in different parts of the country and continue to do so to this day. Also, over the last 8 to 10 years, a lot has changed even in the northeast, which has made clubbing locally much more fun as well.
Of course. Something as genius as "The System" could not have been developed overnight. (Not even by a "mind" (see how I put that in quotes) as genius as yours.)
exsist anymore. I was about 23 so you could imagine my shock!
Different times kiddo, different times. ;)
There were (and still are) less than 90 clubs spread across the six New England states and many of them were (and still are) monitored by local communities just itching for an excuse to pull their liquor licenses. Even Providence was run fairly clean back then, as hard as that may be to imagine today. And in CT, which was home to some of some of the loosest clubs, including the aforementioned brothel clubs, raids were commonplace.
In NYC, we are talking about the Guiliani years, though most girls working in NYC probably weren't that motivated to provide extras anyway as there was a shit ton of money flowing into those clubs back then. Regular folk were lucky to get the time of day from some of these girls, never mind extras.
So Dougie, how was Seattle back then? :)
It was was awesome. Naked couch dances. The more friendly girls would stick their pussy in your face. The private rooms were essentially sex rooms. It was very different from any strip club I'd ever been to in the US. Sadly I had a similar result as the Farmerart and Rickdugan...a few months after my initial visit the place got raided, local govt dicks put onerous restrictions on them turning it into a bikini juice bar. In the heyday it was a real bar, you could get your drunk on. Eventually the place got shut down and the owner went psycho, stormed into the county courthouse with a gun, started waving it around and got himself shot dead.
LOL Estafador, not on a $160 per visit budget anyway. ;)
If you want to stretch that money out further, you may want to point the car North on 95 and head up to Stamford (Harry Os) or Bridgeport (multiple clubs) CT.
Imagine if you had Estie with you. You might even be able to show up on nights when both your favorites were working. Then if one came by talk it won't offend the other, because you could blame it on Estie. You won't even have to stay home like the chicken-shit that you are. Hey, there's a new idea for "The System", huh?
What I am doing is giving the young man some sound advice as to how to get the most from his budget. He, like you, cannot afford to spend too much in clubs. I was in a similar place before I was a RICH STUD (as you insist on labeling me - lol) and could employ "The System" (lol again). When I was lighter in the wallet, I quickly learned to avoid places that served its offerings on silver platters when I was on a beer budget. ;)
Because that is what I do around here - I just keep on giving, while you just keep on crapping on this stuff. ;)
It's really no mystery that what is going is displacement regarding either your father or your grandfather. And the more insults you try and cast on me which are so out of touch with reality, the more you just letting me know about your early life. Question for you though. Is this person still alive, and do you think that by having become a RICH enough STUD to be able to afford to pay hooker's for sex you have "showed" that person? Are they jealous of you, assuming they are still alive? If they are dead, would they be jealous of you if they were still around. Most of the world thinks an "accomplishment" of paying a hooker for sex is nothing, but you tell. What would your father or grandfather have thought? (I hope you are will on your way to getting even with them. If you need to displace your feelings about them onto me, to get you there, I'm willing to help you out, come just the helping sort, little RickyBoy.)
Further complicating it is that the areas in which it is easiest to score, you may not want to it. Why? Because in those areas many of the girls are also offering services ITC, which makes the OTC guy the last one at the table.
As far as my other comments about you, I am a linear guy and can only work with the inputs given. When I see a guy who:
(1) posts endless amounts of crap on here;
(2) obviously knows little about the topic matter as he can provide no specific club intel and his few dancer related posts consist of oversimplified soundbites;
(3) has endless amounts of time to post all of this crap and nonsense, with 3000 posts in the past year alone; and
(4) has displayed contempt for both dancers and real strip club customers in a number of posts...
I can only assume that he is a shut-in with a lot of anger and insecurities to work through. And you have picked this site as your venue because you have developed some weird sense of superiority over over guys who take this hobby seriously, which means that you could care less if you fill this place with utter crap, and because there are no controls in place to stop you from doing so.
How sad kiddo.
About 10 years ago I was a one of my favorite OC clubs and got one of their very expensive nude bed dances from a cute little dancer. I had gotten these before from other girls and they allowed good contact but again I was never offered extras and I never asked. So anyway as the new girl is giving me an amazing dance I gave into a second one at which point she spins around into a 69 position and lowers herself to the point where her pussy is touching my nose and her hand is moving into my pants. Of course I stuck my tongue out and she readily lowered herself onto my mouth. I spent the next 4 songs licking her pussy and butt while she gave me a HJ.
Now she never exactly offered extras but the price of the dances were large and I gave her a generous tip so I guess you could say I paid for extras. It still is one of the hottest dances I've had. After that I became much more interested in what dancers would offer and actually do and most recently I've really gotten into getting extras. I've had many dances that go way beyond what happened that first time but like I said it still is one of my favorite memories.
That has been suggested plenty of times to no avail – if there aren’t other TUSCLers there to witness the drama – then it defeats the purpose of the flaming.
About five years ago in a chance encounter I stopped in a strip club late at night and met my ATF. She's been everything I wanted and we've been meeting OTC for several years and I've become her greatest source of income. Now, through TUSCL, over the last 6 months I've learned a lot about various clubs and ways to reduce the cash outflow. Honestly, I've not been too bright about ways of dealing with strippers, but am slowly learning. I'm also beginning to get the hang of this as a hobby, not a full time obsession.
