What's the most common thing strippers tell you they are doing outside the club?
The most common thing for me is nothing. They are not in school, and they don't have another job. They have to pay rent, and stripping is how they do it.
The second most common thing I hear is beauty school.
Thoughts?
Yes. School is the #1 answer. One told me that she was studying to become a pharmacist. I think that was code for drug dealer. Another and a common favorite is nursing. One nursing student told me that she did not have access to a computer. Well I know that is not possible because my daughter just graduated and a lap top was a necessity. But she is so cute and sucks dick so good, I don't care if she is studying to be an attorney.
I realize that school will be answer for a lot of people. I guess I'm asking for school to be more specific, in school for what?
It depends if its a regular then some of them know about my real life. I will talk about kids spouse and other normal stuff but if its a person I don't know that well then I make it up lol.
I hear a lot of nursing school and beauty school. Once in a while retail sales person (ie: Kmart or WalMart) or restaurant waitress. Did know one that was actually a paralegal and was doing this while finishing up her degree for law, but she was the exception (by the way, she is a really good lawyer now and I have used her for such several times, I get a good discount for legal services because I know her past and keep my mouth shut).
Nursing is common. But so is "beauty school"
Hair, nails, make-up...
I've heard nursing school a few times. One girl told me she was studying to be a dentist. Having a dentist buddy, I know that the first two years of dental school consist of the same classes as med school, and when I pressed her on it, she changed stories to dental hygienist... Lol. The most memorable though was a girl who told me she was a middle school teacher for a school 50 miles away. I believe her too. It must be boner city in her class with all the boys hitting puberty...
Mostly I don't ask because I assume the answer will be untruthful. I remember one time when a dancer told me how impressed she was that another girl at the club was a month or two away from finishing medical school. This dancer was very disappointed a couple of months later when, a couple of months later, it turned out that the "medical student" had been lying about her schooling.
Apparently they lie just as much to each other as they do to customers.
I've had a few tell me they do Real Estate on the side. Or that they are in sales.
Yeah... I suppose every girl in the club is in "Sales." Ha.
Hey, sales is sales, doesn't matter wether is a house, a car, jewelry, or a lap dance, sales is sales.
Psychology is a common major. Some business.
Fitness industry seems common for other gigs.
A lot are probably moms when not at the club.
Lol @ med school. Unless she's only dancing one Saturday a week, that's one situation that is NOT compatible with dancing.
Pre med? Sure. But not medical school.
Yeah I hear nursing school a lot, that's probably the third most common thing I hear. I've heard dentistry a couple of times.
Best one I ever heard was a girl going to school to become a high school guidance counselor. I guess you need to know what life choices to avoid to steer kids in the right direction.
I've heard Fitness instructor, in school for a political science major, lots of waitress jobs, a fair number of moms.
My ATF was an intermediate EMT studying to become a full fledged para medic. I know it to be true because I know what company she worked for and saw her go into action twice ITC.
I am in the UK which may be different. Over the years have met two law students over the years who knew enough to convince me and a couple of scial workers (who are very badly paid in the UK).
Had a girl tell me she was studing to become a writer. I asked what she was going to write. She said "porno stories". I had a girl, mid 30s, say she realized she was getting too old to make a living dancing and hooking and was going to school to be a respiratory therapist.
Sleeping, shopping and fucking.
I thought they all retired to be bartenders in strip clubs. It seems like half the club bartenders I know used to be strippers. And not the hot half.
The more I SC; the more I realize there is no point in asking dancers questions about pretty much anything that is not related to stripping; in particular personal stuff.
I doubt many that are regular dancers are doing anything else on the side; if that was the case they probably would not be dancing – plus stripping can be pretty taxing I imagine and b/w the odd schedule; drinking; and possible drug use; they probably cannot handle doing other stuff on the side.
For this sort of thing the now defunct Sunnyvale Hip Hugger was my favorite:
In school for graphics design, or to be a psychologist or a marriage councilor. Or wants to go to school to be a kindergarten teacher. Or works as an aerobics and physical education teacher. Works in a lingerie store at the nearby shopping mall, verified. Works cutting hair at the same mall, verified. Wants to be a newspaper journalist. Left to work in a ticket booth at the Shoreline Amphitheater. Used to work as a history teacher, before coming to California. Human Resources Director for computer gaming company. Manager of Accounts Payable for high tech startup. Bank Loan Officer. Laid off Office Manager. Used to work in Corporate America. Still works in Corporate America. Going to trade school and now field installer for Comcast Cable. Wants to learn about computers but now dances and does OTC. Dances and also dances in S.F. Dances and also does Bachelor Parties, which is mostly a code for OTC. Goes to school at UC Santa Cruz. Was acting in local theater production. Goes to junior college and has some paintings on display in Pete's Coffee Shop.
