Dancers giving out there number

It all changed because of cell phones. With land line women were slow to give out phone numbers. And so at strip clubs it was mostly just a visually stimulated fantasy. Not that easy to see girls outside.

But then with cell phones you got caller id and relative ease in blocking calls or changing numbers. So women became quick to give out there numbers, knowing that they could still manage calls as needed after.

And then once you have her number, she is potentially your escort, and so then as more girls get used to that, they also adapt to ITC maximum mileage, as that is the fastest way for a girl to rake in money.

Anyway, if you call her she might respond, or she might not. Probably best to text and then let her call you.

SJG

She didn't respond because she has no idea who you are. Always text immediately after leaving the club with whatever name she knows you by. Include some detail about your interaction so she can pick you out of all the guys she gave her number to. She will be putting something next to your name in her contacts, like davindude - buys VIPs. That lets her know if you are worth her time when you text her. If you wait, she won't have any idea who you are, and will have plenty of other guys texting her with big spender next to their name. Why answer the unknown if you know what's available?

Many strippers have hectic personal lives and some aren't good at returning texts. The point however is for you to schedule your visits with her.

When you texted her did you make it sound like business or more like you wanted a relationship?

I can say that my CF is amazing at being responsive and replying to texts quickly.

I would also agree with Titus's statement!

Yes, that initial text, like a thank you, right after you leave the club, is a very good idea.

SJG

San Jose Guy like usual has a stupid no making sense response.

Strippers give you their number, so you can txt them. They’ll probably never response, unless they are at the club not making any money. Then they will instantly and miraculously remember you, and ask you to come see them.

It helps to not only make sure they know who you are, it helps to make sure they know money is involved.
Hey there or how are you are a waste of time.
This is K, we had some vip dances a few weeks ago. When are you working this week? I want to come in and get a few more dances.
Something like that almost always works.

-->" I contacted her a few days later asking her when she would be at the club again. She never responded"

Reasons she doesn't respond:

#1 reason: Locking you down for the day ... giving you her phone number got you excited, and bonded you to her for the rest of your visit. You probably didn't spend money on any other girls after that, and may have even spent more than you intended on her

#2 reason: You'll be back anyway. It doesn't matter if she returns your text or not, she's in your head. You'll be back, and when you return, you'll be looking for her. You'll tell yourself you'll go with a different stripper to "get back at her", but she'll flash that smile and those titties, come up with some implausible excuse as to why she didn't text you back (my bet is on "lost my phone, got new number"), and you'll go sniffing after only her again

#3 reason: She doesn't remember you, and/or does remember you but gives no shits. This is a throwaway action on her part, she gives her number out to a zillion guys at work, a zillion guys at the dance club, a zillion guys at the bar, etc. She can't answer all you fucks.

#4 reason: Her phone is getting blown up every day, and your text quickly migrates down the list until she can't see it without scrolling -- which she has no desire to do, since she just got her nails did. Seriously ... as above, she has a giant social network and is giving out her number all the time; if she misses your initial text, or sees it but makes a mental note to text you later, your text soon scrolls out of sight and she is not going to bother searching her texts to reply to some rando

When I text a stripper for the first time, or when I’d really like to communicate with her, I mention money. For example, Hi beautiful. This is a John. We did a VIP last week, and talked about x. I’ve got a pocket full of cash with your name on it. When could we get together and play this week.”

It doesn’t always work but it helps to get a response.

Really, reasons 1 through 4 above hold often. But I, too, find that my percentage of returned texts go way up if I text her right after I meet her -- I mean, like, on the train ride home, reminding her of my name and some inside joke or other we developed, and thanking her for being so amazing. Then I'll text her again just a few days later, ostensibly to set up our next trip, whether I actually have any intentions of heading up again so soon. Getting me burned into her brain right away does help get future responses

Clarification, hopefully when she gives you the number, it has already been discussed what it is for, like an OTC date. But still, we have people here who always give dancer's thank you texts after a meeting at the club or outside. It gets you number into her phone and it reminds her who you are, and it is also considerate.

SJG

I like JS69’s approach the best.

