the pussy gets old quick
WILLYSGOTAWOMAN
New Jersey
i did have one atf who was so gorgeous and so good at what she did i kept seeing her for years. but as a general matter i start finding a stripper less exciting after 5 or 10 times. do you gents know what i'm talking about? how do you go about pulling the stripper switch?
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rick is right . i'm a spoiled bastard.
"Always?...no. Sometimes?...yes. I've been with smoking hot dancers who ultimately had the enthusiasm and personality of shitty AM radio (you're young... Google it). They didn't last long. I've also been with less hot dancers who were dynamos. They lasted longer, bless them. So, it's highly subjective.
"I would hate to have such uncertainty in my sex life."
What you call 'uncertainty', many guys here call 'variety'.
"What if it's hard to find another girl like the girl you were with?"
You figure it out. That's the point behind 'variety'.
"She doesn't do what you like in bed, doesn't have the same passion behind her kisses. Doesn't relate to you as well. Always being on the prowl and chasing girls and not being able to feel secure."
Then you look for another dancer. For the customer, it's an abundance market. You just need patience (and a fair amount of disposable income...). I'm not sure what "feeling secure" has to do with anything.
"Not to mention, unless you're running through literally dozens of girls. You can't have nearly as much sex as you can when you stick to one or two girls."
I see your point, but that's not always true.
"Also the first time with girls usually isn't that good. There's always a level of awkwardness that comes with sleeping with someone for the first time. It always gets better over time."
Also not wrong. But if the sex doesn't improve over time, then that's when I move on.
"After nearly a decade of being single. Getting to settle down and not having to chase girls anymore to get sex and finding a best friend who's a girl and loves you sounds amazing."
Sure. If that's what you're after. Not everyone here is after that. It's a personal choice.
Also, keep in mind that the customer is often not the one making the choice to move on. Dancers drop off the map, have major life changes, move away, etc., all the time. Many customers are accustomed to suddenly being "on the market" via the behavior of the dancers themselves.
"After nearly a decade of being single. Getting to settle down and not having to chase girls anymore to get sex and finding a best friend who's a girl and loves you sounds amazing."
Trying to understand this one Ish, the kid says he's twenty, can a 10 year old really be single and chase girls?
I am in the same camp as many here. Unless she is really good, I can only see her a handful of times before I am bored. With that said, I have also had some who were so good that I saw for months before I finally got bored. But the short run girls outnumber the longer-term ones by a lot.
I do repeat with dancers but.prefer for it to be a while since I've been with her vs just a week or two - and sometimes I repeat sorta bc they've treated me.well in the past but not necessarily bc I'm hard-up to get with them, although I still find them attractive.
Sometimes this leads to average, akward, and even bad experiences but I also get to experience so many incredible women.