Preferred means of messaging
Huntsman
Gynecology student
Assuming you meet a stripper who agrees to exchange contact information, what are you finding to be the preferred means of communication? Text seems to be the most common. But I seem to be finding an increasing preference among strippers for Snapchat, Instagram, Kik or other such messaging. Some ladies like to communicate by dedicated email accounts but that seems less common than a few years ago.
What trends, if any, are you seeing? Or are you finding that text is simply king?
What trends, if any, are you seeing? Or are you finding that text is simply king?
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I suspect that Snapchat is the most popular after texting, though. I get asked if I'm on Snapchat more often now. I'm not and I'd rather not be, but I suspect that I'll cave in eventually.
Some girls use instagram or Snapchat. Snapchat in particular is a good score -- very easy for her to send enticing pics! ANd the illusion of impermanence means she's tempted to do so.
A very few pains in the asses ask use kik or whatsapp... I assume because their life situation is unstable and they don't always have mobile service.
I'll be impressed if anyone ever suggests Signal :)
When I wasn't married, I didn't mind then hitting me up on GVoice text either
On top of that, Signal is free open source -- that means the main platform itself is not differentiated. That said, there are schools of thought in the security community that in order for a platform to really be secure, the software should be opened up to the entire security community to examine -- if all the best minds in security can't find problems with the algorithms, back doors, etc., then they probably don't exist. Versus closed-source software, where it's common to find big algorithmic problems, etc.
Snapchat is forever.
Girls under 25 seem to be primarily using snapchat which I actually prefer. I only use snapchat for the hobby so I don't have to worry about getting an innapropiate text at work or out with friends/family. Plus they tend to post some great pics throughout the week to look at and their generic "come to the club" pleas tend to be sent to their story instead of directly to me making them easier to ignore.
Unlike 25, I have yet to see a dancer use smoke signals to draw in business, unless you count the Green Light Lounge in Louisville having dancers constantly standing out front smoking and waving to cars that drive by.
When I first started SCing it was fun to get numbers and then text but some of the dancers were real clingy, perhaps thinking it was charming, I would think "I don't want to date you, I just wanted to get a few good lap dances"
Then when I was introduced to extras it made me more anti post experience communication.
I use whatsapp and Burner. Whatsapp uses your real number and can’t be password protected so that’s only for girls I have known for awhile.
Once had a girl ask to friend me on facebook but I turned that down.
But I loved reading blonde bombshell go way off the subject and somehow com back to kik, so I'm gonna try it!
As someone who is fairly convinced that the NSA has intercepted all my dick pics, and they are currently all printed out and hung up around NSA headquarters with all the nerds laughing at them, I find the investment worth it.
:) More seriously, I'm not terribly worried about this, but I said I'd be impressed if any of them picked Signal -- after all, they are the ones who are going to be sending me nude pics, etc. Why not pick an app where those pics won't be unencrypted on corporate servers? Signal is best, but any end-to-end encrypted platform works fine... even WhatsApp. I mean, Signal is no more difficult to use than Messenger; whether you think you "need" it or not, given that you're not giving anything up, why not take the safety?
I'm with you there, in the sense that some girls have a fake Instagram or Snapchat that's only for customers, where they try to "build their brand", and that includes a for-fee section with "special pictures". I don't have any objection to this in principle; but experience tells me, these tend to be high-$ SW-hustler types or high volume types, and I'm not after either. My CFs pretty much never give me the "I only have snapchat" line, perhaps because they wouldn't have made it to become a CF if they were super high-$ hustler types.
On the other hand, my CF offers me her snapchat? Fuck yes, for all the reasons I mentioned. Her story will be fun and sexy, but far better than that, millennial female culture around snapchat is, they send sexy pics. And hey, I love me some sexy pics of my CF.