Did you attach a dick-pic, if not, how do expect to make an impression and show her you care

Small talk usually never gets a response back, but if you texted her explicitly to do business or if you mention money talk, she’ll respond right away IME

Regarding the dick pic, I usually get myself hard and write "Thank you for the great time! See you soon!" along the side. You guys might just need to write "TY"; she'll get the message.

yup, agree with many of the inputs from the group. In addition, she can put you on the end of month text blast along with everyone else in her address book asking you to come in to see her

She gives you her number cause she likes you; seriously, try to schedule a nice date outside of the club. Shes probably looking to get out of the lifestyle and recognized how awesome you are and that you're that one special guy she wants to give her amazing body to every night.

^^^ best motherfucking advice all week on TUSCL. It's only Monday, and I already know for a fact nobody is going to give better advice than this all week. Even Papi the Jedi Master can't beat this advice.

Many strippers not only live day-to-day but minute-to-minute - and many meet 100 PL+ per week, once you leave the club and not actively spending on her you're often out-of-sight out-of-mind.

As has been mentioned, many will contact you, whether they actually remember you or not, if $$$ in the club is slow.

Not all strippers are the same and one often has to separate the wheat from the chaff and find the diamond in the rough and why many SC vets often focus in slow shifts (e.g. dayshift, etc) where the girls tend to take a bit better care of you but still no guarantee

^^^ see!!!!!! JordanBelfort gave better advice.

titus said it best. After meeting a girl for the first time text about a half hour after you leave her and say something like thanks for the dances save my number babe! It always works for me.

I agree that texting soon is more likely to lead to a response but it’s still so hit and miss.

Some of you guys are so jaded.

Don’t feel bad, it’s normal for the course.

The dreaded "I got a strippers number" scenario. Someone needs to come out with a book on how to handle this situation.

The main reason a stripper gives you her number is so she will get yours when you text. When you text her she doesn’t have to respond if you aren’t flat out talking money. But then she has your number to add to her text list when she wants to stir up business. You’ll get the same text she sent to 20 other contacts fishing for one or two to come in. Answering that text (and going in) is what’s gonna get her to remember you. Be careful what you wished for at that point.

Its simple - as has been mentioned above. She wants your number so she can text you when it’s slow.

If she texts you - remember - she’s going to text several guys at the same time. She’s tossing out a line - hoping someone will bite.

The next time a dancer gives you there (sic) number celebrate it enthusiastically. Jump up from your barstool, give a few fist pumps, raise your phone high in the air and yell "yee haw, Ima gonna get me some!"

She'll remember you, I guarantee it.

Keep on texting her.Dont give up.Eventually she will respond when she is not busy with other customers. Also if you mention that you will spend minimum $500.00 that night when you meet her you will get respond I mmidiately. I texted a dancer 3 times in 4 weeks she did not respond. I got a response 4th time and we scheduled appointment at the club. You just need to have patience.Money matters.Whoever pays more money they will get instant response from her.

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Thank you gmd.

One of the things that cracks me up about this group is how even guys who bother to vaguely use proper grammar, seem to go full retard when they write the thread topic. OP may not believe in apostrophes or commas, but he bothered to divide things into sentences with periods and capital letters. I think guys get SO EXCITED that they're about to make a post, that in their giddiness no one can manage to not make 2nd-grader mistakes on the thread topic line.

@Subraman and @Darkblue have it...Texting right away with compliments cements your number in their head...i find they absolutely love compliments...I just try to make them a little unique and specific..Your emerald eyes are magnetic...I can't help but being drawn into them...Your smile, your lips are titillating. Etc...I just find they eat these things up....And, let them know you want to spend. Would you like me to come see you when its slow? I'll take care of you.

I've never had a problem with texts being returned...ever...She may not text me back immediately...She could be asleep...With someone else...away from her phone...But for the most part, I get a text back either immediately or within an hour or two.

I agree with the above comments. Send a text right away. Also, don't be annoying. Don't try to hang out with the dancer. You two aren't friends. I've been getting this shit a lot from customers where I give them my Google Voice number and they text me every damn day to see how I'm doing. A dancer's number is a way to connect with her to see when she's working next or to make arrangements for you to pay her otherwise (OTC action).

she gives me her number because she loves me.

(i hope...)