Giving Out Girl's Names
Warrior15
Anywhere there are Titties.
I hope this doesn't come across as a rant. But maybe it is. When I give Reviews or comments in Discussion Topics, I tried to give out what I think a PL can get inside a certain club. I'm an Extras guy and am willing to tell you what I got inside a particular club. This is for informational purposes only. So that you know if that type of thing occurs there. I know I choose which clubs to go to based on if those things are a possibility.
I never give out the girl's name though. And I get asked a lot. People will PM me trying to get the girl's name. I just have a policy of not doing that. I feel it's unfair to the girl. My only exception to this might be a ROB. I would tell the world if a stripper was that.
1) I don't know who you are. This is the internet. You may be LE, the club manager, another dancer trying to get dirt on another dancer. I do not want to get the girl in trouble.
2) What she did for me might not be what she normally does. Maybe we had a spark, maybe she was drunk, maybe I slipped her a pill. i don't want the girl to get barraged with offers that she might not want.
What do you guys think ? Is it OK to give out the girl's name after she gave you some Extras ?
I never give out the girl's name though. And I get asked a lot. People will PM me trying to get the girl's name. I just have a policy of not doing that. I feel it's unfair to the girl. My only exception to this might be a ROB. I would tell the world if a stripper was that.
1) I don't know who you are. This is the internet. You may be LE, the club manager, another dancer trying to get dirt on another dancer. I do not want to get the girl in trouble.
2) What she did for me might not be what she normally does. Maybe we had a spark, maybe she was drunk, maybe I slipped her a pill. i don't want the girl to get barraged with offers that she might not want.
What do you guys think ? Is it OK to give out the girl's name after she gave you some Extras ?
Got something to say?
Start your own discussion
30 comments
I happily share the names of ROBs. That's a PSA, as far as I'm concerned.
I'm not big on reviews past the general feel of the club and the management( typically if they treat customers right they will treat everyone well unless you give them a reason not to)
I called out some newb on a penthouse Detroit post some months back and I got flamed in the comment section. Maybe I shouldn’t have introduced myself by calling him a dumbass but still. I don’t think that’s what led to the club being shit down, but all the amateur hour lawyering saying the site is a work of fiction, it’s not probable cause, etc. was mind boggling.
Keep it on the down low or in pm’s dipshits! You can still write an informative review without identifying a girl. Learn from HiLiter, PH Detroit and the other cautionary tales.
Some guys come from the escort world where explicit details including names seems to be the norm and they treat TUSCL the same way.
w.r.t. giving a dancer's name via PM, if the PL seems to have a decent TUSCL resume, then decent chance I'll give the name, but I rarely ask nor remember a dancer's name since I'm into variety and getting with her in future visits is not a priority for me, doesn't mean I won't, but not what I purposefully plan.
All of that said, as long as there are forums, there will be guys asking for names of girls who do extras. Don't let it bug you, just don't respond.
I’m not sure what good can come from dancer name sharing.
There are many downsides to name sharing - as mentioned in this thread - so it’s best to just not do it (outside of a ROB).
I try to offer a good club description - and good dancer descriptions - in my reviews. If a girl is sexy and from a certain country - I try to offer a very complimentary description. That’s where I need to scale back. In the past, I’ve been too descriptive, and that may make it easier to figure out who the dancer is. Luckily - there are quite a few dancers of a certain nationality in the club I frequent.
I never disclosed all the details in the escort world either........the reasons why may differ slightly but the concept is the same. A woman has the last word on choice and what she offers no matter what venue we play in.
I’m cautious about names in a PM but will sometimes share a bit of info there if I really trust who I’m talking to.
I'll be honest about it. There's all kinds of fun I"ve had because guys share names in TUSCL reviews. I don't typically share names, but sometimes will if it seems like a necessary detail.
Bottom line is, it is perfectly alright to let others know you had fun at a club, but do it in a respectful manner.
TUSCL review guideline states it nicely:
"You can go into detail of the private dances. Just be careful with names if it may get your ATF in trouble."
I name as many dancers that gave me a memorable time. (also use words fun times, wild times - whether extras were involved or not)
Mostly helps me with my future visits. But don't link any club-rule breaking acts to specific dancer.
A lot of pro-reviewers also do the same. Frankly, as Wall said - it is quite helpful.
I don't see the point in naming "only" the non-extras dancers while somehow not recognizing ones that were "really fun".
In which case, should I really avoid such "named" homegirls? While wondering which of the unnamed dancers are ROBs, fuglies or the real Sizzlers.
Finally, I do view the experienced TUSCL members as mature and desired (by dancers) strip-club hobbyist. TUSCL members are fair, have money and wanna have a good time. Really giving out names of fun dancers is the least we can do for each other.