Comments by dr_lee (page 7)

Technically, Vegas is probably the go-to place, but even that place is overrated. I've seen very few truly gorgeous women in Vegas. At least, given the volume of dancers, the percentage of 8s and 9s (no such thing as a 10) is not what it could or should be for Vegas. Pound for pound, Vegas is not that great.

I do it just to be chivalrous because I don't buy dances from most girls. It's probably selfish, but makes me feel better. But I don't offer unless a dancer comes and talks and sits with me. I automatically will buy a drink, unless it's one of those quick 'ask for a dance, then walk away' deals. If she sits and talks, I buy a drink for her. But my experience is that most girls won't come and talk to you. That is, I may on average get 1 or 2 girls a night that actually come up to me, so I'm not out of a lot buying a couple of extra drinks.

I'd keep on dreaming and wake up once "the day" was over!

I had one tell me her life story recently instead of actually giving me lap dances, which I paid a pretty penny for. She was rambling on so good that I think she must be telling the truth! But a regular one I get is the "you're great" or "I really like you" line. I actually think some girls are being sincere about it, but I take it for what it's worth. It's just a strip club and doesn't mean anything.

The urban myth may be that smaller states tend to have the worst, but that may not be true. I got this incredible dance (probably best I've ever gotten) from this dancer in a South Carolina strip club (small, out of the way). But the catch is that the girl was from Florida (and I don't doubt it the way she looked, which was smokin hot!) and said she drove up to SC just for a few days. Why I don't know! Sometimes dancers will go work at the strangest places.

Haven't had strippers jealous over me in an eon. I envy you, sir!

"A Christmas Story"...I'll be watching that on a loop next weekend.

A lot of great responses here. My 2 cents? It kind of goes along with a lot of them. I think that either consciously or sub-consciously, the average stripper thinks that customers think lowly of them or are judging them, so they turn it on it's head and judge back. Customer: "Why are you a stripper?"...Stripper reply: "Why are you in a strip club?" It's a circular argument. As a customer, I absolutely don't judge. In fact, I'm not thinking of much when I go to SCs. I'm there for a good time. Maybe that's part of the problem, too. For the stripper, the club is at the end of the day WORK. But, let's face it, it's a different atmosphere from the 9-5 job. Strippers are not obligated to give dances or spend time with guys they don't want to, even if that guy in his mind wants to throw all his money at her. I've had strippers in the past where I wanted to do exactly that, and they just frankly weren't worth it because of their indifference and lack of interest. I had to literally BEG for dances until one night I said enough is enough and just gave up. Ever since, just deal with ones that are worth it. Not about judging them based on being a stripper, but based on being a party pooper!

If the dances aren't that great, maybe she did you a favor. If she's that fickle, I'm guessing her dances suck. No matter how hot the girl, if the dances suck, she can move onto someone else. I'll admit, though, some dancers definitely have weird attitudes when it comes to making money. It's like some of them just don't care about it. They'd rather get $1 from someone they like over $100 from someone they're not interested in.

It's a lot more fun and engaging for me if the dancers are actually hot. Seems like dancers in the past were MUCH better looking than now. If there are any truly great natural-looking women, they barely work in strip clubs anymore. You either get super-fake girls or ones that don't take proper care of their bodies and look out of shape and don't even seem to keep themselves up from a beauty standpoint. There will be a hottie here and there, but they seem to be few and far between. I think most places are like this now. There may be a couple of cities, though, that have nonstop gorgeous women, but I haven't seen that city in a long time.

I rarely go to full nude clubs, but I'd think that a high-end topless club makes a killing just off of drinks, especially at the outrageous prices. You have to consider that a lot of customers might go to nude clubs solely to see the girls nude on stage, not necessarily spend all their money on dances. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

I don't really need to see all the acts. Usually, most of the girls working that night will be walking around at some point. So if I see a girl I like, I usually just go for it. But I do prefer to approach her on stage than just grabbing at her while she's walking around, so I may wait for her next set.

Not a huge bikini fan, so the fishnet one and any of the tube top ones are what I prefer.

I'm pretty sure they make you purchase the add'l drinks if you go to the VIP room. Although if you stay for more than 1 set of dances, they may only just charge you for the 1st set. But, technically, they can charge you to buy drinks for every set. I don't think you get any more special treatment outside of the package.

Pound for pound, I'd say try OG or Treasures. You get more for your buck. Rhino and Sapphire's are supposed to be the Top 2 (a lot of girls), but I can barely ever find more than 2 or 3 dancers (if that) I like in those clubs. I think the top girls in OG and Treasures beat pretty much anything you'll find in Rhino or Sapphire.

Stay away from the champagne room...it's a total ripoff!

No idea. Every sound in a SC to me is like that Charlie Brown teacher....WOMP WOMP WOMP WOMP WOMP!

Tell them to get a personality.

I don't drive when I go to the SC, so I drink quite a bit in there. I can't get in the mood unless I've had a few.

It's weird, but I tend to have more success on busy nights than slow. I notice in some clubs that on slow nights, all the girls just sit at the bar or stand around or hide in the dressing room with attitudes like they kind of don't care. They move around when they feel like it or for certain customers. That kind of attitude/behavior puts me off and makes me think twice about certain dancers that I might otherwise approach.

Same here. I used to be worried I would leave the club broke. Now, I'm so particular that I barely spend anything. I think I spend as much on cover charges, drinks, and tips combined as I do on dances, sometimes more.