Giving Out Girl's Names

You are correct. I never share names. It potentially paints a target on a girl at a number of levels.

I happily share the names of ROBs. That's a PSA, as far as I'm concerned.

I fully agree with you. I am newer to this site and some of my first reviews had more details and names. I was called out in a pm to be careful. I didn't even think about it so now I might give details about a dancer and name but I will leave out the more intimate details like grabbing my dick or fingering her pussy, that could get her in trouble. If it's not extras and your just describing her looks, attitude or body in a positive way, I don't think that's a big deal at all. Your entitled to at least do that in a complimenting way.

I'll only mention a dancer's name if I didn't get any extras, and she was either otherwise brilliant or exceptionally awful. In fact, I don't even post that I GOT extras in any review for my normal club.

100% agree Warrior

I just don't mention names period...first of all, if a girl is treating me really well, I'm selfish....you can figure it out on your own....lol....I do agree that a ROB might be a potential candidate for a warning though...especially if she gets a new guy for a couple grand for no service .... How would you like it if you named a girl and she then named you? surprise surprise...:)

I'm surprised this even needs to be said. There are so many variables with what happens between a dancer and you I'm not sure what could be gained anyway---there is very little upside and a lot of downside to giving out a name.

I'm not big on reviews past the general feel of the club and the management( typically if they treat customers right they will treat everyone well unless you give them a reason not to)

I do share dancer names in PMs with my close and trusted TUSCL buddies. All of the other inquiries I respond with no to protect myself and the dancer.

I agree with Shadowcat. Discretion is a must and there are no guarantees in this business so why set up expectations? People i trust i know ill get lucky-the rest of you? who knows?

I 100% agree. This has been a problem in my home area of Baltimore. The club management and other dancers read this site. Most activities will be fine but don’t be a dick about it and write it for the world to see. There is nothing to be gained and a shit ton to be lost.

I called out some newb on a penthouse Detroit post some months back and I got flamed in the comment section. Maybe I shouldn’t have introduced myself by calling him a dumbass but still. I don’t think that’s what led to the club being shit down, but all the amateur hour lawyering saying the site is a work of fiction, it’s not probable cause, etc. was mind boggling.

Keep it on the down low or in pm’s dipshits! You can still write an informative review without identifying a girl. Learn from HiLiter, PH Detroit and the other cautionary tales.

I occasionally share names in PM's, but I usually refrain.

Anything beyond a normal lap-dance should not be attached to a dancer's name - if the details are not extras related then giving her name is ok IMO, i.e. it gives other PLs a chance to experience her and can help her out by sending some biz her way.

Some guys come from the escort world where explicit details including names seems to be the norm and they treat TUSCL the same way.

w.r.t. giving a dancer's name via PM, if the PL seems to have a decent TUSCL resume, then decent chance I'll give the name, but I rarely ask nor remember a dancer's name since I'm into variety and getting with her in future visits is not a priority for me, doesn't mean I won't, but not what I purposefully plan.

I'm with the group above, my philosophy is that I protect the girls first and foremost; aside from being the right thing to do, my own good time will be diminished if she gets fired, arrested, confronted by a jealous BF, accosted by a rude customer who was told by me what she does, etc. I might swap names in PM, with one of the guys from the forum who I know and trust.

All of that said, as long as there are forums, there will be guys asking for names of girls who do extras. Don't let it bug you, just don't respond.

I won’t share names. I agree with Warrior15’s post.

I’m not sure what good can come from dancer name sharing.

There are many downsides to name sharing - as mentioned in this thread - so it’s best to just not do it (outside of a ROB).

I try to offer a good club description - and good dancer descriptions - in my reviews. If a girl is sexy and from a certain country - I try to offer a very complimentary description. That’s where I need to scale back. In the past, I’ve been too descriptive, and that may make it easier to figure out who the dancer is. Luckily - there are quite a few dancers of a certain nationality in the club I frequent.

A dancer recently shared my name and information about our dates. I told her she lost my business. I expect discretion and I know they expect it as well.

Some guys come from the escort world where explicit details including names seems to be the norm and they treat TUSCL the same way.

I never disclosed all the details in the escort world either........the reasons why may differ slightly but the concept is the same. A woman has the last word on choice and what she offers no matter what venue we play in.

Keep it to myself if I can even remember. I like variety so unless my brain is having a spectacular memory day it's unlikely. Think it's cool to give general descriptions but no names unless it's a ROB, then you need to make note of that on the spot and report back to the community.

If I mention getting extras I won’t attach a name to that girl. However if I’m talking about a ROB or getting just “dances” then I might say the name of the girl.

I try to not say anything in a review that will get a stripper in trouble but I try to hint at a fun club. When I mention a stripper’s name, it’s meant to give her a positive shout out in general.

I’m cautious about names in a PM but will sometimes share a bit of info there if I really trust who I’m talking to.

I tend to only read reviews for my city and the places I’ve been or will go. Maybe we all just need to use the comments to the reviews better? No explanation, just a ‘using a dancer’s name or identifying her about extras is bad for business. See the forum for more details.’ I feel like if we have a debate in the comments section of a review the message will get lost.

"I’m not sure what good can come from dancer name sharing"

I'll be honest about it. There's all kinds of fun I"ve had because guys share names in TUSCL reviews. I don't typically share names, but sometimes will if it seems like a necessary detail.

Yeah, Wall, there is the convenience factor but the risks outweigh the benefits for me. It takes a bit more work to use PMs but I think it’s prudent.

The review guidelines already state one should be careful when using dancers' names

i agree with warrior15.

no names of extras girls.

I will name ROBs if I encounter one, but other than that I don't mention dancer names for all the common sense reasons already mentioned in this thread.

Bottom line is, it is perfectly alright to let others know you had fun at a club, but do it in a respectful manner.

Like every other idiot in here I'm sure we think we are the only ones that ever get extra's. So naturally you don't want anyone else knowing there names so other dudes can get them. Keep your mouth shut and enjoy those extra's like your the only guy they give them too.

Amen. I keep names to myself. The only exception is through PMs on another regional, much lower traffic site. Even then it's just general info when requested on a specific dancer (stuff like, is she good or a ROB, is she still at so and so, how pricey, etc...)

Nice to see everyone in agreement. TUSCL review guideline states it nicely: "You can go into detail of the private dances. Just be careful with names if it may get your ATF in trouble."

I name as many dancers that gave me a memorable time. (also use words fun times, wild times - whether extras were involved or not) Mostly helps me with my future visits. But don't link any club-rule breaking acts to specific dancer. A lot of pro-reviewers also do the same. Frankly, as Wall said - it is quite helpful.

I don't see the point in naming "only" the non-extras dancers while somehow not recognizing ones that were "really fun". In which case, should I really avoid such "named" homegirls? While wondering which of the unnamed dancers are ROBs, fuglies or the real Sizzlers.

Finally, I do view the experienced TUSCL members as mature and desired (by dancers) strip-club hobbyist. TUSCL members are fair, have money and wanna have a good time. Really giving out names of fun dancers is the least we can do for each other.

I usually don't mention names except for ROBS and sometimes nasty bitches with bad attitudes.

I never mention names in reviews. Have occasionally upon request provided names via PM to members with an established TUSCL history, and have occasionally asked for names too. Not sure it does much good though. Dancers are usually so erratic the chances of actually finding one at a particular club even knowing the name are not great. I never even ask for names anymore. Plus, it’s kind of fun exploring opportunities with no real knowledge of how things will turn out. Sometimes things work out great, other times not so much, but I get kind of an adrenaline rush just exploring.