Just wondering how what you all do when you arrive at the club and your favorite dancers are with other guys. I'm not sure why but if I see a particular dancer that I like go and do dances with another guy I find it hard to want to talk to them or get dances with them immediately after seeing them with some other guy. Especially if it's some old fat guy. I know it shouldn't matter but it does. The other night this happened to me and I simply chose another new chick to get some dances with.
They are there to make $$$, unless a custy can pay her enough per visit to match what her goal is, then he should not expect to have exclusive rights to her, plus it's not fair for a dancer to be monopolized by one single custy in a public SC
It depends on who the dancer is. If it's somebody that I spend a bunch of money on, she will usually find a way to get away from the other guy and come to me fairly quickly. I also text with a dancer beforehand if I really want to see her, so that also helps give her incentive to find her way to me quickly. But if the one I want is busy and she can't break free, there are only three options: play with another dancer until she's free, just watch the stage show until she's free,or leave. I've done all three depending upon the talent available on any given night.
yeah, like john smith69 said, it depends on how the other dancers look. usually, there isn't one dancer that i want SO much that i'm gonna wait around for her---especially at a club with a high volume of dancers
but sometimes it does happen and i'll wait---especially if she's someone who has given good service in the past
Happened last Friday. My CF was all over a guy, and I just walked by her on my way to the bar. She saw me and shot a smile in my direction. I smiled back, and had a drink. Not long after she came over, and the rest is private. But as sure thing to her, she decided putting that guy on hold was a better deal than making me wait. With other dancers that has not always been the case.
If it's a dancer who doesn't see you as a sure thing (in any profitable way), you just need to be patient. She will want your money, but she won't risk sure money for it.
If the girl I got my eye on is already occupied, I'll check out the other dancers. Why waste a perfectly good visit by waiting around for a flaky stripper? I'd she frees up while I'm srillbthere-great. But if not I'll still have fun.
And as long as she isn't stinky from a previous customer and she maintains good hygiene I couldn't care less who she's already been with.
I wouldn't be there unless it were a share-a-woman venue, so I have to live with it. So either wait, or accept one of the others that is climbing on you.
If she is that much of a favorite, just text her and see her someplace else. Strip club is for finding new girls. See - Want - Get, the ultimate power trip.
motorhead has the idea. Watching a whale in action is awesome . I could care less one way or the other, there are always other hotties to occupy my time with.
If its one of my faves, I'll bet I don't have to wait more than 2 minutes for her usually they come over as soon as I walk in. Here's a funny story for you guys, a while back when I was in one of my regular go to clubs one of the girls that I hang out with regularly realized I was there, so she came over to me right away sat down and as we were ordering a drink some guy came over to the table left a drink on the table in front of her and walked away. She told me she had been sitting at the bar talking to the dude and I walked in just as he ordered drinks for her and him. Anyway to make a long story short he sat back down at the bar, and just glared at me for about an hour till he finally got up and left. When I asked her what was up with him, she told me that every time in the past two months that I had come in, he had been sitting with her and when I walked in and she dumped him each time. We shared a laugh, but I thought to myself if anyone ever disrespected me like that I would never see them again.
Every dancer I get dances with knows that if she is with someone sha can make bank on that she should go ahead and do it. I won't do anything with them unless I am in the mood so I don't expect them to favor me over others. By doing so they create an obligation on my part, and I avoid that. If she is with someone I find revolting, then I will wait for another day. If they mean zero to me I will wait my turn. 99% of the time I drink beer and watch sports and try someone new. Since this is a hobby and I want none of these women in my real life it makes it easier for me.
A combo of the approaches of Papi and JS. She's there to make money, and unless I am going to replace what she will be missing out on (and I have no interest in doing that), then I expect her to spend time at the club with other guys. If she is an ATF, then we've exchanged numbers, and she knows I am there to see her. In such circumstances, we will exchange a few words, often when she breaks free to go on stage, and she will estimate when she will break free. If she is someone I have not spent much time with, the burden will fall more on me to find an opening to touch base with her. If I have only met her less than a handful of times, I will give her a while, but unless she outclasses everyone else in the building, I will move on to someone else after a reasonable amount of time.
