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14 years ago
I was visiting a "Boys Town" across the Rio Grande about 20 years ago and one strip club had a boy/girl act on stage about once an hour. Although the girl was hot (she walked the floor before and after the show and was one of the few who spoke some English so I did talk to her) I didn't pay much attention to the act. Later, two of the four guys with me claimed they didn't even know there was a boy/girl stage show. Admittedly, we were all distracted by "strippers" with their hands in our laps.
I've also heard that similar shows are put on in Rio and some other central and south american countries. Personally, I don't care to see some other guy on stage getting what I want to get in private! Plus, I just don't want to see naked guys - it ain't my thing!
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14 years ago
OK GV,
First, there are a number of members on this site with a VERY low opinion of strippers. They assume EVERY contact with EVERY stripper will include her intentionally trying to take as much of your money as she can. That is NOT always true - but it IS usually what is going on. She met you in a strip club, it is her job to spend time with you - FOR A FEE! Watch yourself.
Second answer. Most of the young ladies dancing in clubs have messed up lives. Even if they really are paying for college with the SC money, they are running between school, strip club, another job?, and whatever shreds of a normal life they can maintain. More often, instead of college, they are stripping instead of trying to learn a more difficult and lower paying trade. A fair percentage are dealing with drug/drinking problems and many of them do have deadbeat/druggie/violent boyfriends/husbands.
Usually these young women are lonely and want a "normal" friend (maybe even friend with benefits). If you got good vibes from her maybe that was real! Don't be afraid to check it out.
Either way, BE CAREFUL!!!!!!
If she wants $$$ for a good time, that's your call - hey, you paid for lappers, for a little more you could get some strange (I long ago outgrew the macho "I don't need to pay for it" and discovered it's sometimes fun to buy some!). Others have warned you TRUTHFULLY to watch out for rip-offs and lurking pimps/boyfriends.
If she really just wants a friend, it could be a blast. BUT, she IS a stripper, she spends a lot of time receiving $$ from guys . She is used to the guy she is with (even if only for a few minutes) paying for drinks, and everything else. Even if she truly just wants to be a friend, she WILL be expensive!
If you do make contact write the story in an article here. I would love to hear what happens!
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14 years ago
A happy and memorable B'day to you SC. If I remember correctly from your postings this past year, it had been a year of changes. May everything that was good from the past year continue into the new, and may this year see the end of all that was bad.
Live well, love well and smile!
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14 years ago
I like GMD's answer. Basically, it depends?!?! My experience also is that day shift girls generally work harder for their money and often that translates into more mileage. But, sometimes the nights are full of stars. Once a really hot night shift dancer approached me just before closing and offered through the roof mileage for a bargain price. Turns out she had been drinking with a regular all night and hadn't made enough to tip out. Take your chances, learn the routine at your local club, have fun.
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14 years ago
I think Farmerart is still in the south of France and may be slow to respond. In the meantime, my limited understanding is that prostitution IS legal - BUT - there are several specific laws that limit the practice. One law prohibits the use of a residence/domicile for prostitution (bawdy house) another law prohibits solicitation (communicating for the purpose). Like the US, Canada is not always clear about what they are doing!
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14 years ago
I walked into a Houston club (for the very first time) last year and a raven haired, buxom beauty grabbed me just as I entered the main room. After a hug, a kiss, and a few "breathless" words from her, I figured out she thought I was one of her regulars from another club. By the time she realized I was not who she thought I was we were already seated in a corner. She apologized - several times - and even offered to buy me a drink - I think she was honestly embarrassed.
This club turned out to be, much as you described, a locals place and strangers were not generally given much attention. But the obvious greeting (mistaken though it was) and the time the raven beaut spent with me DID make a difference. What would have been an unproductive SC visit turned out to be fun. And while the mistaken ID girl was not "comfortable" about extras, others (who now thought I was a regular) were more generous!