Comes from Kentucky and has danced all over the country. Currently in relationship, "I can do more when I am not in relationship. Right now it's like, 'that's reserved'".
Born in Cancun Mexico, but lived and danced in Florida. Has run off from husband. Now living in hotel and has 1-800 number with phone operator. ( this one was a super hot latina!)
Dances and passes out business cards for the Bachelor Party ( mostly Escort ) service she works with.
Going to school to learn about computers ( beloved Latina escort preparing for retirement ).
Worked for one of the last remaining fruit packing companies in San Jose ( beloved Latina escort accepting retirement ).
Wants to get Real Estate License ( stupid head up her ass lesbian dancer ).
Planning on going to Medical School ( Afro American dancer who does not want to do anything illegal like OTC ).
Wants to go to LA to get into mainstream entertainment industry.
SJG
Some have told me they're studying economics, psychology, and telecommunications; one told me she was studying to be a surgical tech. Over the years, more have told me that they're single mothers. Another tried to tell me that she was a writer. I asked her what genre she preferred to write. She just got a blank look on her face.
Real estate is surprisingly common!
And listermint sales! Strippers are absolutely brilliant with the listermint sales!
Nukey: "What's the most common thing strippers tell you they are doing outside the club?"
Drugs.
Massage therapist. Personal trainer. Waitress.
From the SW dancers’ POV:
My friends wife worked in a bank, but didn't stay there very long after she started dancing. The other ones I KNOW, nothing. Been told school, most often and the weirdest, a mortician.
One of them said she was a car mechanic and a few others are at school. However, the chick who surprised me the most said that she works at a medical marijuana dispensary to match her lifestyle as a stripper! Beat that!
Social worker, criminology! Lol
I don't think I've ever had a girl in detroit say they are in school. Seems to me a lot of waitresses at strop clubs are the ones in school. I tend to believe most of them because they seem fairly intelligent.
I know you are the lap dance king, but I would stay away from the fucking military!!
I forgot about one escort I spoke with in Canada; she was going to school for forensic medicine. Another escort I knew in Indy got her MBA and retired from the life for a mainstream job.
seyes,
One of the barmaids at my favorite club has worked on my bike. She is a partner in a motorcycle repair shop.
I have heard school so often that I tend to doubt it after a while. Of course, some are.
Listermint sales would be brilliant! LOL!
Seriously though, the military comment from lapdanceking82 surprised me! Anybody else get that? I never have!
"taking care of my child" or a variation on that.
I know of 2 dancers that started dancing while they were in the army. Both are still dancing.
Drinking and smoking weed at home on their days off.
What do they do outside the club? Anything you want for $300 an hour!
Shadow, I knew one woman back in the Air Force who left the military to strip at a club in Colorado Springs.
This is probably going to sound weird, but do you think there are by astronaut strippers? I bet a sexy Ukrainian cosmonaut stripper would be absolutely brilliant!
Speaking of the military, that is one thing I liked about Key West clubs. With the Naval Air Station there and such a limited geography, military wife's would often dance. Seems the airmen brought many wife's from the Orient home with them.
I had a fave that talked about how she loved her old job working at the funeral home.
Clubber - From my observation most of those Asian wives are Filipina. What have you noticed?
Lots of great insight in this thread!
I met a dancer whom had been in the Navy – she had a great pair of supa-firm natural Ds and gave very good mileage.
I’ve met a few “army brats” whose parent was in the armed forces and thus they moved around a lot and many of these dancers have been very free spirits.
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The most I met in Key West said they were from the Okinawa. I kind of questioned that since it is so small and so far away from the mainland. I figured since our military is prevalent in Okinawa, they just said they were from there. One was such a hottie, but knew it and was a poor dancer and not really enjoyable to be around. Plus I had my fave, Donna, at that club.
I still see Donna around, but about doubled or more in weight. Is really surprising since she was meticulous about working out back in the days. At 39 her body was as tight as a drum...Bob
"In school" is by far the number one answer. When pressed for details, the schooling explanation often becomes rather vague. Sometimes it turns into "thinking of going to school."
Other answers include yoga instructor, personal trainer, working in retail, and office jobs. Strangely I don't think I've ever had a dancer say she that her ITC job was in sales.