Is mileage and extras the be all end all of clubbing?
chessmaster
Illinois
Most of the extras clubs are full of undesireables by nature and the ones that aren't are stupid expensive. Yes or no? high mileage non extras clubs the same thing applies to a lesser extent. Maybe I'm bias because the low mileage(not airdance) clubs strike a perfect balance by having still attractive strippers that will grind. Am I alone on tuscl in that I would rather get low mileage with a grind from a 7 or 8 than extras from a 4 or 5?
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And then some girls do P4P OTC, but of those that don't, so long as you don't treat them like prostitutes, most are perfectly datable and often quite lonely.
I've never gone along with the 'extras' idea because I've always been able to get affordable and high quality GFE-FS in AMPs. I really don't need ejaculation services, but I love it when I can get a girl off script and she really opens up to me.
So much of what goes on in strip clubs, even with the higher standard for looks and dolling up, still falls short of what I've always gotten in AMPs.
Now in principle strip clubs should be better, because of unstructured front room fraternizing. But most guys don't seem to understand this, and then in some clubs it would be difficult. Some clubs are set up to be clip joints.
So anyway, no 'extras' are not the be all and end all, and really I don't even go along with the concept.
I don't see a girl getting hot and heavy with me in the front room, and then completing what has been started in the back room, as an 'extra'. I don't look at it that way. As she is going to be off script when this happens, I see it more as just raw sexual desire running it's course, and where it is all completely mutual.
And then in the more regulated clubs, the clubs are still very important because of the women themselves, and the potential of outside relationships.
SJG
Gimme Shelter, 1989, early Lisa Fisher
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I get extras from 8's and 9's. One of them is coming to my house tonight for after-work fun.
Chessmaster, give me hotties, even if it is low mileage, 1 way contact, or even and air dance.
I have ZERO interest in being home and STI/STD to the wife nor do I care to "tip" for extras. It cuts too deeply into my limited clubbing budget.
The one addition to this is, I often SC socially, with friends, and when I'm with my buddies, the male bonding is as important to me as anything else.
Yes.
Using a scale of 1 to 10 I expect an average woman to be a 5. Would I like sex with an average looking woman? Yes.
Fortunately, in this hobby I don't need to settle for an average looking woman.
But what I am noticing is that the longer clubs stay brothels they reach a point where the girls are about processing custies like its a factory- get em in', get em' off--- move on to the next mark. In some ways I miss the "FUN" factor clubs used to have.... titillation, flirtation, conversation.... comaraderie. Its a matter of finding balance where you go. Ejaculation is important but I can pull one off at home- if I don't have fun at a club I'll stop going to the "sure thing" spots until I'm desperate enough. Just a thought
I like going to the club, spending $10 to get in, seeing hot girls get naked and tipping each a buck, and sometimes skipping dances. For me it it's not a good hands on dance with a good grind, it's not worth it.
There are plenty of ways to have fun at a strip club without paying for BJ'S and more.
I like the middle ground.
I care more about mileage it doesn't have to be the highest but I need some contact to be entertained. Air dances and I'm done.
I mean - if I go to club I'm looking for a good time. That's sitting a nice chair, relaxing with company while around a bunch friendly attractive women. If nothing happens, then nothing happens but if it does that's a bonus.
I don't go for anything that has the potential for an STD so no "extras" for me.
I'd much rather pay for high mileage lappers from a 6-7 who is fun than get frustrating low mileage or air dances from a 9 or 10.
I do draw a line though. No dances from 2s or below regardless of the mileage. That being said, I still need to be somewhat picky at some of the clubs I've been to.
For those who want, "eye candy," a "bit of fantasy," and "time away from the humdrum," but are not interested in "cheating on the SO," or catching the, "disease du jour" ; if you are honest with yourself ; the reason you are in a strip club is the enticing possibility that your "eye candy" or "fantasy" might show sexual interest in you!
We are testosterone enhanced (to varying degrees), virile males (plus Loplaw and a few stitch hitters) who at our core desire the chase. Some of you are fully satisfied just chasing, fully aware that you have limited your objectives. Many of you enjoy the chase, not expecting to score, and decide on a case by case basis whether to take the next step when opportunity (like a menu) occurs. Then there are a number of hardcore mongers who expect opportunities for extras, encourage strippers to the limits of discretion, and are often "rewarded" with increased mileage and extras.
For myself, I'm not at all interested in paying for anything from a 5 or 6, no matter how great the enthusiasm and skill. I don't care about ITC extras -- in fact, I like low-mileage girls (or the illusion of low-mileage girls), so I prefer non-extras clubs and non-extras dancers most of the time. But the end goal is to get them OTC. What I"m not as interested in is low-mileage dances from a hot girl who I can't ever have sex with