I love chatting with dancers over drinks before or after getting physical, but if there's one thing that drives me nuts is when a dancer starts chatting about their life or asking about yours during a session. Dirty talk is great, girls, but save the chitchat for the appropriate time. I assume that to a dancer giving a LD is akin to a barber cutting hair, so talk seems appropriate to them, but it sure does kill the mood for me. Anyone have a similar experience? Worse is dancer chatting with other dancers.
Some discussion doesn’t bother me and is kinda nice but if things progress and grow more intimate the conversation has to transition to the beauty of her body and what I want to do with her.
I don’t like a dance where the girl is completely silent through the whole thing. That gives the impression that she is dinterested.
I guess that asking me what I do for a living while I'm fully excited with my hand on her pussy is a mood killer for me. Just lie and tell me how much hot you are getting, or some such.
I absolutely love idle chit chat in a lap dance. I’m not trying to get off, and I’m not trying to get *her* off. I’m not even really trying to turn her on, or at least that’s not my primary goal.
What I’m there for is to determine whether or not I want to spring for a half hour VIP. That’s a combination of her willingness to let me cum in her mouth, and how interesting she is to talk to. Idle conversation leading up to the question let’s me do both.
After all, after the blow job, we still need something to do for the *other* twenty eight and a half minutes.
SJG doesn’t have a problem with this - as cloroform keeps the chit chat to a minimum...
I had a dancer ask what I did for a living - after I told her - she started talking about her college major - and how closely her degree was to my line of work. It was a boner killing discussion!
There are too many dancers that need to be told to shut and grind. Several have told me they do it because most guys like it. I wonder if most guys like it or lack the balls to tell her what he really wants
There have been some times when a dancer and I have been talking for a bit then we start a dance and it seems she found the pre-dance convo interesting enough that she wants to continue during the dance - thus at times I've had to tell a dancer that I don't like to talk while getting dances and if she wants we can talk afterwards - they immediately get-it and we start w/ the grinding-and-groping
Annoys the hell out of me and many a hustler or ROB will do that to make the time go by quicker and run up the dance count while putting out little in mileage.
What chessmaster said.
My sense is when girl stops dancing to have a conversation she's taking the easy way out and would rather earn same rate talking than dancing and is determining whether PL is a sucker or she has other PL sucker customers who either like it or tolerate it.
It depends on the situation to me. Some days a dance is the end of my desires, so I don't mind complete silence if I'm having fun feeling her up. Similarly, I can tolerate some conversation if it doesn't interrupt. Other days the dance is helping me decide if I want to take her in a room or ask her for OTC, in that case I want some conversation and discussion about what we're doing/gonna do.
I will agree though, if the dancing stops and she's just sitting there talking to be about something I don't find interesting I get pretty annoyed pretty quick. I'll sometimes take it a step further and go ahead and get up and finish if they do that too long.
When getting dances, I don’t want there to be silence the entire time, but I don’t want there to be too much talking either. What sucks is dealing with dancers that refuse to talk before or after getting dances, which means the only time you get to talk to them is while getting dances.
With me, it depends on the girl and how the LD is playing out. I don't mind if she chats as long as it's related to dance (i.e. talking dirty, stroking my ego, etc). And I don't mind silent either as long as she's not a dead fish and she gives me visual and physical cues that she's into it. For example, the other night, I had a girl grinding down on me, breathing heavily into my ear, nibbling me. The only time she'd say something was when she needed me to reposition myself. It was the best dry hump I've had since I was 16.
I like a little bit of convo with and during my dances, sure. Since Ohio is technically a non touching state, it's not like she can suck or fuck me anyway. So it's not like there is much going on or much happening during a LD. As long as it's not interrupting too much of her dancing, I sort of like it, however, I'm really there for the visuals.
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I don’t like a dance where the girl is completely silent through the whole thing. That gives the impression that she is dinterested.
I don't mind total silence and often prefer it if she's letting her body and actions do the talking.
What I’m there for is to determine whether or not I want to spring for a half hour VIP. That’s a combination of her willingness to let me cum in her mouth, and how interesting she is to talk to. Idle conversation leading up to the question let’s me do both.
After all, after the blow job, we still need something to do for the *other* twenty eight and a half minutes.
I had a dancer ask what I did for a living - after I told her - she started talking about her college major - and how closely her degree was to my line of work. It was a boner killing discussion!
SJG
Been discussed several months ago by yours truly.
Annoys the hell out of me and many a hustler or ROB will do that to make the time go by quicker and run up the dance count while putting out little in mileage.
Buying dances is a chump's game.
SJG
My sense is when girl stops dancing to have a conversation she's taking the easy way out and would rather earn same rate talking than dancing and is determining whether PL is a sucker or she has other PL sucker customers who either like it or tolerate it.
I will agree though, if the dancing stops and she's just sitting there talking to be about something I don't find interesting I get pretty annoyed pretty quick. I'll sometimes take it a step further and go ahead and get up and finish if they do that too long.
SJG
SJG