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Also the most obvious reason is bad lap dances! lol There are super attractive dancers I've seen in area clubs in the last year that if their dances are not good, then I just stop getting dances from them. I used to care about being seen with the best looking dancers, but that's not a premium for me anymore if their dances are terrible. And just general malaise from a dancer. If she gives off the vibe she really doesn't want to even be there, then I'm definitely not the guy to pick up her spirits.

-Vaping. I’ve seen a few really attractive dancers recently, but as soon as I see smoke coming out of their face, she’s a no-go for me. -I always have to ask her for a dance, she never approaches me to ask if I want one. Recent dancer I was into was like this and I just stopped asking her. -A few other things: Loud, moves too fast, always in my line of sight, always pairing off with other dancers, stay having a drink in their hands. The best dancers are the ones who are always alone, in the club sparingly, quiet, and about giving dances, none of that sideshow act stuff I mentioned above.

I saw a super tall busty Amazon a long time ago and it was like I was watching a statue come to life. Thought I’d seen the most gorgeous specimen of female ever. That feeling has never returned since.

Combination of both. Times are tough and slow, but also dancers seem way more disinterested nowadays than I remember them being in the past. Also, in the past, if I was really interested in a dancer I almost didn't care about anything other than her beauty. But times are much different now. There are many things distract me from liking a lot of dancers that I either ignored or weren't that noticeable in the past. Now I see lots of dancers with very low energy, bad vibes, and annoying personalities. Also, when I see a dancer focused on one customer a lot or too much, that discourages me from even ever approaching her because I know she'll never really be interested in me other than a pity lap dance. But there ARE dancers who actually show repeated interest in me and those are the ones worth going to clubs for.

I see a lot of fit girls with great bodies in the clubs, but the main difference I notice now as opposed to years ago is a lot of modern dancers are just way more unpleasant and indifferent. Too much sitting and playing on their phones, too much walking around the club going nowhere, too much vaping, too much gum-chewing, too much loud talking, drink glasses of whatever are just an extension of their hands. Dancers are just way more immature and unlikable than they used to be. It’s weird how a lot of them seem to take such great care of their bodies, but very little attention to their behavior.