At what point do I become a Sex Addict ?
Warrior15
Anywhere there are Titties.
I've always just thought of myself as someone that has a very large appetite for sex. But at what point does that appetite become unhealthy.
I look at porn just about every day. About the only days I don't look at it is when I'm "saving myself up" for the next business trip where I can go mongering. I plan my business trips around my visits to the local strip clubs. I pick the clubs I go to based on the Extras offered. I'm thinking about changing my business model some to be able to go to new cities like Detroit and even Europe so I can partake in the offerings there. My wife wants to do a large remodeling project on the house. Rather than think about the increased value the work will add the to house, I think about all the mongering I could do with that money. I tried Viagra, not because I need help getting it up, but rather I want to get it up multiple times in a day.
Do I have a problem OR should I just continue to enjoy life ? OR maybe I should join a sex addicts support group and see if there are any babes in there ?
I look at porn just about every day. About the only days I don't look at it is when I'm "saving myself up" for the next business trip where I can go mongering. I plan my business trips around my visits to the local strip clubs. I pick the clubs I go to based on the Extras offered. I'm thinking about changing my business model some to be able to go to new cities like Detroit and even Europe so I can partake in the offerings there. My wife wants to do a large remodeling project on the house. Rather than think about the increased value the work will add the to house, I think about all the mongering I could do with that money. I tried Viagra, not because I need help getting it up, but rather I want to get it up multiple times in a day.
Do I have a problem OR should I just continue to enjoy life ? OR maybe I should join a sex addicts support group and see if there are any babes in there ?
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I'm seeing a bankruptcy attorney next month.
That said...
My litmus test is whether or not it's negatively affecting my quality of life and stress levels. I would also examine whether your drive comes from a sense of fun or compulsion.
I would also ask if your monger activities inhibit your ability to do other things you enjoy or spend time with your friends and family. That's specifically a time and money question.
But yeah... take all the feedback you get here with a grain of salt.
Sex, like oxygen, is a biological necessity. Therefore you aren’t addicted just because you do it frequently and can’t stop. The same can be said of eating, drinking, breathing etc. As long as youre happy and it works for you then keep doin it. It at any point of find that your mongering activities are having an overall negative impact on your life then it’s time to change.
There are folks in relationships that have sex everyday with their S.O. I doubt anyone would classify them as addicts or tell them to slow-down.
If your life around you starts being severely negatively affected, then you need to change course.
Not meeting the need may be as bad if not more problematic - the only thing I question is whether you're artificially adding fuel to the fire by watching porn everyday, this may be artificially increasing your hornyness level beyond your normal level - of course watching porn is gonna rev you up more than your normal level and cause you to perhaps over do it more than you really need.
Like Ishmael said, we are not clinical psychologists. I chime in, as do others, because it’s free to do so and anonymous internet entertainment. So my best answer is, which deserves a big grain of salt, is if you’re having fun with no significant adverse consequence, keep going. If you find yourself asking “why the fuck am I doing this so much?”, slow down.
If you spend so much money that you go bankrupt, become a hobo, and beg for money on the streets until you die of starvation... then you were an addict. *hint*JS69*hint*.
I think you are just really horny. You really like fucking - and want to get all the pussy you can. Nothing wrong with that.
I'm of the opinion if you enjoy it and it's something you want to do, and can do it while maintaining your life otherwise, to go for it.
To avoid slipping into a place where hobby becomes compulsion becomes addiction, one must possess a sense of self-evaluation. Bravo to you. You are examining yourself -- a good sign.
The fact that you are examining yourself, though, is an indication that, at some level, your sense that your hobby is taking control. Not good.
Others have already given great advice. If your compulsion rises to the level that it is adversely affecting other areas of your life (work, health, finances, responsibilities, relationships, etc.), probably best to cool it and check yourself. If you can take a break without freaking out, maybe you're fine. Unfortunately, in many cases, we don't recognize that the train is leaving the tracks until the train leaves the tracks.
I don't enjoy anything else nearly as much as sex the novelty, the deviance, the excitement, and The release of natural chemical.
Ya I'm a junkie when it comes this.
Perhaps something similar can be stated w.r.t. getting sex - seems many/most guys don't get all the sex they want and/or from whom they want - it appears to me many guys would love to be having sex more frequently and from attractive desirable women - most guys IMO are at some level under-sexed and just get what they can (especially as you get older).
The OP seems to have the means to satisfy his desires whereas many guys are walking around somewhatl to very, sexually-starved - again if he was banging his S.O. every day no one would probably see a problem w/ that - the OP is just satisfying his needs that most healthy-men have and hie's willing *and* able; whereas many guys can't for various reasons including cost and go around wishing.
One day may come when the OP can't do it anymore (age, health, finances/retirement, etc) - will he think back and wish he hadn't experienced what he did or be glad to have experienced what he did.
Perhaps many on here would SC more if they had the ability (time, $$$, etc).
As a dancer told me, "Don't use strip clubs for sexual gratification, that is perverted."
SJG
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The average man produces 290 million sperm cells per. Males over 50 produce around 150 per day... we are all naturally sex addicts. Some people pay for it, some dont. But eventually you got to bust your nut.
SJG
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