Comments by Rickberge (page 3)

The dreaded "I got a strippers number" scenario. Someone needs to come out with a book on how to handle this situation.

Re-Read Papi Chula explanation. If you're still in doubt, read it again.

No. Usually they will get the hint that you want them. If not, its probably that they made their money for tonight & dont want to put in the energy of entertaining a customer. Just charge it to the game.

Your best bet is to get a dayshift girl & plan OTC right when her shift ends.

The quickest way to see if this will end well or if what they have is real is to tell your friend that the next time she ask for anything, I mean anything no matter how small... tell her "No"... and then sit back and see how she responds. Thank me later (or your friend lol)

@Papi... yea that's what she told me about 2 months later. By this time we've done countless OTCs without money exchanging. Well except for me buying dinner or a movie.. so I'm assuming she was telling the truth. Not in the sense that I'm the only guy she's every done high mileage with but her reasoning for doing high mileage dances with someone.

I think it's a combination of looks, politeness (respect) appearance, and money. Well at least this is what my CF told me. She stated that she was attracted to me based on my appearance and my vibe. Now I did spend $150 ($5 lap dance club day shift) on her the first time we met but the mileage was very high. She said it was easier to do VIP and high mileage because of my looks and persona.

Great feedback fellas so yea I might just take a break for a while. Because as one poster said, my CF full fills my need sort of speaking, when I come in town. It seems like the ultimate goal is to bang (and continue to bang) a hot stripper for free and that's what I'm currently doing. I really do like the strip clubs but I guess I peaked too soon (peaked meaning fucking a stripper for free) so the chase/thrill isn't there. Hell my CF told that's how she makes her money because customers come back because of the chase... so it's either I go out there and try to find another hot stripper to fuck for free (which I dont think I have the energy for) or just chill out for a bit & come up with another way to enjoy SCing.

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I think it kind of depends on what "this" is... or maybe that still doesn't matter.

I would let her go back to stripping. Youve only been married a year eventually every married women goes through the "you cant control me stage"... im pretty sure you met her at the club so just love her and support her. If shes doing some dirt behind your back, it will soon come to light.

I always wondered why people frown on stripclubs.

If he wants a GFE he will still spend money ITC. If his main objective is sex then no he will not spend ITC.

A dancer told that if a stripper tongue kisses you without you asking then she thinks you are attractive. So if that hasnt happened to you, your probably an aversge looking dude.

I coach AAU basketball and I tell my high school players to watch what u put on twitter. You never know if what you put will come back in bite you on the ass. Its unfortunate because hes a good player. But this will pass. Based on his performance he earned himself a paycheck.

My rule in regard to getting strippers number: 1) If she doesnt offer it to you, she doesnt want to see you. Not in the club or OTC. Dont bust your brain cells over this man.

Whats really wrong with being a sex addict? The average man produces 290 million sperm cells per. Males over 50 produce around 150 per day... we are all naturally sex addicts. Some people pay for it, some dont. But eventually you got to bust your nut.

but they always come back. So we are always top of the foodchain. "I got the dick so I make the rules" - DJ Paul

Damn yall are brutal lol But yea read the reviews. For extras I would say Follies dayshift is ur best bet. They have a variety of dancers & plus high mileage. Also, you may want to indicate what type of dancers and atmosphere you like to get more quality feedback.

Good insight here. I may be in the same position as the OP. As many of u vets here on the board know. Once your relationship goes beyond P4P OTC, u really start to see the "real" her and that can be a good or bad thing. Usually its bad.

Man Im glad I dont SC in my home town lol

Damn bro just be careful. These dudes are crazy now a days, especially these young cats (not sure how old she/boyfriend is). Be on full alert, & keep your piece on u. Ive never been in a situation like this but I take ever threat as serious especially dealing with an emotiomal man.

Well written. I think we all went through that phase the OP describe until.a stripper pisses you off & then you realize its all bullshit.

Like the old saying... "it aint tricking if you got it" @Natinate next time when she ask for money. Send her $25 more than what she asks, then act like u dont give a fuck about her or the money you gave her... Thank me later.

Maybe Im wrong or not seeing things correctly but is a stripper the only professional in where you cant date the customer? I mean if you are a bank teller and a customer comes in, is there some blockage in your mind that says "no attraction hes just a customer"?? ... In my opinion, strippers/dancers are actually real people with real feelings and emotions. I dont see whats the big deal with a stripper actually liking a customer to the point of dating them.