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In my experience on the east coast (NJ, Philly, DC), I have found that you get the best bang for your buck with the independent escorts. Stay away from the ones that work for large escort agencies and make sure that you remain on time. From time to time, you may meet an independent stripper and you both may get it on. For one thing, FS is a sure thing; unlike the stripclub environment where it is a moving target. I have had dinner dates and overnight stays with independent escorts without paying extras. The chemistry may just be there. Become a member of TER and read reviews. Not all reviews are off target. I think that going to the stripclub with the ultimate goal for OTC is the way to go. I know that you first have to show the girl that you are not LE, and have some money in the club. This may involve having FS in the club to break the ice. FS in the club is always a rushed and messy affair. Condoms are limited, cleaning towels are solutions are limited. Some strippers prefer to only have FS in the club. I tend to avoid these ones. I prefer to work with those strippers that have FS in the club, but are opened to OTC. FS in the club is a major waste of money if the goal is not towards OTC. My own two cents.

I think that to fire her would be the wrong move. Maybe, work on getting her transferred to a different department. It is tough working close to someone that you have strong feelings for. There is a 335lb lady that applied for the same job. Perhaps, it is time to call the 335lb lady up.

My personal advice to a young man is to get your finances together, purchase a home, and work on establishing a relationship if you wish to have children. Stripper are generally damaged goods. They are beautiful and represent a fantasy. They are generally available for any guy for the right price. Cultivate a great relationship with a great civvie that you can count on in a pinch.

I will stay away from this woman. If she becomes too much to handle, I will simply get her fired. It is probably best for her to get a different job with a different company and avoid the temptation of being close to her. I will begin to set the dismissal in motion.

Try Oasis. It is ITC and OTC friendly. Centerfolds give the best high mileage dance in the area. You can grab the breast, suck the tits, and squeeze the ass. OTC is available.