I'm so picky that if a CF is tied up, it usually makes the most sense to hit the club down the road and go back later if nothing pans out at the second club. Being bored waiting perhaps hours for the one dancer in the club I would get dances from is just not worth it IMO. Sometimes there actually is another dancer who is worth getting dances from, though, in which case I do that. :-)
I'm the guy who is sitting with your fave :) And not because I'm a whale or anything like that, I just give the girls the right incentives to stick around. From the point of view of the guy who is going to be sitting with your fave for the next 3 hours, while you get all frustrated, the big thing I always wonder:
If you wanted to see her so bad, why didn't you text her and set up an appointment? And then, if she told you she already had an appointment with me, you could have either contacted your #2, or decided to see her tomorrow instead.
It makes no fucking sense, how so many of you sit around waiting for your fave for so long. Like I said, I am NOT a whale, and you don't have to be a whale to work the system.
I guess if you have a giant group of favorite and just want to play it by ear, I get that. But if you have specific girls you want to see, make an appointment, guey
Subra you said it man, give her the right incentives, no need to be a whale just be there, and treat her fairly and it will work in your favor. She knows she can count on you and that's important.
At any rate, I don't have favorites anymore. It used to be the clubs were a convenient way for me to kill time and shed stress without expectations. Now even the minor commitment with being a regular face is more than I typically choose to deal with.
I have no loyalty to dancers just like they have no loyalty to me. Unless we've pre-arranged a meetup I figure that we are all fair game, dancers & PL's alike. I wait for no stripper, and if a pre-arranged date makes me wait more than a few minutes then we are through and it's on to the next girl.
Nice advice from a few of you. By the way not all guys get these strippers phone numbers because some of us are married or with chicks who would flip if they found us with strippers cell numbers in our phones.
TD: surely you know there are easy ways to hide strippers numbers, starting with just entering them in your phone with male names? No matter how suspicious your significant other is, there's an easy solution to stop her from finding strippers cell numbers in your phone. I certainly can understand an attitude of, "well listen, I just don't want to deal with making appointments with strippers, and if that means that sometimes I'll get burned and not be able to see my stripper, that's fine with me". Totally get it -- if that's your choice, have fun. But "It's 2016 but I can't figure out how to hide a stripper's phone number from my girlfriend" doesn't hold a lot of water to me...
I know the stripper should only be there to serve me, so I get really bummed out. For about two seconds. Then I pick one of the 75 other girls and have revenge sex.
My favorite is usually the one that is available! LOL But, seriously, the only time I really am willing to wait is when I'm out of town because I never know when I'm going to see that dancer again. For local clubs, I know she'll be there next time I come in.
I walk up to them, and tell the loser to get lost. If he doesn't, I slit his throat and drag his body tot the dumpster. I've never had any of them bother her again.
Or I text her and say something like "I got money. You can suck me for it," and wait for her to come running.
Seriously, I either wait a bit, maybe finding someone else for the interim, or I go elsewhere, maybe coming back later.
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but sometimes it does happen and i'll wait---especially if she's someone who has given good service in the past
If it's a dancer who doesn't see you as a sure thing (in any profitable way), you just need to be patient. She will want your money, but she won't risk sure money for it.
And as long as she isn't stinky from a previous customer and she maintains good hygiene I couldn't care less who she's already been with.
Nothing. I'm a whale. She'll be over in a few minutes
If she is that much of a favorite, just text her and see her someplace else. Strip club is for finding new girls. See - Want - Get, the ultimate power trip.
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I simply go get a sandwich, or hopefully there is a food vendor nearby. Hot pockets come in many different varieties.
If you wanted to see her so bad, why didn't you text her and set up an appointment? And then, if she told you she already had an appointment with me, you could have either contacted your #2, or decided to see her tomorrow instead.
It makes no fucking sense, how so many of you sit around waiting for your fave for so long. Like I said, I am NOT a whale, and you don't have to be a whale to work the system.
I guess if you have a giant group of favorite and just want to play it by ear, I get that. But if you have specific girls you want to see, make an appointment, guey
I do the same thing I do in any other service industry. I decide if I want to wait or seek out another.
At any rate, I don't have favorites anymore. It used to be the clubs were a convenient way for me to kill time and shed stress without expectations. Now even the minor commitment with being a regular face is more than I typically choose to deal with.
Not "a" system. THE system.
Or I text her and say something like "I got money. You can suck me for it," and wait for her to come running.
Seriously, I either wait a bit, maybe finding someone else for the interim, or I go elsewhere, maybe coming back later.