Comments by dr_lee (page 6)

I don't care for small talk, however I'd rather have that than when they dig into your personal life. I had one recently who literally played This Is Your Life, asking me my name, where I lived, my occupation, did I have family, my hobbies, etc. I'd rather talk about politics! LOL But I'm OK with asking for a dance because VERY FEW women nowadays know how to be sexy. I've got more game than most of them and my game sucks!

Body, body, body. Genuinely beautiful women are rare, but there's tons of women with great bodies.

Maybe she's one of those females with "standards". She doesn't want to use her beauty to get ahead. I've seen attractive women walking the streets and you never know, they could be stripping on the side of whatever their main job is. You never know!

My favorite is usually the one that is available! LOL But, seriously, the only time I really am willing to wait is when I'm out of town because I never know when I'm going to see that dancer again. For local clubs, I know she'll be there next time I come in.

$3,000

Yes, it's rude.

I'm with the poster that said they'd rather get high mileage from a 7-8 than no mileage from a 9-10. There are drop dead gorgeous dancers that I would have salivated over 10 years ago that I don't give a second look because I know they are divas and trying to coax them into a decent dance is a waste of time. That said, a dancer doesn't have to be draped all over me for me to be interested in her. Just act like you want to be there.

1) No more female bartenders. May sound sexist, but male bartenders are better. 2) Dancers should actually have to DANCE while they are on stage, not walk around like zombies. 3) Stop letting dancers take up seating/space reserved for customers. If they are not sitting with a customer, they should either wait in the dressing room, sit at the bar, or stand around looking bored. Oh, wait, they already do those things, too!

I was a huge Jordan fan, but Jordan RARELY was an underdog going into the Finals. LeBron's teams have not been the favorites in 5 out of the 7 Finals he's appeared in. Jordan was only the underdog in 2 out of 6, and even in those Finals, the discrepancy between Jordan's teams and the favorites (the Suns and the Jazz) was miniscule. The Warriors are just 1,000 times better than the Cavs!

More body than looks, but looks go a long way. Sometimes, if a dancer has an incredible body, even if she's not that pretty, I'd still rate her a 9. The body means a lot to me.

Cleveland, but they are obviously not going to win. I was really hoping that OKC had finished the job in the West Finals and for those guys Durant and Westbrook to win it all.

Generally, I'm not a fan of blondes. But it's a general thing. I've seen blondes that were absolutely hot, however most blondes don't do it for me. I think there's too many of them and most of the ones I see tend to be too skinny or pale or frail. Now brunettes? That's my thing. There's something about brunettes that generally do it for me, even ones that are not so attractive. Also, I prefer thicker ladies, and the total package, but I'd rather she have a big bottom and no boobs than the other way around. Girls with big boobs and no ass do little for me, and usually that means they are fake. But if we're venturing into the personality category, it really gets tricky because I find annoying things about most people, so you can imagine what I see from dancers in the SCs! I just hope the girl has the combination of looks and personality that I like.

I'd say it's more her than you. I think most strippers give dances based what they're comfortable with. I did get this dance from a stripper recently that was an air dance, and I haven't gotten an air dance in years! She was new to this club (I'd never seen her before), so she didn't know that she could make contact. Sometimes, that's part of it. I've had strippers ask ME what the rules are, when they should have already been informed by the club owners/managers. Now, I WILL say that my general experience with dances is that the more dances you get, the dances tend to get better and most dancers get into it more. But their overall style of dancing doesn't really change.

