Comments by gentleman6555

Supposedly VIP Club is pretty lax on the rules but i haven’t verified. Agree that Flash has gone downhill.

All tits are real- some are just nicer than others. I've seen and felt some great implants in my time, as well as naturals.

My russian immigrant ATF married some guy who is now supporting her while she’s trying to get a degree in psychology. Who knows how that will turn out, but she’s definitely better off. She has some serious emotional disorders and is now on meds and in therapy. She wanted to be friends but her husband couldn’t know. I said we should both move on. It’s tough, I had feelings, but good for her.

Didn’t Warren Beatty rap about this in Bulworth

actually Papi_Chulo socialists and the left wing are the ones advocating for legalization of sex work. I know legalization is also a libertarian position but no right winger I know has ever advocated for it in a serious way

They can definitely be cold and businesslike, but I've had the most fun with russians... and they can be drop dead gorgeous natural beauties. Most of the ones I've spent a lot of time with have had university degrees and were very intelligent, mostly had their shit together and didn't drink or do drugs. That definitely does make it a little harder to break through the icy exterior. I dunno man I got a thing for the russkies I guess!

Hotel Tonight usually has some kind of deal.

It’s happened on more than one occasion but it’s not the norm. Usually I know if the girl is game for it before I go to VIP. I will say though that when the girl is into it, a good makeout session is one of the best parts of the SC experience.

If there’s one of these for NYC, let me know

I've had some fun doing some mutual light choking / slapping in the VIP. Unfortunately haven't gotten those girls OTC yet, even though we clearly have some bedroom chemistry.

Yeah worst thing to do is be passive aggressive with these girls. Better off ignoring her completely than saying shit like that. She’s definitely being a little bitchy, but in this situation you either pissed her off or she never liked you at all in the first place. Either way being more of a dick isn’t worth the trouble, just move on

Dayuse.com and HotelTonight app are very useful.

She probably sobered up

Doing a roll call on twitter was pretty common at LA clubs like Spearmint Rhino, but I haven't checked in with that recently. Also there was a different (now defunct) website that did something like this.

like everything it’s about chemistry. if the chemistry and the vibe is still there, I’m still buying.

Agree NYC is mostly a no go zone for extras. Curious about which NJ clubs are good for extras though.

Signal is the most secure but are you really worried the NSA is gonna be reading to your texts to Destiny? I use whatsapp and Burner. Whatsapp uses your real number and can’t be password protected so that’s only for girls I have known for awhile. Once had a girl ask to friend me on facebook but I turned that down.

Stripping’s a job like any other. Some people like their job, some people hate their job, but everyone is doing their job for the money, not for fun.

Start with some light spanking and a hand around her throat, see if she likes that. If she says no, back off. Really it’s just all about communication and finding out concretely what she’s into or not into. You can be in control and dominant in a way that respects her boundaries and desires.

Natalia Starr and Mia Melano

I was doing BB with a girl OTC for a couple months. Knew for a fact she was doing this with other guys too. Had a chlamydia scare at one point- even though the best part was she refused to get tested and instead just took antibiotics! I got tested- several times- and always came up clean. It was incredibly fucking stupid. But when a hot russian is wiggling her perfect ass in your face and begging you to fuck her raw all the blood goes out of your brain and heads downstairs.

Once you get into OTC world where you’re in more or less constant flirty contact with a hot girl that you’re fucking on the regular outside of the club it gets a lot harder to keep things professional. And in this sense, strippers lack the professionalism of an escort who has set clear boundaries on her time and emotional involvement. A stripper might not fully understand that if she repeatedly gives a client the impression she actually likes him- and especially if she actually does like him- that things are going to get messy, because they generally aren’t thinking that far ahead. That definitely happened to me. I know she probably did like me a little bit, but she liked the money more. I just let myself forget that and it was a big mistake.

I get what you’re saying but sometimes the connection feels real enough that crashing back to the reality of it being all about the money is painful. It’s one thing to say don’t get emotionally attached, and another to have the self control to do it. I’m not jaded and I don’t hate all strippers now but I’m definitely more circumspect about this, let’s call it a hobby, than I was before.

I’ve seen a few at Ricks consistently.

Wish I had your perspective. But I’m only 36 so maybe it will come with time