Comments by goonster

Yes, it is generally a bad idea to shit where you eat. It is for this reason alone that I never do business with friends and family. It rarely if ever works out where everybody is happy.

I've mostly emptied my bucket list. I have a couple of items that I doubt will ever be checked off though.

Umm, just ask

I've heard Fitness instructor, in school for a political science major, lots of waitress jobs, a fair number of moms.

Only if they ask why.

"I'm not that kind of dancer" This was said to me by a dancer that offered to do a private show that was just like at the club. I said I preferred to have more fun if I was going to pay for a private show. That was her response.

Nothing wrong with your approach. She was a 10 physically, but obviously not the sharpest tool in the shed and not that into providing customer service. Not much you can do but move on.

Yes. It sucks. The customers are free to leave, but usually it's easier to chill out until the vice cops leave.

I usually get winded before I nut. I read somewhere that as guys get older, they slow down, while as women get older they speed up, at least in the sex department. There's a club in Phx that's pretty well known for HJs in their "vip" area. It's basically 3 song sets. I've never been able to get revved up enough to pop in the span of 3 songs. It's usually like 3 or 4 sets before I'm done.

I've gotten plenty of play from white girls, though they tend to either run hot or cold as has been said before. IME Asians and Mexican/Latinas tend to be more into doing what needs to be done to make me happy though. With that being said, I think it's a culture thing more than a raise thing. Lots of ladies in other cultures grow up in an environment where the female is subservient, and thus they tend to give higher mileage as a result.

I prefer big tots, but that is only a deal breaker if you're not otherwise attractive or have a crappy personality. Remember, there's a size and shape for everyone, you just need to not get discouraged by the guys who aren't into you.

I would try to keep it anonymous, and try to shelter it for as long as possible like AZdd. After that, since my parents have long since passed, and I'm largely debt free, I'd treat the money as a very large infusion of capital that I would use to substantially boost my existing recurring residual income by expanding my businesses. From there, I'm sure there would be some really high end escorts and I'd pretty much from that point on be a total baller when i go to the strip club. You'd be amazed how much management is willing to look the other way when you roll in with enough cash to grease everybody there (don't ask how I know this)

In my experience, the vast majority of sex workers have a pimp in one form or another. No matter how much they say they're independent, there is almost always one or more guys behind the scenes running at least some of their life of not every aspect of it, and she pays him/them in one form or another. This is a cold hard reality. Some pimps (the smarter ones) are good to the girls and foster a good business relationship and tend to keep things business, and some pimps are despicable human beings that are worse than slave owners.

Are extras important? Yes. If a customer knows what he is doing, he will enquire about your menu, either directly, or more indirectly. If he doesn't, assume he's not expecting extras. Whatever you do, don't offer something you have no intention of delivering, especially if you want repeat business. Guys don't like that. You can skirt a little by simply not offering, but if the subject is brought up, be straight up with him. He may decline if you're not a match for what he's looking for, in which case, the best thing to do is simply free both of you up so he can keep looking for what he wants and you can get on with another customer that is happy with what you're willing to provide.

If things between you and ATF ended amicably, go for it.

For young women, the biological drive to have a child is a lot stronger than a lot of us guys realize. Couple that with bad decision making skills and generally terrible taste in men and there you go. Recipe for single mom.

Looks-wise, I prefer a hot 18-20 year old, intelligence-wise, I prefer late 20s to early-mid 30s.

It happens to me frequently enough. I take it as a sign that extras might be available. If she don't flash it, then she probably won't let you stick your cock in it.

extras as in ITC or extras as in OTC? I don't think I've ever been to a club that didn't have at least 1 lady on shift that was available for takeout. ITC? Different story.

I prefer curves, but in shape. Skinny isn't really my thing, and thick isn't my thing either.

In SF it pretty much starts at $20 per, which quite frankly if you ask me is too much given that it's one way and more often than not bikini. In a fair number of the clubs, the VIP area is 3 for $100, which again, for what you get, I dont think is that great. In Phx, the prevailing rate is $10 per, topless, at your table, and depending on the lady, limited 2way contact. Better contact can be had in the clubs that have higher end areas, but it pretty much jumps to $20 per at least.

PhantomGeek has it right. Foo is basically skills. I love picking up geek slang from the young bucks around the office.

Ruby is a scripting language that allows you to quickly put together code to do various things. I wouldn't run it in a production environment, but it's awful handy for little things like sucking pictures down off the internet.

Yep. Most of her pics appear to be in various states of undress though. I don't really see any straight up topless or nudes from what I've slurped down so far.

Different strokes for different folks. What ugly for you might be the gold standard for someone else. Also, looks aren't everything. Personality and how well you get along play a part too. I've had plenty of 7s and 8s that where great and a blast to be around, and 9s and 10s that really sucked.