I just am sorry that I didn't see the light earlier in my life. There's nothing comparable to holding a naked hot body in your arms or having the best blowjob imaginable.
My friend asked if I got any and when I told him we left. That was the first time I learned of extra's.
I went back there again a few years ago, she still works there but, I don't bother with her. That night the first girl that came up to me put her hand on my crotch and made the offer. So, from there I learned that's a club for Extra's.
Outside of that I've been to clubs that are strict with the rules but, the ladies have found ways around that. I find that with clubs like that you have to show the ladies you're a regular, you'll get numbers and be able to do the OTC thing.
So, really you can get a feeling for how things work by the vibe of the place.
Now there's a conspiracy theory! Looks like RickyBoy has some competition for whackiest conspiracy theory these days. Che had a good one yesterday, and today Papi comes up with a good one! Gonna put the RickyBoy out of business.
So, I saved a few bucks, got an excellent GFE, BBBJ and all the "handling" I could wish. I never got to take her up on the second trip. She was not seen again at the club. :(
So started reading TUSCL and reviews and two weeks ago went to a SC club here in CT, well reviewed here at TUSCL and low and behold first lap dance was offered some extras said thanks but no thanks, tried a few more LD with differet women and offers were received from each one. Even in the LD room they offered the extras with one I did allow her to do some extra but did not finish due to me feeling too exposed in the LD room not her issue was mine. Did some more sampling with LD (something learned from TUSCL) and found one, she had me panting after one LD and she offered CR, I accepted.
As per the forums agreed up front what would be provided, went to CR and all was delivered as promised. WOW that was awesome plan on visiting the club again this week or next. Also called my Best friend we hit the sc once or twice a year need to let him know I found the promised land.
In Tampa!
I got some dances from a hot latina, and she kissed me with fervor. I said, "You're making me want you." She replied, "Oh, we can do that." She unzipped my pants, pulled me free, moved her panties aside, and rode me as if I were a rented mule.
I knew I wanted more experiences like that, and TUSCL helped find them.
I ended up in a Christie's were a hot honey named Kitty talked me into going into the $20 section. We went and the honey grabbed my hands and placed them on her beautiful tits and ass. I was like "whoa! I can touch you?!".
No extras were given but I was out of the blocks and running after that.
Dang, the memory makes me miss Kitty but she only works in non-extra clubs and I don't go to those anymore ;-).
I walked into a club in Everett, WA. I had been there a few times. There was a dancer named Spice that I had hit it of with. She immediately swiped me up. Things were slow. She needed to pay her rent. We went to the VIP. She started a dance, the suddenly, unzipped me, went to her knees and gave me an amazing bbbj. I came so hard in her mouth. She swallowed it. From then on, I was hooked.
You mention a dancer named 'Spice' at an Everett club. That club can only be Honey's, the site of my first SC visit. I remember that particular dancer from my single visit to Honey's, a dancer with one of the absolute worst boob jobs that I have ever seen.
It was before the boob job. That's how long ago it was.
She knew how to suck a dick.
Man she was good.
ain't is amazing what a girl will do to become a atf?
bbbj all the way!
I was about to leave when a very nice next door looking blonde with large natural breasts stopped by. I wasn't about to pass her up so agreed. We went to the regular lap dance area and she did a good dance. At the end of the second song she asked something to the effect, "what is it going to take me to get you to burst in your pants." For some reason half the dancers that trip used the phrase, "burst in your pants."
I told her something to the effect a lap dance won't do it, but your mouth on my cock would. I expected her to mouth me through my pants like the other dancers so far had, but instead she said, "not down here, but upstairs I can." I asked how much and got a decent price so upstairs we went. I paid the price and she got three condoms from the gal manning the booths upstairs.
She really tried for the upsell by first gliding on my underwear and also gliding on me again once she put the condom on. It was tempting, but her upsell price was too high. Figuring out I wouldn't go for the higher priced fun she performed admirably well and I left quite satisfied.
First few visits - it wasn't the mileage/extras that got me - but the variety of hot dancers. They were getting a good number of brazilians - and they also had a few Eastern Europeans - and some English speaking all Americans. Dances were 20 a piece - upstairs in filthy booths. Once you were in the booth - nothing was off limits.
I found an ATF on my third visit - and it started with DFK and progressed quickly to bbbj and on later visits FS. Needless to say I was addicted! The challenge has been finding a place that is similar in terms of offerings - good dancer selection - and good extras offerings too. Still searching.
In part this was Willey Brown as Mayor and Terrance Hallinan as DA.
But I don't really go for that style of interaction, not enough time, not necessarily GFE. The girls is in service mode, dissociated. I prefer the pseudo escort style sessions one can set up in AMPs. If you approach the girls the right way, it becomes just like a civilian first date.
When in San Francisco I've usually turned it around with dancers and DATYed them. This definitely does soften them up.
I treat all women as civilians. No reason for her to make me cum until she has opened up herself to me, let down her emotional barriers. This is much more important than something so pointless as my own ejaculation.
So in the more extreme straight up brothel types of strip clubs I expect to be in in other parts of the country, I should be very happy, because the girls, approached the right way, seem to let you do whatever you want.
SJG