When I get dances, I never ask to see the kitty.
I've only had one dancer show me her kitty as part of the lap dance without me asking. She's very comfortable doing that because she also dances at a nude club.
In your experience, how common is it for dancers to flash the kitty in a private dance as part of the routine?
Do you commonly ask to see it and how do you go about it?
What was the dancer's reaction?
I want to ask my CF, but I don't know how she will react. She's very beautiful and appears to be a clean dancer. Best case scenario she might answer, "sure, for $100". Of course I won't pay but at least she won't be offended.


Its somewhat common In the Southern California Area. Depending if its a medium+ -mileage girl. A low-mileage girl probably wont do it. The girls usually have alcohol in thier system already. Usually, by the 3rd dance the girls really loosen up. The girls aren't really shy about the kitty . As long as the bouncer is not around. Guage how she reacts by sensual panty play . Then Progressively get more sexual by each dance. I remember one dancer moved her panties to the side.