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14 years ago
Rarely, I drop up to $500-600 in a (long) night. My experience has been that the clubs where the action is are usually LESS expensive than the "Ritz" style clubs. I have enjoyed itc fs action, and some of my best nights out, spending $300 or less! Most nights in a SC I spend less than $200 and still have a good time, just no fs.
Now if I lived in Detroit, Houston or Miami I would be spending (and getting) much more! In those towns, there is just TOO much action NOT to buy in, often!!!!!!
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14 years ago
troop,
I saw that one (mywildvacation.com) and several others like it. (also see satisfactionplusadultvacations.com and affordable-adult-vacations.com) Some other DR places also offer European women (instead of DR locals) but at a much higher rate. I am curious, from what I have seen it appears that any guy can have a carrib vacation in the DR - WITH a chica included - for only a little more than Sandals or another hotel/resort. I am not planning on going (though not ruling it out either) but I am curious.
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14 years ago
I understand the frustration - and the turn off. I was standing stage-side to tip a hot redhead when she bent own and said in my ear, "Tank yous hawney." I swear the sound HAD to come out of her nose! I absolutely did NOT like the sound of that girl's voice.
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14 years ago
About a decade ago I traveled to the NE for a business seminar and on a Thurs nite I hit a SC about 30 miles away from the hotel/seminar site. The next morning I muddled through the morning sessions and dimly thought one of the presenters looked familiar but it didn't really register with me. Until midmorning when this very professionally dressed presenter quietly asked to speak to me during a break. It was only after she begged me not to say anything that I recognized her as one of the dancers I paid for several lappers the night before (they were very tame dances by today's standards).
Some of the dancers we encounter really DO have valid educations. Her MBA was from an Ivy League school (info provided by seminar) and she was a well paid business consultant. She also enjoyed dancing with most of her clothes off. Unfortunately, seeing me in her seminar scared her enough that I got nowhere plus she assured me she would not be back to that club in the near future.
That said, most of the dancers I encounter think they are smart and try to convince me they are in school/grads BUT it doesn't take much conversation to reveal rather extreme limits in their education.
Yes, I do stroke their ego's and try to listen to their claims and opinions. Sometimes it helps, sometimes it doesn't. Often I just end up feeling sorry for these undereducated young women, and that can ruin the fantasy.
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14 years ago
Hey, I can remember every single girl that gave me a lap dance!!!! (Today only) I even found my car in the lot AND remembered how to get to the hwy and home!
OK, so I can't remember their names (either one of the two), it really doesn't matter because I can't remember which club I was in!
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14 years ago
I have reviewed less than half the clubs I visited. No real rules govern my choices, but if it was a short unexceptional visit you probably will not read about it. I usually do not review return visits unless something has changed or my experience is very different for other recent reviews.
Bottom line for me is (I guess) do I have a rant, warning, heads up or a brag. Something I think worth writing about happens (or doesn't happen) about one SC visit in 6 or 7.
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14 years ago
Several months ago I was with a girl in the club's VIP (a daytime charge of $35 for the VIP, plus dance charges) when she was called to the stage. She says, "Wait for me, I'll be back after my set." That part was OK with me, but when we settle up later she want me to pay for her time from when we went to VIP - including the time she was on stage! We had agreed to a "per hour" instead of per dance charge and her stage set took over 45 minutes (including main stage and two side stages, plus cleaning up after).
That was irritating! She eventually, did back off that claim. In fact, she apologized before I left. Still, I am not likely to ask her for another dance even though she was good!
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14 years ago
I was also out today and the club I visited - stunk. I'm not sure whether it was because of Columbus Day or the club just normally stinks during the day.
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14 years ago
At Baby Dolls in Dallas, just 2 weeks ago, a dancer walked up to me and introduced herself as "Jingle Bells." She really uses that name, even has a web site.
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14 years ago
Steve, I had a free afternoon so I got ready to go to a SC. Showered up and down, shaved, put on the dark loose microfiber slacks and a nice shirt - AND - I figured out that I really didn't want to go to a club. Spent an hour wondering what was wrong with me! Still worried, but at least I know I'm not alone.
