Will the demise of Backpage lead to Increased Traffic in Clubs??
Leonard313
Michigan
I noticed today that Backpage has been seized. I haven't used it for non-pornographic reasons since like June of last year...and I don't want to get into whether it was a "good" or "bad" thing that they shut it down. I've used it, I'm not holier than thou by any means, and I can honestly say I have mixed feelings on the issue. That aside...WILL the end of Backpage and other sites before it (Craigslist, MyRedbook, RubMaps, etc...) lead to more traffic for strip clubs?
It may in fact lead to street walking becoming more prevalent...but thats a tough and dangerous way to make a buck. Strip Clubs are essentially more entertaining and expensive versions of massage parlors (depending on the area). Will those that used to seek out extras from an escort or masseuse now just go to a club and drop some extra coin?
For me, it's always depending on what exactly I was looking for and how much coin I wanted to part with. Escorts were a cheaper option; but usually the time was short and it was a more "risky" environment. Massage parlors were cool if you liked Asians and didn't mind spending an extra $45-$85 for a very bad back massage as foreplay. Strip clubs were always the choice if I had a good deal of extra coin ($400) and wanted a place where I could sit down and chill...maybe have a $10 diet coke or two.
But nowadays, it looks like the choices are going to be limited. Guys may need to go back to clubbing for extras or trying to recruit strippers who moonlight as escorts. What do you guys think will happen??
It may in fact lead to street walking becoming more prevalent...but thats a tough and dangerous way to make a buck. Strip Clubs are essentially more entertaining and expensive versions of massage parlors (depending on the area). Will those that used to seek out extras from an escort or masseuse now just go to a club and drop some extra coin?
For me, it's always depending on what exactly I was looking for and how much coin I wanted to part with. Escorts were a cheaper option; but usually the time was short and it was a more "risky" environment. Massage parlors were cool if you liked Asians and didn't mind spending an extra $45-$85 for a very bad back massage as foreplay. Strip clubs were always the choice if I had a good deal of extra coin ($400) and wanted a place where I could sit down and chill...maybe have a $10 diet coke or two.
But nowadays, it looks like the choices are going to be limited. Guys may need to go back to clubbing for extras or trying to recruit strippers who moonlight as escorts. What do you guys think will happen??
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I guess news travels slow in Iowa.
https://www.rubmaps.ch/
SJG
Thank you!
Has SJG started going to clubs?
"I guess news travels slow in Iowa."- realDougster
No, I just tend to have porn as a hobby...not a lifestyle.
"You need to be able to have a semi intelligent conversation and most can't do that."- Pox
You must have smarter strippers in Ohio.
"I discussed this with my cat's pet iguana a few days ago. The iguana said that the dancers he is acquainted with had described a marked uptick of creepy as hell guys at the club recently." - ppwh
That relies on two false assumptions (not counting talking animals):
1. There are non-creepy guys at the club.
2. Strippers are good at math.
"I’m of the belief there will be more escorts turning to dancing to set up OTC and get a circle of regulars UTR." - lotsoffun201
Yeah. I'm kind've amused that the comments seem to differentiate strippers from escorts. I realize there are some true "dancers" out there just working their way through college, supporting a kid, or supporting a drug habit...and that some of these strippers wouldn't cross "that line". But outside of clubs in college towns that mainly employ college gals...I've seen FAR FAR more strippers that were essentially escorts working in a safe environment.
I'm not trying to slam dancers...like I said, some are out there that will kindly refuse extras and/or recommend another dancer...but lets not be nieve. If you're willing to take off your top in front of a bunch of men who throw dollar bills at you...it's not a huge leap from that to bottomless...and from bottomless to touching...and then from touching to mutual touching...to extras with certain clients...to extras with any guy that has showered and has at least $120 to spend. It's a very slippery slope that very few dancers can keep from sliding down.
Think of it monetarily, the dancer works 4-6 hours and is lucky to clear $15 per stage dance while having to pay about $200 a night to have the privledge of dancing there. In addition, there may be a drink hustle where she has to push a certain number of drinks or she has to pay the bartender. Maybe she does one lap dance an hour...maybe more...makes another $60/hr. Most strippers I've talked to...the few with answers remotely close to honest...are barely breaking even on slow nights. BUT...if she provides a couple extras in the VIP room (which she usually has to pay rent to the house for)...she might clear another $300 a night even on a slow night.
It's disappointing to me. I have mixed feelings about it(as I said before)...but there was some legitimacy to Backpage. Think of the serial killers like Gary Ridgeway (Green River Killer). Had the internet been around and he'd have used it to find some of his victims...he'd have been caught relatively quickly. The internet leaves a record...cell phones leave a record. If women are forced back onto the street...they become very vulnerable and the police will have harder times tracking down the truly deranged among us.
And it's like prohibition (or weed)...at some point we have to ask ourselves if this is something we can really stop. Men are going to want sex. Relationships are time consuming and not available to everyone. Even if they are, women in relationships may not meet the man's needs or might hold back sex as a weapon. And, there are going to women that have very little means to make money other than using their God given gifts. If there are women willing to provide it...there will be men willing to buy it. Just like drugs and alcohol...attempting to change behavior by cracking down on end-users...has never really worked.