So, you see a beautiful stripper. How do you know whether she will be willing for OTC? Is a stripper who is liberal in the regular lap dance room likely to make a good OTC? Do you try first to get ITC and if ITC is successful, proceed with arranging OTC? Some strippers have told me to become a regular at the club so that they can feel comfortable with OTC. I sometimes feel that this approach to become a "regular" is simply to bleed you dry of your dollars with little return. Some strippers are willing to meet with you multiple times for ITC FS or BJ, but will not do OTC. I find this approach unappealing. ITC activities are hurried and rushed. I do not mind the first BJ or FS in the club, but I prefer not to continue in this direction. I need your thoughts on this matter.
I'd ask, how could use the system, blunt honesty, whatever. If it's a no, try with another dancer. More times ITC is accepted after OTC offer rejected, less likely you'll receive from that dancer.
Ask in a respectful way, such as "Do you work outside the club?" or "Could we have some fun outside the club?" I ask every hot new dancer I meet. About half say yes.
A lot of dancers want you to become a regular before meeting for OTC. This may be a rip off, but it may also be true. Women have a legitimate concern about meeting a strange man in a place where they could be assaulted or killed.
"When you have a customer who is as good looking as you say I am, with a gigantic penis like you said I have, who works out every day as you said I must, would you be willing to meet with such an incredibly sexy stud outside the club?
I think the most important thing to remember is that her risk is greater than yours, and she has to feel safe and comfortable. Even if every other dancer knows she does OTC, I also think it's important to convince her of your discretion. I haven't done a ton of OTC, but in every case the dancer has made it clear that she didn't want anyone else to know about our meeting. Trust is everything, and is often very well rewarded.
Mr Dugan's system, is I believe intended as a response to what you are describing. Avoid spending any ITC money, just find that stripper who will to OTC with you without that.
But I think most people still find that doing ITC dances makes it work better.
Jestrite50 is the one I follow, and he is usually engaging in front room make out sessions with a girl, before even going into a booth or backroom. Then if there is to be OTC, it is not really completely on the clock.
The infamous "system" by RickDugan. Suits and dive bars and multiple trips.
Or the less well know system by Dugly, where you walk around the club in sweatpants loudly asking every dancer for extras, which inevitably bags you OTC with a 10 for $150. Or so we're told.
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last commentA lot of dancers want you to become a regular before meeting for OTC. This may be a rip off, but it may also be true. Women have a legitimate concern about meeting a strange man in a place where they could be assaulted or killed.
But we would never take their testicles, RE: sc's article. :)
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Works almost every time, at least 70-80%.
Someone is not doing their homework. No soup for you!
But I think most people still find that doing ITC dances makes it work better.
Jestrite50 is the one I follow, and he is usually engaging in front room make out sessions with a girl, before even going into a booth or backroom. Then if there is to be OTC, it is not really completely on the clock.
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The infamous "system" by RickDugan. Suits and dive bars and multiple trips.
Or the less well know system by Dugly, where you walk around the club in sweatpants loudly asking every dancer for extras, which inevitably bags you OTC with a 10 for $150. Or so we're told.
"The System Part 2: How to Approach Civvies in Public"
http://youtu.be/p9ZjOCSLYlc