Back room makeout - common?
JeffTUSCL
California
Made a club visit today and saw a dancer I'd met on a prior visit, very pretty model quality girl next door, nice personality. She recognized me, we talked for a bit and I took her to VIP. I wasn't really expecting much, last time she just stick-shifted and took my handle out to play with. She didn't give any menu that time and didn't ask for anything, so I gave her a conservative tip that time, she seemed happy with it. On this visit I didn't engage much differently, she wanted to grind me through my boxers and seemed to be getting off a bit. I hovered my lips near hers like last time not expecting much - not a single dancer ever has jumped to any real kissing, maybe fake kissing of my neck type stuff - but to my quiet surprise she started giving me soft pecks on my lips and i just went with it. We were soon making out and this lasted almost 10 minutes. It wasn't a porn star makeout, it was like one with a girl you just started dating but haven't had sex with yet.
How typical is that experience? This was a first for me. Most the dancers I've encountered are either "fun" but clearly faking being into me, others just want to get to business of $ for whatever, and some just stare off into space while doing a mix of air and mild grinding like they would rather be somewhere else. I've never had one seem to get into kissing and want to keep doing it for a while.
How typical is that experience? This was a first for me. Most the dancers I've encountered are either "fun" but clearly faking being into me, others just want to get to business of $ for whatever, and some just stare off into space while doing a mix of air and mild grinding like they would rather be somewhere else. I've never had one seem to get into kissing and want to keep doing it for a while.
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That's why Al Gore invented Listerine.
@Subraman I do note that the older I get, the more uncommon kissing becomes, which makes me think that it's one of those things for which there's a revulsion bar you have to pass, beyond paying her enough.
Makes sense. Unfortunately, the older you get, the more difficult it becomes to score that elusive GFE. If I ever make out with a woman who removes her dentures first, I'm throwing in the towel.
When I was young and broke getting the GFE and even free-of-charge OTC festivities with strippers was as easy as a walk in the park!
Now that I’m old and rich those are just fond memories.
>>> Do you want to make out with a girl who's been sucking dicks all night long though?
It was very obvious in my time with her so far that she's not an extras girl other than direct hand play on the stick-shifter. She doesn't offer any menu, doesn't ask for anything extra. I may be wrong, but so far it doesn't seem to be the case. Her breath was totally fine and did not smell like mouthwash either.
As far as your not being able to understand the way another person enjoys things, that is probably a personality fault. I understand completely why you would want a girlfriend/fakegirlfriend. That is just not what I want. My opinion is that Sex Workers are there to have sex.... not be my girlfriend. There are professional cuddlers if that is your thing, visit them. So while I don't want the same things others do out of a sex worker I can understand why you would act the way you do.
Relate it to another recreational activity.
Football:
- I can never watch a game and have my friends just tell me about it
- I can listen on the radio
- I can read about it online
- I can watch it on tv
- I can go to a sports bar and watch it with others
- I can actually go to the game
These are listed in order from cheapest to most expensive but also are all valid ways of enjoying the football game. I enjoy going to the game and having other people there that enjoy it also.
I crave the human touch part, and since I am often times not in a relationship and not able to quickly jump into one like most people seem to be able to, then I need a way to satisfy that need. I have found if I get the human touch aspect 1 or 2 times a week, I am far less likely to fall into depressed or irritated moods. I also am drawn to the fake relationship where I focus on a specific girl or two and am happy to see them regularly than trying to find a new girl constantly. I'm not referring to strip clubs, that is only a recent activity of mine, I'm talking about p4p. I am a miserable failure at one night stands and am often also working and not exactly able to date normally. But I have human needs and often they are just physical needs but a good amount of the time they are needs of craving that can't be satisfied by just whacking off.
The love doll thing is just weird, it seems like that is the path of people who are both extremely desperate or mentally ill. Maybe it it was a fully functioning robot that came across like a real human it might make sense.
I do understand that any p4p relationship is not a genuine relationship but when comparing that to nothing then I choose that even if it means the illusion fools me sometimes into thinking it's real. My logical mind knows it's not real but it feels real enough to the part of my mind that has the craving of human touch, wanting to be wanted, wanting companionship and a feeling of caring.
When I've been going to strip clubs, it's been all about entertaining the pure sexual and in a way that doesn't need to be scheduled. Most clubs are open late and there's usually always at least one girl I'd be up for doing pleasurable things with. It is in those cases just to nut but with the touch of an attractive girl to make it happen is so much better than a solo adventure. Of all the times I've gone to strip clubs now, since that is all it's about and that's all I have experienced, it was really a big change of experience to have this sort of more intimate type of thing happen.
It also seemed a surprise since I had seen this girl on stage the first time I ever went to this particular club and found her looks and vibe mesmerizing but had not been able to see her again until recently. Her shifts just never seemed to ever overlap when I went but I had always kept her in the back of my mind that if I saw her again I would get to know her. So when I finally did, this happened. Maybe because I wasn't treating her like a sexual object? Could have been my unconscious behaviors that opened the door to it.
Lately, I've changed my approach to allow a little more intamcy which has led to more kissing which has lead to better sex.
If you find a dancer that kisses and you enjoy that type of intamcy, don't let her go.
Also get many front room kisses, but I wont make out in front room..
I do not like the attention and it can hurt her earnings.
I have one in particular, that the more she gets turned on the more she tongue wrestles. She has absolutely no
gag reflex and will deep throat my fingers also.