Recently a favorite dancer of mine asked me if I would get dances from a girl if I knew she was married and then she added btw I'm not married. I told her no. That wouldn't bother me at all. I know some that are and suspect that many others are too. In fact I have no problem going to VIP with them and doing what ever they are up for. Now I do think that I would have to say no to any OTC gigs and that doesn't have anything to do with morality but rather drama and my own safety.
Then she asked about rings. Rings mean nothing. Some girls take of their wedding rings while working so that it won't run off customers. Some girls wear fake rings to keep guys from hitting on them. The same thing applies to customers.


I wouldn't mind as long as she didn't talk about him.
2 weeks ago I was in a club and this Ukrainian girl (gorgeous by the way) was flirting real hard with me. I knew it was all fake but I played along... Then she mentioned her "boyfriend" I wanted to say "way to kill the fantasy dumbass." Needless to say the dances stopped after that.
You're a fool if you don't think that 75% or more of the girls you get dances from have a boyfriend, girlfriend or are married, but it's their job not to let you know.