NatiNate

Why? Because we as AA’s are the minority. It’s kinda like asking why can’t I find a decent arepa in East Tennessee? Because it’s one of the least diverse places and I’ve never seen a Colombian there maybe one exchange student idk, but there’s 0 demand for arepa’s there. I get it you’re thick strike 1 some clubs don’t hire thick girls period regardless of race. You’re black strike 2 everyone is biased discrimination is rampant you discriminate against black clubs because of some bad experiences you’ve had. It could be that they have had bad experiences with other black dancers or they didn’t make money and didn’t stay so they are doing you a favor. It sucks but just take your fine thick black self to the best club with the least amount of BS, hustle and make your money with a smile on your face it’s simple. Are their companies that wouldn’t hire me because I’m black sure. But I’m good at what I do when I get an opportunity I stand up and show out cut cost increase performance and just have more experience for the resume and use the name your price tool for the next opportunity then I take the proceeds from said opportunity and head to my local strip club and act a fool. Life is good not a bad question but you already know what to do.

My rule of thumb is one text. All dancers are different I had one I met at the club then we went out for drinks then she only wanted to met in the club. I told her we wanted two different things and I respect that. Yet she continued to text me. I just pretty much ignore her now. Say what you want if they don’t reciprocate keep hunting just part of the sport. To make 3,000 three’s you have to shoot over 3,000 shots.

Just because a woman takes her clothes off in a room full of people and spins on a poll doesn’t mean she has magical powers. Dating a stripper is just like dating any other woman. They all have needs, insecurities and go bat shit crazy some more frequently than others. You ask a woman out because you want to tap that ass or you’re truly interested in her as a person. If you want to just tap that ass and get banging/dating a stripper off your bucket list well ask her out and try to do so as cheaply as possible. If you are interested in her as a person ask her out but what happens if it works. Are you ok with you GF being naked and grinding on other men for money and having her dump piles of cash on the bed or table and helping smooth out and sort the bills? Or does she have enough going for herself and a desire to stop? Or can you afford to take care of her?

I’m 41 AA started clubbing at 18. Most girls never guess I’m over early 30’s. Platinum Plus in Memphis in the late 90’s F’d my life in a good way. I’ve never been to any place like it but Follies was a close second. My experience depends on the city. I normal will spend $400 to $1,000. My biggest pet peeve is when the first girl who approaches me in a mixed club is AA and seems entitled to my money. I think for me race plays a bigger factor than age but once they figure out you spend money than they all come which is why they are there. I’ve been a regular all the way to have non p2p relationships with dancers. In Memphis most think because your AA you’re a pimp. Other cities you’re more approachable I’ve really enjoyed, Indy, Chicago and of course Atlanta, LA was ok for me as well. Now I’m trapped in the hell hole of Nashville but occasionally go to Huntsville and whenever I get a chance to go to Atlanta or Tampa for business I’m the first to sign up.

Nearly got busted once,for make up and once for smelling like alcohol was in a relationship I was extremely unhappy in but stayed for the kids. I'm a single Dad now living my best life, only wish I had of done it years ago but ultimately she left and I hadn't been clubbing for a good 18 months but I never got caught after those two early slip ups. But in order to protect myself I never would drink I remember this one dancer turned 21 got plastered with me as she thought I was drinking with her but it was just sprite and cranberry. I had a 24 hour gym membership so I had an entire second wardrobe of clothes just for the club and I would just stop by the gym change my clothes and wash my face before heading home. I worked in the office area of a warehouse that was 24x7. I was a corporate employee but my office was in the warehouse so if I said I was working late after getting changed I would go back to my office and call home and said I was on my way. I guess you can say I hated my wife but really loved the kids to go through all of that.