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twentyfive
Living well and enjoying my retirement
Here is a series of texts between me and a former favorite
Tuesday
Her- hey how you doing? Haven’t seen you in forever, enjoy your day
Waited till Wednesday to respond
Me- hi so nice to here from you, hope alls well, I sometimes think about you you’re such a sweetheart looks like you think about me as well
Her- cool thank you I’m awesome, but I think I love myself too much, enjoy your day
I didn’t respond till very late
Me- we’ll thats great I hope GPS doesn’t become a thing , but I think you are one terrific gal
She responded this morning
Her- Thanks, I don't know what your reference is too when you write GPS. Enjoy your day
So what’s new, the enjoy your day at the end of each text, she’s very pretty but so fucking entitled should I let her in on the shade, I’m sure she just misses the money I’m leaning towards not responding to her last message.
Tuesday
Her- hey how you doing? Haven’t seen you in forever, enjoy your day
Waited till Wednesday to respond
Me- hi so nice to here from you, hope alls well, I sometimes think about you you’re such a sweetheart looks like you think about me as well
Her- cool thank you I’m awesome, but I think I love myself too much, enjoy your day
I didn’t respond till very late
Me- we’ll thats great I hope GPS doesn’t become a thing , but I think you are one terrific gal
She responded this morning
Her- Thanks, I don't know what your reference is too when you write GPS. Enjoy your day
So what’s new, the enjoy your day at the end of each text, she’s very pretty but so fucking entitled should I let her in on the shade, I’m sure she just misses the money I’m leaning towards not responding to her last message.
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Since I don't know the girl at all I can't comment with certainty but from my own experience when I receive text similar the first thing that comes to mind is are they drunk or had a bit too much weed. Especially when they don't seem uniform throughout the conversation.
If I eliminated every girl with a not great personality in my life, I would be a pretty fucking lonely dude. I work with it (up to a point) And it works for me.
My last CF took a hiatus and came back with hideous breasts after her second enhancement. She didn't mention it, but when I asked why she had not been working for some time, she said she'd gone to Europe. I had always gonnen dances from her on my visits, but I didn't on that visit. I avoided the club when she was working. She finally texts me and asked why I didn't come by any more. I just told her that her "trip to Europe" ruined her in my book. Never heard from her again.
She is a bit over thirty has long dark hair a mixed complexion tall and thin with a beautiful figure nicely proportioned with a full B or small C. As great as she is there’s lots of great gals out there, and I didn’t care for her response that she loves herself too much, that was a big turn off, I don’t need any dancer that much especially with how much money I spend that I won’t find another just as great.
Fuck 'em til you no longer want to fuck 'em. Then, fuck 'em.
Anyway, sounds like more trouble than she's worth, but only you really know the answer to that. I once had a fav who another customer thought had GPS, which he readily shared with me one night at the bar. Little did he know that I was plowing her regularly and she was otherwise fine with me, minus the occasional slip up. But if you feel like she is disrespecting you and she is otherwise not a great provider, then there it is.
Often the response we don’t send is the best response.
Not sure if that’s what you’re thinking of.
I take that text as her trying to gauge how you may currently feel about her and hooking up w/ her - i.e. a PL-reply like "... wow so great to hear from you hope we can get together like old times ..." will let her feel one is somewhat on her hook for her to move-in, vs giving her the cold-shoulder where she might decide to look for greener pasture$.
Sometimes the cold-texts come after a falling-out b/w the PL and dancer and she wanting to test the waters - or maybe her GPS prevents her from being more to the point as for her to not look to desperate/needy for the PL/his-$$$ - just my 2-cents.
^ Papi--you'd be surprised. Sometimes money is not the issue.....knowing you are out there and still hooked at some level plays as much into their ego as well
^ Rick---yes they do. First time I heard it was from a bunch of stock broker types in a NYC bar. GPS that is....
The "enjoy your day" at end of text is lazy marketing. For a short period I was a regular to girl who frequently ended texts with "safe travels" whether I was traveling or not which was also .
I've never gotten a "come see me" text and I'm crossing my fingers I never do.
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If she doesn’t compromise to your ways it’s best to move on you experienced monger.
Guys keep in mind there’s loads of stunningly gorgeous ladies out there, you don’t need to take her bullshit, just be nice and expect great behavior in return for treating a female well.
Personalized texts are different.
25, keep in mind that we are only responding to the text exchange that you posted. We have no idea what she's like in person or any of the other context that you have. If you believe, based upon everything you know about her, that those texts were intentionally disrespectful then so be it.
But as someone else who has had more than his share of good OTC partners, I understand that sometimes this silliness is a function of overcompensating for insecurities rather than true self entitlement. I would have dropped the conversation as soon as she sent the "love myself too much" text and f,then blown off any other texts she might send until I see her again ITC. Then we'd have a teaching moment when I tell her to go love herself too much someplace else. If she is really just insecure she'll apologize and try to make it up, while the truly self entitled one will likely walk away. Easy peasy.
Just a very slight philosophical difference I think. I don't agree that being thin skinned and easy to offend is the hallmark of a seasoned hound. A seasoned hound knows that most of these girls are headcases and can navigate this stuff with equanimity, provided that he is ready to provide a quick corrective swat when needed (figurative, lol). I am thick skinned when dealing with these girls and will tolerate a certain amount of silliness up to a point, so long as it is not direct contempt or disrespect or otherwise interfering with my entertainment.
I should add that sometimes the insecure ones will walk away too, but when they calm down they may be tempted to come back and apologize. Those ones are good too. ;)
But yes, in all honesty, you did come across as a little thin skinned, both with this...
"Me- we’ll thats great I hope GPS doesn’t become a thing , but I think you are one terrific gal"
...and with your comment about "taking her bullshit." I would have chalked up the exchange as a silly young girl making silly comments. For some reason, you felt compelled to write that pointless follow-up text and then let us know, with great fanfare, that you won't take her "bullshit." If I mis-interpreted then mea culpa, but it comes across as a little emotionally invested to me.
Oh, and I type quickly and pump out paragraphs of spin for a living, so it is no great effort for me to plop this stuff on a screen. ;)
The limit beyond which the chick's hotness doesn't matter: Dushku Limit. Once she's as hot as Eliza Dushku, it isn't meaningful to describe how much hotter she is http://petertips.blogspot.com/2014/02/th…
Other reference was the crowdsourced hotness scale: level one is a head-turner, level 2 is a wave-maker (you can track her movements in a crowd by a wave of turning heads), level 3 is Whoa (guys say and do stupid shit when they see her, stop their friends to point her out, etc) :) :)
In some ways guys are worse than women with being happy with what we have.
- Me- we’ll thats great I hope GPS doesn’t become a thing , but I think you are one terrific gal -
I hope that passive aggressive texting doesn't become a thing, but of course I'm sure you're one terrific guy. ;)
I was holding that in literally for hours, lol.
Enjoy your day
Back to the otc. If she’s open to fucking otc - it might be worth pursuing? I’m not sure that otc was mentioned - but a top level girl must earn a lot.