At what point of your SC career did you start realizing SCing was a waste of mon
Rickberge
Atl to NC
To all the vets on this board, at what point did you realize that SC was/is a waste of money?
Now just some background on where I coming from. I've been SC for about 11 months now which seems like 11years. I only SC in Atlanta and I've progressed from just going to the clubs while out of town to FS.
Currently I have a CF which feels more like a fucking girlfriend. That's a whole another topic within itself. But recently I just did a FS in the VIP at an Atlanta SC (not follies) for $120. Afterwards, I felt like I could of kept that $120 & used for something else or just spent it on my CF. Lately, when I go to the strip club I mainly just chill & watch the game. I rarely if ever get any dances & I'm only searching for FS. If FS or BJ is not on the menu then I dont even bother.
But I'm out here in ATL this week and I just dont have the drive or the hunt to go SCing like that. I feel like I'm going to waste my money. I think it has a lot to do with my CF..Dealing with here for the last 6 months has opened up my eyes with the whole strip club game/experience.
Just want to see if others have ever or are currently experiencing that. Dont get me wrong I like the strip clubs but maybe I just need to take a break. By the way I'm 34 years old.
Now just some background on where I coming from. I've been SC for about 11 months now which seems like 11years. I only SC in Atlanta and I've progressed from just going to the clubs while out of town to FS.
Currently I have a CF which feels more like a fucking girlfriend. That's a whole another topic within itself. But recently I just did a FS in the VIP at an Atlanta SC (not follies) for $120. Afterwards, I felt like I could of kept that $120 & used for something else or just spent it on my CF. Lately, when I go to the strip club I mainly just chill & watch the game. I rarely if ever get any dances & I'm only searching for FS. If FS or BJ is not on the menu then I dont even bother.
But I'm out here in ATL this week and I just dont have the drive or the hunt to go SCing like that. I feel like I'm going to waste my money. I think it has a lot to do with my CF..Dealing with here for the last 6 months has opened up my eyes with the whole strip club game/experience.
Just want to see if others have ever or are currently experiencing that. Dont get me wrong I like the strip clubs but maybe I just need to take a break. By the way I'm 34 years old.
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In my view it’s money well spent. Every single - single of it.
If you have better options, by all means, go for that. Even if you don't right now, they might make themselves known once you stop putting your energy into this thing that isn't really doing it for you right now.
Many people get burned-out w/ SCing (or anything else they do a lot) - and some seem to enjoy it for decades - kinda a personal/individual thing and there isn't necessarily a right/wrong answer - if you currently feel the $$$ is more important than the experience, then that should be a clue to change course at least for a while - you may just need a break, or you may have reached your SC-peak and time to move-on to something else - do what gives you peace of mind - like any habit, IMO/IME it's often toughest to stop but after a while one gets more used to being w/o it
I realized that once the girls cross over a line they would be perfectly happy to fuck as many guys as possible. The money is what brings them there and how they rationalize it, but they are still perfectly happy to do it.
I realized how contrived strip clubs are, well oiled machines designed for separatin marks from their money.
So:
1. Select the girl you want to be waking up in the mornings with.
2. Refuse dance offers, feed her money, let an intense front room makeout session ensue.
3. When it is time for your own pants to come down, you invite her to the back room.
4. Take her home with you to continue
5. Keep on seeing her regularly
Used in that way, you are getting good value.
Otherwise, buying dances, you are being a chump.
SJG
I doubt I’ll ever tire of TJ but if I do I’ll stop for a while and see if I miss it.
What if you have a thing for the bathroom attendant and he's cool with you getting dances, but gets all bent out of shape if he sees you kissing a dancer?
That's okay though, you guys want to be separate from your money for nothing.
SJG
It took me getting into alot of debt over 2.5 years, mostly due to gambling, to look at SCing with a different view. During this duration I learned and experienced some OTCs. So now present day, at a head above water financial situation, I've limited how much I'll spend in the club and for who and/or what.
When I started out SCing, $200 - $450 was normal (4 or more visits a month) and I'd be all excited from some pussy petting and titty rubbing, thinking oh she likes me! Now given the aforementioned life experience, with the few stripper contacts I have now I can go out on a date, sex, and no real time limit for the low end or lower of what I was spending ITC just for pussy petting and titty rubbing.
If money has got you thinking, but you still have your CF for some fun, OTC???, I'd just sit tight or continue just being in the SC atmosphere for games/fights and spending on her.
Then I realized that it was all silly, controlled by the simple fact that I was married. I realized that I need to do what it would take to make he marriage work, or just end it.
So I had to clean up my act and make the marriage work, or I would have to end it.
SJG
Anyways, bottom line I guess is that for some people, this is a taxing hobby that just doesn't work year round. Don't keep doing it if you're not having fun anymore. It's too expensive for that shit. Go take a break. Maybe in a few months you'll get an itch to come back and you'll return with a passion. That's what I do and it keeps it fun.
Blasphemy...
True story.
The strip club game can be expensive, and there are times I’ve thought about the money spent over the past 6 years. But I have no regrets. I’ve enjoyed the entertainment option and the women I’ve met. It certainly hasn’t been a waste. It’s a chosen lifestyle, that’s actually cheaper and more satisfying than many other forms of entertainment.
I really do like the strip clubs but I guess I peaked too soon (peaked meaning fucking a stripper for free) so the chase/thrill isn't there. Hell my CF told that's how she makes her money because customers come back because of the chase... so it's either I go out there and try to find another hot stripper to fuck for free (which I dont think I have the energy for) or just chill out for a bit & come up with another way to enjoy SCing.
Oh yes 43 years of strip clubbing for me...
Not a waste if you have disposable funds.
Pure instincts will guide you, after a little experience. Go with the gut feeling.
Just enjoy it while things last.
But if you take what strip clubs offer at face value and buy dances, then yes, it is just a mark being separated from his money.
SJG
When I have the money for it and feel the need it's great and I don't feel the money has been wasted. But there have been times I've walked away wondering if I should have done something else. That's when I know it's time for a break.