Dancer chats while doing LD

Some discussion doesn’t bother me and is kinda nice but if things progress and grow more intimate the conversation has to transition to the beauty of her body and what I want to do with her.

I don’t like a dance where the girl is completely silent through the whole thing. That gives the impression that she is dinterested.

Yeah. It depends on the topic of the conversation and yes total silence is boring.

I guess that asking me what I do for a living while I'm fully excited with my hand on her pussy is a mood killer for me. Just lie and tell me how much hot you are getting, or some such.

I kind of like it then they talk dirty to me while they are grinding away.

I'm not a fan of chit chat while getting dances either. Dirty talk is a nice bonus, but silence seems to be the norm lately.

Mine have a lot of trouble talking while LD due to my tongue in their mouth...they usually talk during the time I buy them drinks...

Like others, dirty-talk is alright but if it comes across as too-fake I kinda find it distracting and rather do w/o it.

I don't mind total silence and often prefer it if she's letting her body and actions do the talking.

I absolutely love idle chit chat in a lap dance. I’m not trying to get off, and I’m not trying to get her off. I’m not even really trying to turn her on, or at least that’s not my primary goal.

What I’m there for is to determine whether or not I want to spring for a half hour VIP. That’s a combination of her willingness to let me cum in her mouth, and how interesting she is to talk to. Idle conversation leading up to the question let’s me do both.

After all, after the blow job, we still need something to do for the other twenty eight and a half minutes.

SJG doesn’t have a problem with this - as cloroform keeps the chit chat to a minimum...

I had a dancer ask what I did for a living - after I told her - she started talking about her college major - and how closely her degree was to my line of work. It was a boner killing discussion!

There are too many dancers that need to be told to shut and grind. Several have told me they do it because most guys like it. I wonder if most guys like it or lack the balls to tell her what he really wants

If they can dance and talk simultaneously thats great. Its only an issue when they stop "dancing"(grinding) to have a conversation.

There have been some times when a dancer and I have been talking for a bit then we start a dance and it seems she found the pre-dance convo interesting enough that she wants to continue during the dance - thus at times I've had to tell a dancer that I don't like to talk while getting dances and if she wants we can talk afterwards - they immediately get-it and we start w/ the grinding-and-groping

To me talking gibberish during a dance is analogous to being in bed w/ a woman having sex and her talking about a sale at JC Penny

Front room makeout session. Only when it is time for our own pants to come down, then you invite her to the back room.

SJG

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Been discussed several months ago by yours truly.

Annoys the hell out of me and many a hustler or ROB will do that to make the time go by quicker and run up the dance count while putting out little in mileage.

Front room makeout session, before any booths or back rooms are considered.

Buying dances is a chump's game.

SJG

What chessmaster said.

My sense is when girl stops dancing to have a conversation she's taking the easy way out and would rather earn same rate talking than dancing and is determining whether PL is a sucker or she has other PL sucker customers who either like it or tolerate it.

It depends on the situation to me. Some days a dance is the end of my desires, so I don't mind complete silence if I'm having fun feeling her up. Similarly, I can tolerate some conversation if it doesn't interrupt. Other days the dance is helping me decide if I want to take her in a room or ask her for OTC, in that case I want some conversation and discussion about what we're doing/gonna do.

I will agree though, if the dancing stops and she's just sitting there talking to be about something I don't find interesting I get pretty annoyed pretty quick. I'll sometimes take it a step further and go ahead and get up and finish if they do that too long.

When getting dances, I don’t want there to be silence the entire time, but I don’t want there to be too much talking either. What sucks is dealing with dancers that refuse to talk before or after getting dances, which means the only time you get to talk to them is while getting dances.

Know how to handle it. Use it as a time to re-direct ;)

Depends on several factors. One of is if I have an OTC relationship with them. Or, if it just a 10 floor dance. If it is in VIP it can get annoying.

I'll take the side that talking makes thing less awkward

Tell her to shut up and look pretty ;)

With me, it depends on the girl and how the LD is playing out. I don't mind if she chats as long as it's related to dance (i.e. talking dirty, stroking my ego, etc). And I don't mind silent either as long as she's not a dead fish and she gives me visual and physical cues that she's into it. For example, the other night, I had a girl grinding down on me, breathing heavily into my ear, nibbling me. The only time she'd say something was when she needed me to reposition myself. It was the best dry hump I've had since I was 16.

Buying dances is a chump's game!

SJG

^^^^^ Front Room Makeout Session, buying dances is a chump's game.

SJG

I like a little bit of convo with and during my dances, sure. Since Ohio is technically a non touching state, it's not like she can suck or fuck me anyway. So it's not like there is much going on or much happening during a LD. As long as it's not interrupting too much of her dancing, I sort of like it, however, I'm really there for the visuals.