Local Dancers on Social Media
rickdugan
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I was just asked if I would like to be invited to join a private FB group of local dancers and their favorite customers. Apparently there are already 287 members. It is a closed group, but I saw a number of the female members through the Friends list of the dancer who discussed this with me. I came across a half dozen FB profiles of girls who I've had OTC relations with over the years, complete with pics of their kids, SOs, etc. I'm sure there are more who are part of this group. I should add that not all of these OTC relationships ended well.
A FUCK to the NO for that. I maintain a generic FB account that I use for hobby purposes as one cannot do certain things on FB without one, but I have never friended anyone or even let a dancer know that it exists. The last thing I need is to get on the radar of a large group of local dancers. This is a small city filled primarily with small clubs and the girls talk enough among themselves as it is.
Is there anyone here who would welcome that kind of participation on FB?
A FUCK to the NO for that. I maintain a generic FB account that I use for hobby purposes as one cannot do certain things on FB without one, but I have never friended anyone or even let a dancer know that it exists. The last thing I need is to get on the radar of a large group of local dancers. This is a small city filled primarily with small clubs and the girls talk enough among themselves as it is.
Is there anyone here who would welcome that kind of participation on FB?
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I would not join a group like that. Not a chance.
But if it requires using some kinda real account then no for me.
For example, one of the girls in question sucked OTC. Things ended badly with her trashed at the bar during my next visit and begging me for another chance. She made such a scene that the manager eventually tossed her out. Things also ended badly with another one of the 6 girls that I know who are part of the group. The last thing I need is to trigger a shit fest that could spill over into my ITC and OTC activities.
That being said, I am part of a couple of dancer groups.
Past issues with even having multiple profiles on Facebook. (Which btw if you ever get reported, FB will delete your profile if you misrepreeent yourself)
https://gizmodo.com/how-facebook-outs-se…
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=IUCTqEVSlE…
I would do it in a heartbeat. I have, as ish describes, an "air gapped" FB account strictly for SCing. No pics of my face on it (although there have been in the past). I'd be curious what they talk about on the group, I'd raid the membership list for pretty dancers I might want to hook up with at some other time or club, etc.
Honestly that group sounds like a ticking drama bomb in general.
@Sub: I enjoy interacting with strippers to a degree or else I wouldn't spend so much time with them ITC. But as we both know, their personalities change once we take them OTC, as does the tone of the conversations. As much as I like getting to know these girls, there is a limit to how much of it I want to hear. My cup overfloweth already with female drama. If I was single without kids, maybe I'd have more capacity, but there it is.
The opportunity for gossip *and* G2 is simply too great for me to resist. :)
That being said, for me the grwat thing about SCs is the interaction, whereas social media, while providing an almost unlimited amount of content lacks true interaction.
For example, I would rather pay the expenses of a SC or Brothel to get real FS than to watch porn for free.
the only communication i have with them is via text and its to meet somewhere. i have had texts where she says something like you have the "donation?" i then play it off and say she has the wrong number. i personally think that strippers have BFs that sell drugs and its only a matter of time before they get popped by the police. The police are going to go through her phone and then see your texts exchanges. i believe a stripper would not have any problem throwing you under the bus.