Comments by dr_lee (page 5)

Flashdancers and Ricks are the way to go if you’re in Manhattan.

Age, my friend. Happens to all of us. I have the same predicament except I look at it as a bonus now.

Enjoy it while it lasts.

I've only had this happen to me a few times and really, only once did I think of the girl as "my girl". Eventually, I got used to it. She told me this guy hated her with other guys when he was in the club, so I was like whatever. The next couple of times it happened with other girls, I was immune to it. There's always other fish in the sea.

I had this happen to me one time YEARS ago. Dancer was really into hands around her neck while dancing.

Probably around $2000

There's nothing better than feeling like all the dancers in the club are into you, regardless of the real reason. Obviously, it's all about money, but sometimes a couple of them will make you feel like a million bucks. I've probably had about only a handful of those types of experiences where it seems like a couldn't fight the dancers off with a stick. That's rare because there are always those dancers that are egotistical and think they don't have to do their jobs. Best experience? I used to be in the military and there was this one night where I knew it would be the last time I would last time I'd be hitting a club in a long time before my tour overseas and no one in the club knew I was military and for whatever reason, karma, I got almost every hot dancer in the club that particular night without lifting a finger. They just came at me in droves and were into me. It was the most surreal thing that's every happened to me. It's like they sense they wouldn't see me again or something. Of course I ended up seeing about half of them again about 1.5 years later after my tour was over! lol

I can live with boring dances because I always know there are females that are better. Sometimes, I just want a hot chick just to say I got the dance, so I move on pretty quickly. There was this one dancer a long time ago that I was really hot for who I politely asked to step it up and that's the last time I ever asked a dancer to do more. It's really not worth it because if you have to ask, that means she doesn't have it in her to do better.

Honestly, I've gotten use to it. It's kind of a sexy accessory at this point.

I truly believe that there is no such thing as a 10. There's always some flaw. If we have to count attitude, quirks, and behavior, there may be no such thing as a 9! But 9 is as far as I'll give any female. And I can honestly say that I will flip a switch on a really hot dancer if she does stuff that turns me off, like being loud, for example. I've heard dancers where they were clear across the room and I could hear damn near every word coming out of their piehole in a club with loud music. I saw this one chick in a club that had a great body, but every time I looked in her direction, she was shoving food down her throat, mouth wide open and munching like a pig. It ruined the mystery and when she came up to ask me if I wanted a dance from her...nope!

I really like thick girls. I won't send a hot thin one away, but there's something about thick girls that do it for me, namely tits and asses! lol

I like the thick ones, too, but I'll still go for a thinner girl with a great figure. Yeah, like you, I don't like just plain skinny girls with no real figure or body. Some guys just want them thin, but I still want there to be some "thickness" to the thin. I used to be a fan of breasts (still am obviously! lol), but I pay way more attention to the overall body, not just one part. And I've had multiple type in the same night, which I prefer than the same type. Maybe 1 tall with a great figure, maybe 1 shorter with a thicker frame, then there's the average height in-between, but just really attractive.

Oops! Forgot another pet peeve. Hate loud women! LOL

More often than not, I notice that the really hot dancers, like you say, do more hustling. I guess it makes sense because they know every other customer they approach will want a dance from her. The ones who spend a lot of time with a customer may be KIND OF hot, but more just a specific type the customer prefers. But I've been in clubs where it seems like ALL the dancers have negative attitudes or give off a bad vibe, on their phones, sitting at the bar, sitting at tables, hiding in the dressing room, like they are enforcing some kind of feminist girl power crap. Personally, the stuff that turns me off, most guys don't seem to care about. I observe and if I notice a dancer has bad body language, always seems to have a drink in her hand, smokes (in clubs that allow it), eats like a pig, has coughing fits, walks fast that it almost seems like she's running, all that stuff turns me off. And this is even if a hot girl is doing it. I'd rather have a clean, mature, well-acting 7 than a 10 with disgusting quirks.

I'm not crazy about it, but gotten used to it. I'd rather pay a nice attendant a dollar than a stripper with a pissy attitude anyway. The money's got to go to someone. May as well be to someone who deserves it.

Sometimes good music gets me in the mood. I just like it loud to drown out all the sidebar conversations of people close to me. Don't really want to hear anyone else's life story while I'm trying to enjoy myself.

Not crazy about the tats, but can live with them. Main thing is I can't tell if she's got a good hairstyle. Not a fan of women with weird hairstyles.

Fetish?

I've had dancers do squat the first song, but as she gets into it, by the 3rd song or so, she's ripping my clothes off. You may want to at least hang with it for a few songs. See where it goes.

I had this one dancer a while back where kissing was her MO! Lol But I was younger and ignorant that kissing just any girl isn't alwAts a good idea. I would say maybe around every 1 out of 10 dancers seems to enjoy kissing, and that's being generous as a lot of clubs nowadays barely allow you to touch the dancers.

I don't. If I'm not able to get a dance from them, they are just a random chick in the club. I'm there for the dancers.

The problem with Rhino is this crap now where you pay for 2 drinks in VIP. I think it's at $40 now. Then even when you get them, you still have waitresses walking over your feet to get to other patrons in the VIP area getting dances the WHOLE TIME back there!

Probably around $1500 in a Vegas club. Pretty sure it was Rhino!