A few of my BEST nights: 1) I used to be in the military and was in one of my favorite clubs the night before my company had to report to duty before being shipped over to Kuwait/Iraq for a 1-year tour. I didn't tell any of dancers about this at all and for some unforeseen reason, I was Mr. Popular this night. I was a dancer magnet and a bunch of girls came up to me, includeing a couple that I thought were frigid, all in an extremely playful mood and giving great dances. Given the circumstances and I knew I wouldn't see the inside of a strip club for at least another year, this has to rank #1! 2) There was a club where I had 3 of my favorite dancers, all incredibly hot in their own way, I had known on and off for years, but strangely I couldn't recall a night when all 3 were in the club at the same time. They were all in there on this night and I got dances from all 3 of them, plus an extra girl for good measure. The interesting part was that at one point, all 3 of them had asked about one or both of the other dancers trying to see how they measured up, a 3-way jealousy thing going. Can't ask for more than that. I was the MAN that night! LOL 3) Actually had a great night recently in Vegas at Sapphires, probably best I can remember in that town. I know Vegas should be great all the time, but it's not always it's cracked up to be. Several hot girls approached me, including a couple of extremely frisky and horny ones. I never remember this club having this many gorgeous women. Maybe I was never looking hard enough before.

I'm going the opposite and list turn-offs: Lacks class Too loud Talks too much Always with a shot glass shoved down her throat Always walking around the club in circles like a zombie Dancing everywhere except on stage When on stage, looks completely disinterested and like she wants to kill someone for dare looking at her IN A STRIP CLUB! Spends more time talking to bouncers, waitresses, and bartenders than customers

I was there a few years ago during the Master's tournament. Went to Platinum Plus thinking it was going to be great, but it kind of sucked, and it was a Saturday night. There was a smaller sister club called Heartbreaker's (may be called something else now) I checked out on my last night there, a Monday, and even though it had fewer girls, it was a pound for pound better experience. There was one girl there from Florida who gave me the BEST dance I've ever had! It may be a hole in the wall, but sometimes you do better than in these fancy, schmancy places. If Heartbreakers is still there, I recommend it.

Pros-dancers are familiar with you, so some of them will come and talk to you Cons-familiarity breeds contempt

Happened to me once years ago. Went back to her motel room with her and had a blast for free. There was a time when dancers could even give you free dances without bouncers or management being any the wiser. It's pretty much impossible now, at least in the clubs I frequent because bouncers are always walking around with their clipboards monitoring the dancers and their customers.

There was a dancer in a club that I still frequent who used to always have other regulars when I was there. She gave great lapdances so it was worth waiting for her, or just getting her another night. I think there was one guy she said hated to even see her talking to another guy. I guess that's not so weird given the stuff that goes on in strip clubs! LOL I never paid attention to the other guys she was with so it could have easily been the same guy all the time. She just told me she had a regular and he would pretty much tie her up the whole night many times I was there.

I like weeknights better mainly because not as crowded, but strangely get more attention on the weekends when it's crowded. When it's not crowded, dancers are usually stagnant and sit at the bar, or hide in the dressing room. On slow nights, I think a lot of them are looking for regulars, while on the busy ones, they move around more.

#17 is OK by me as long as the less attractive ones stay in the dressing room and the good-looking ones are walking around. I'll add to lapdanceking's: #52-About women in the club, if they aren't dancers or waitresses, get rid of them! And I'm including female bartenders. I'd rather deal with male bartenders. #53-Another thing is they should let some of their employees know that it isn't all about them and they are there to provide a service to customers and stop using the strip club excuse as to why they act like a**holes to customers.

I can't remember the last time I went to a club and was even told that it was a 2-drink minimum. I guess it's become and unsaid rule. Most waitresses of clubs I frequent only seem to care about the big-spending groups anyway, so I go to the bar. But, basically, the club rule is the club rule. It's not worth arguing with them. Believe me, I know from experience, in a strip club, the customer is NEVER right!

I'm like you. My last great experience was over a year and a half ago, plus a LOT of great ones in 2012. This year has been a very down year for me. Went to Vegas for a week, thought I was going to have the time of my life, and it was only so-so.

She sounds like a hustler. Has hit hard times and is using you.

I went to Mons for the first time a long time ago, over 10 years running. It had hotties then, but when I went back a few years ago, not as good. This is typical. Club great first visit, then it's all downhill after that.