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8 years ago
The more I play this SC game, the more I appreciate smaller women, including those with A and B cups. Wide baby-making hips and a pretty face are mandatory for me. An early OTC fav was a 5'1" cutie, with curvy hips, and soft 32 DDs. Yummy!
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8 years ago
Don't care if a dancer is married.
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8 years ago
My SB calls me Big Daddy. I have more than a dozen terms of endearment for her. One of my recent favorites is Honey Boo.
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8 years ago
Suggest asking the question a bit differently: "What percentage of sex workers, who start out performing as dancers, move along the spectrum of sex work to activities generally considered prostitution or real sex for money?"
I'd say it's 100%. Chances are every stripper will find someone they really like and are happy to spend time doing something they enjoy and get a few extra bucks. No big deal.
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9 years ago
Recommend going with the big tits. Also as suggested, just fuck her. Life will be good.
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9 years ago
JS69 provided some great practical advice.
I too helped my SB exit stripping and finish her college degree. The steady SD financial support was key. Just boils down to what you truly value and want out of life.
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9 years ago
Don't over-think this. Just go ahead and fuck her, then you'll know.
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9 years ago
I had a great time at Men's Club of Reno. See my review. Really cool that takeout is readily available and sanctioned by the club, for a fee of course. Haven't run into that setup on the east coast.
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9 years ago
My first OTC was with a Korean. She had just started dancing about one month before we met. She was pretty, smart, fit and sported natural 32DD boobs. Met at a nude club. Gave her a big tip when she came around for the tip parade and asked her to swing by. Had a fun convo.
I asked her for a lap dance to test her out. At that club, patrons had the choice of a topless or nude dance. When asked my choice, I laughed and said nude of course. From the first dance, she was total GFE. Took her to VIP, her first, and helped her enjoy her first on-the-job orgasm, from riding my tongue. I fell in love and started taking her to VIP regularly.
After about a month, made the pitch for OTC. She said she'd think about it. Saw an opening for a shopping trip, which turned into a great date, including our first fuck. It was the first OTC for both of us. Loved her petite body and tapping the bottom of her vagina. Her soft bouncy breasts were a real joy.
Had two other uncompensated OTC dates, one after her club shift with an overnight stay, and a final dinner where I was kicked to the curb due to a new boyfriend. I was hurt, but we're still friends and stay in touch via text.
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9 years ago
I'd still go with #1. Describes my SB exactly, and she's wonderful!
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9 years ago
Very cool. Have fun!
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9 years ago
I love caramel chicks, and would do Paula or Kim any day of the week. But Kate is a very beautiful, naturally voluptuous woman. She's my choice of the three.
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9 years ago
No brainer...the youngster.
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9 years ago
I've had some awesome OTC experiences and some disasters that made me much more cautious in playing the OTC game. The disasters were all the result of trying to bed someone I had just met in the club, without any type of intimate dance or connection. Big mistakes. No personal safety issues, but the experiences were very unsatisfying.
Be patient and use ITC playtime for OTC screening. Whenever I've done that, OTC has worked out perfectly. In fact, in two of those cases OTC was uncompensated.
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9 years ago
Cute face is the starting point. Ugliness is a non-starter.
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9 years ago
Life is short G. Live it with no regrets. Easy to see you love her...still.
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9 years ago
Cool start to what's sure to be a great read! Best advice so far was from jackslash -- keep it real.
There are many ways to enjoy an unconventional "lifestyle" of fucking young chicks. One of the keys is disposable entertainment income. Interesting how lots of women get the "natural" idea that if a man can "afford" more than one woman, there's nothing wrong with it. Monogamy has its place, and its limits.
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9 years ago
Agree it's the allure of more financial resources and greater maturity.
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9 years ago
Lots of cool clubs in NJ, ranging from low mileage bikini clubs with some of the finest ladies on Earth to virtual brothels where you can bust a nut in 10 minutes. You just have to know what you want. NJ clubs offer one of the broadest spectrums of services and diversity of dancers in the country.
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9 years ago
poledancer83,
Thanks for this post. I've frequently thought about this question.
Before joining the strip club scene, I just accepted the societal norm that full spectrum of sex workers are bad people, simply sluts and whores. After spending time with sex workers ranging from those who wear more in a club than they would on a beach (no touch bikini clubs), to providers sucking and fucking 40-50 guys a day (Amsterdam Red Light District), I fully respect these professionals, as they render a valuable service. In the non-professional world, I don't judge anyone based on their sexual proclivities.
I fully agree with Dominic77, who best articulated the traditional double standard regarding male and female sexuality. Slut, whore and other derogatory labels are really meaningless.
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9 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
I have been away from the board for awhile, and was beginning to wonder where the Dougster was hiding. Hope he's OK. Added spice, intelligence and fun to this diverse community.
As others have probably already noted, his profile indicates he hasn't been around since November 2015.
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9 years ago
Larry, if you want to fuck her, chances are she'll say yes. You'll know a lot more after doing the deed. If she's a complete nutjob, you'll figure that out in the process. This is all adventure. Life is short. Use a condom!
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9 years ago
No
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9 years ago
I've had a fishing date work out quite well.
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9 years ago
Well said gmd!