Married dancers
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
Recently a favorite dancer of mine asked me if I would get dances from a girl if I knew she was married and then she added btw I'm not married. I told her no. That wouldn't bother me at all. I know some that are and suspect that many others are too. In fact I have no problem going to VIP with them and doing what ever they are up for. Now I do think that I would have to say no to any OTC gigs and that doesn't have anything to do with morality but rather drama and my own safety.
Then she asked about rings. Rings mean nothing. Some girls take of their wedding rings while working so that it won't run off customers. Some girls wear fake rings to keep guys from hitting on them. The same thing applies to customers.
Then she asked about rings. Rings mean nothing. Some girls take of their wedding rings while working so that it won't run off customers. Some girls wear fake rings to keep guys from hitting on them. The same thing applies to customers.
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2 weeks ago I was in a club and this Ukrainian girl (gorgeous by the way) was flirting real hard with me. I knew it was all fake but I played along... Then she mentioned her "boyfriend" I wanted to say "way to kill the fantasy dumbass." Needless to say the dances stopped after that.
You're a fool if you don't think that 75% or more of the girls you get dances from have a boyfriend, girlfriend or are married, but it's their job not to let you know.
I have done OTC with married dancers but usually I did not know she was married and ended it when I found out. Some of the Russian and Brazilians have had husbands back home and i thought they were safe for OTC. Now I realize there are more options. I move on to someone with fewer possible problems down the road.
I also refuse to get involved with any girl married to a rick. I show the other ricks respect.
I probably don't know how many strippers with whom I've had sex over the years were married. And that doesn't bother me in the least.
Jut as long as they don't put me in their phones under "money" from now on.
In fact, she and I had serious discussions two years ago on me joining her and her husband for a threesome. It was all set up and one of her kids broke his arm hours before causing a cancellation. Since I don't live in the same town it was hard to set up another meeting.
Nowadays the only thing I expect from a dancer is for her to treat me well while she’s w/ me and I’m paying - I don’t have any expectations or requirements beyond that.
Like shailynn, I too used to be put-off when dancers talked about their S.O; nowadays I let it go-in one PL ear and out the other - as long as her service is good that's the only thing that matters.
I say HAT-UP and go for it!
What did bother me was a club in Texas where the girl was the owner's daughter. Nice Mom she had there.
Of course Follies patrons are probably a bit put off when a certain stripper watches over her daughter and niece as you grope them getting a lap dance.
I wonder what it feels like to hustle VIPs for your mom, knowing she's gonna be fucking the guy?
I knew another mother daughter duo at the Columbia Platinum Plus. Mom was jealous of her daughter's looks and daughter called her mother a big whore. They were both whores. Mom got for for stealing money from a customer and eventually married another customer. Last time I heard the daughter was still working there part time.