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6 years ago
Never fuck a child; not only is it traumatic for them on some level, they can't keep secrets.
As I've gotten older, so have my g/f's. I'd rather have a hot 40 year old who knows how to fuck and understands my jokes than some beautiful but underage girl who knows nothing of my universe, and will accuse me of rape sooner or later.
Same for boys...if I had a teacher fuck me when I was 14 it would have messed me up even worse than I am.
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I'd say maybe 1 in 20 dances results in some level of excitement from the dancer, and maybe 1 in 100 she actually cums. It's rare; they're working and definitely not looking for sexual excitement. Even my ATF prefers to keep it "professional" ITC which means she's working on my arousal, not her own. She likes my neck massages while she's grinding but she's smart enough not to fake orgasms.
I had one regular a few years ago who would frequently get aroused on purpose... she was the only dancer I ever had who was really into her personal arousal. The room always smelled like pussy when she was done and she'd often get wet enough to notice. She came often when we went to the CR. It wasn't about me though; she did that with all her regulars I'm sure. She also changed costumes several times a night! LOL
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6 years ago
I wonder if Siren ever realized she's famous. It's like Dusty Baker, who invented the 'high five'...but few people know that.
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6 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
I support at least SOME level of moderation; perhaps we see a slippery slope ahead which I consider a good thing. Past flame wars here, and not even directed at me, have kept me away for extended periods of time. I love the SC and general sex worker topics...I hope we can restrain ourselves.
BTW there ARE Russian trolls actively participating in social media; it wasn't just a pre-election thing. If you're in a group and someone starts posting really offensive BS just to stir the pot...it's not unlikely it's one of them. That's their job. Deleting their accounts may become tedious but it's worthwhile for the goof of TUSCL.
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6 years ago
I've always hated goats, which is not a usual sentiment for someone living in the Chicago burbs. It all stared at camp when I was 10...
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6 years ago
My ATF but I won't post her picture.
As for celebrities, Mila Kunis is my type but there are better examples out there of her.
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6 years ago
I'm a long time regular. My drink is poured, the 50% tip I leave is deducted (it's only $1.50), and when my ATF is working, the other dancers know I'm useless to them.
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6 years ago
We'll get complacent if we only have the old, veteran trolls. Maybe the new ones will be more creative in their trolling.
I agree with BJ99: this group is rather intelligent overall - probably because we make enough money for dancers which as a group implies education - but I've NEVER been in a group with so many immature people. Guess it goes with the territory.
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6 years ago
Some dancers like PL's better than others so it's really about where you fit on their continuum. I tend to like a small handful of regulars, and for a dancer to become one of my regulars there has do be some kind of rapport. I know when a dancer fakes this although I appreciate that they make the effort.
The acid test is if she's bored on a slow day, will she hang with you for free or is she with her dancer friends...or another customer.
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6 years ago
I never tell dancers about TUSCL even though if they read my posts they might figure out who I am. A few years ago one of my regulars said "Hey Rockstar!" as she walked past. I thought I was busted but it just turned out to be a coincidence.
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6 years ago
One actually...
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6 years ago
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Jascoimr.wonderful to single moms and college age girls...
Well...at least 2 weeks of fame is better than 15 minutes.
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6 years ago
Lots of older dancers have been my regulars...should work for cheerleaders too.
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6 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Wow, I made the list!! Thanks!
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6 years ago
I agree with houjack. You can't advise a dancer on anything, especially about how to do her job.
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6 years ago
LOL if Trump is at 50% than we have a fake news problem indeed.
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6 years ago
I'll only mention a dancer's name if I didn't get any extras, and she was either otherwise brilliant or exceptionally awful. In fact, I don't even post that I GOT extras in any review for my normal club.
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6 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
If a dancer's BF called me, I'd drop her immediately.
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6 years ago
I'd fuck her but she's not g/f material.
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7 years ago
Vitamin V avoids this issue for me. I can be soft when I go to VIP but any dancer can quickly cure that so it's not a worry.
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7 years ago
I like women of color but I date white women too. In the club, I don't automatically take the black dancers to VIP but I do always check them out at least. I don't think it's due to my upbringing (white middle class suburbs)...like anything with race, you find out some black women are cool and some are total bitches. Same with white or Asian women.
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7 years ago
I want F/S for $200+...so it's the HJ for me at those prices.
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7 years ago
I don't tip for a service I don't want and don't need.
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7 years ago
I actually understand women once I know who they are. I understand my ATF, my regulars and my civvie girlfriends quite well. I don't always AGREE with them or their logic, but I'm not fooled by them any more.
The problems I have stem from not knowing who they are until it's too late, because women lie as much as men do.
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7 years ago
I'm with Shadowcat. I've had new (to me) dancers that I've done VIP with hit up other regulars thinking I'll still be there for her later. Last time this happened I left the club before she got around to me.
My ATF handles this well. When I arrive she always comes to me; I buy her a drink if she wants one. Then she takes care of her whales if they were already waiting, but keeps me in the loop until it's my turn by coming over to me between prior commitments.
I think the dancer jackslash had was either lazy or stupid. Either way, he did the right thing by demanding, with his actions, that she respect him as a customer. She had her chance and obviously didn't provide the service. If she just didn't like him...well that's up to her if she wants to dust a potential regular. Frankly, as long as you don't smell bad, most dancers will be your regular no matter what. Best to move on!