Expertise or Enthusiasm?
georgmicrodong
Just a fat, creepy old pervert.
Does sufficient enthusiasm make up for a lack of skill? Does sufficient skill make make up for a lack of enthusiasm?
Obviously, both at the same time is the ideal (well, for me anyway), but for me, it takes a *lot* of skill to make up for a complete lack of enthusiasm, but even a lot of enthusiasm won't offset a lack of skill.
Obviously, both at the same time is the ideal (well, for me anyway), but for me, it takes a *lot* of skill to make up for a complete lack of enthusiasm, but even a lot of enthusiasm won't offset a lack of skill.
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Most of the time I'd take enthusiasm over the mechanical cowgirl, though, since it doesn't take that much to work a teachable moment into a set of dances.
If so, then I guess you know your answer. If not, I guess you need more stimulation.
Ehthusiasm counts, but without at least a little skill/experience it can be a painful experience!
The worst newbie dancer with spirit and no skills I can remember was a gal that had no awareness of how to position herself. Her first lap dance. Ever. Charity dance since she'd just sat with me for over a half hour and I wanted to leave. Sexy as hell, but kept settling in too low for about a song and a half. Basically ground on my nuts, which feels about as good as it sounds. Since subtlety wasn't working, I finally reached around and let my fingers rest right above her button. That got her to pause, then I pushed in to get her to slide up and got where I needed to be. Heard the quick breath with a moan underneath to let me know the stripper had been properly configured. Then I spent I the next two minutes thinking about how sore I was going to be (very) while she got herself off.
You betcha!!
Skill doesn't really stand alone in my book, but is paired with appearance. Ya know how sometimes it's said of us guys that "it's not the size of the boat, but the motion in the ocean"? Same thing with dancers. She can have all the skill in the world, but if she's not exploiting her best assets, she may not be as appealing as a girl who has less skill but knows how to use what her momma gave her.
Now, a dancer who has enthusiasm, uses what skill she has well, AND is trying to improve her skill -- that's the trifecta! My ATF doesn't think she can stage dance well, but she's working on it. Frankly, I hope she's wrong, b/c if she gets much better, I'm gonna have a coronary.