Some days just don't have the right vibe. (I am not getting old. I am not losing my edge. I am NOT getting old!)
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14 years ago
I'm using Firefox and NO pics are showing. All I see, instead of pics, are the captions. But I haven't seen any download warnings.
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14 years ago
1974 - Holiday Inn in the bar with a bud on a Fri nite - we saw a pushy/rude drunk trying to move in on two cute young things who clearly did NOT want anything from the asshole. I walked over and aggressively - in his face - asked him why he was bothering my wife. After the jerk left the bar I just smiled, blew a kiss to the two beauties and walked back to my beer. A few minutes later both ladies joined us and for the rest of the evening - and into the morning - repeatedly thanked me for saving them.
I've been trying that "good guy" thing every chance ever since. Once in a long while it really pays off!!!!
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14 years ago
Even where there are "drink minimums" the club, or more likely your waitress, will likely cooperate with you. In Vegas a few years ago I twice declined to buy anything after I returned from a lap dance and my not-quite-empty glass had been removed. A few minutes later the waitress set on my table a glass of iced liquid with lemon and a little umbrella in it. She leaned in a shouted in my ear (the only way to be heard in that club) that the club requires everyone have a drink in front of them so she brought me a glass of water. Interestingly, she then trotted off without asking me for any money! Many clubs combine a bottle with a private VIP room because on their books you are paying for the booze not the room. If that's the case and you don't want the drink - give the bottle to the girl.
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14 years ago
Like Shadow, I cannot tell how old they are and only get in trouble trying to guess. About 3 yrs ago I got several dances from a very hot young blond with a tight bod and perky natural C cups. It was a slow day at that club and this smoking chick joined me at my table after (she brought her own drink with her). While talking she mentioned her grandson - WHAT??? - yes, grandson!
Turns out she was my age (then 54). I didn't believe it and lost a $10 bet when she pulled out her DL - yep, born in 1953! I swear, put her in a lineup with 20 yr olds and you will pick her as the youngest.
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14 years ago
The reason so many clubs can claim to have porn star dancers is the "new" porn industry. All it takes to be a porn "star" these days is a digital cam and a computer. Most of today's porn stars have earned little or nothing from "film" and most of their income comes from escorting and dancing. Not that I'm complaining - many of the self proclaimed porn stars are very "extra" friendly!!!
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14 years ago
It's not always a bad thing to be blind for a few minutes. Couple of years ago I walked into a Dallas nude club (juice bar) in the afternoon. I could - just barely - see the main stage but little else. After taking several slow, hesitant steps, a soft hand took mine and said, "Here, let me show you the way" and proceeded to pull my hand down between her legs. She then - still holding my hand tight against her kitty - said, "Now, know where you are?" I was only a step from one of the side stages and this (I later discovered) was a very cute dancer still on stage. Later, when I could see, she and a few of her equally wild friends joined me. Great start for a very good afternoon.
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14 years ago
Couple of years ago - I'm a little wasted, having LOTS of fun with a very cute blond on a couch in a rather open but empty VIP when the club manager walks by. Only after he said "hi" to us and walked off did I realize that he couldn't have missed my equipment securely planted in the blond. I shriveled up like a prune, took her ten minutes to get me back to attention. NO, I don't like being watched!
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14 years ago
If all you want to do is stand around and watch pole tricks, go for it. But the place will not be any good for lappers, conversation or service.
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14 years ago
A few years ago I bought a dance from a newbie who was absolutely thrilled to be asked. Enthusiasm through the roof, wanted to please, willing to listen, and not too "limited" in what she would allow. But - DAMN - She had NO IDEA what she was doing! Before I could stop her she bounced - hard - on my equipment which afterward was no longer willing to be hard.
Ehthusiasm counts, but without at least a little skill/experience it can be a painful experience!