JeffTUSCL

Everyone's perspective seems to hover around their hobby theme of choice. Strip clubs, massage parlors, escorts, street walkers, brothels. I'm speaking holistically. Los Angeles was cheap when the talent was plentiful and economics didn't work well for hot women. Even with a crappy economy they have a lot more choices now that take nothing more than a smart phone in their hand to take advantage. Then again, it's possible my perspective is lost or I have less time on my hands to put energy into the search. I'm trying to inspire myself to find new angles, have just been coming up empty a lot more often of late.

Do I have to spell it out? She was dressed like a pole dancing whore.

Could be resting bitch face. When in deep thought, it is easy to forget not to put a positive facial demeanor and from a distance such a person appears unapproachable.

It was a rant, what can I say. As far as hobby expense, yes it's not a cheap hobby. The gripe is that in the past 3 years it's become problematic in multiple ways, not just cost but diminishing talent, and diminishing options. If the only issue was cost, I might find some way to absorb and move on. It might be that I am unaware of new avenues that are more hidden. Back when I first started all this many years ago, I thought the only option was escort sites and that nothing ever happened in strip clubs. I was wrong and I started to find different ways to find consistent talent. Maybe I am wrong now, though it seems daunting.

I once connected with a stripper over one of the sugar sites. She was cheap for the meet, don't know why, I think she didn't want to see greedy and it was just a dinner meet to feel things out. I thought why not. Then she showed up looking like a stripper. She was hot, definitely hot, but imagine you're a guy dressed pretty respectable and the girl you're meeting for dinner who you didn't show up with at the same time comes strolling in like she's advertising herself. Either clueless or on purpose. I picked a place reasonably close to my work & home and the whole time I was cold sweating that a coworker or someone I know would walk in. Never doing that again. I was trying to keep the engagement short but didn't want to cut it too short in case she made some scene.